What I often regret is the things I have never done or the options I have not chosen. We are most of the time afraid of failure and rejection. But regret is what we should be afraid of the most. Failure is an answer. Rejection is also an answer. But regret is an eternal question that you will never get answers. ——Trevor Noah
Students who have been studying hard for 18 years are hesitant because of the oppression brought by the college entrance examination, or because they decide to give up due to fear of the future, , who would have thought that a 48-year-old aunt was planning to take the college entrance examination?
She does not have the conditions for ordinary students to study hard for eighteen years, nor does she lay the foundation step by step. She only has a heart to pursue dreams and the courage to face difficulties. She uses her own examples to convey to everyone the optimistic and positive thoughts of pursuing dreams and the truth of learning until old age. She is Cai Jiali, a 48-year-old female college student in Hubei.
1. Without conditions, you may not have dreams
Cai Jiali was born in a relatively poor family. Due to family reasons, she was transferred to a technical secondary school during middle school. After finishing the technical secondary school, she followed the system at that time and directly participated in the work and lived an ordinary life. After her continuous efforts, she became the director of the ultrasound department of Anlu Maternal and Child Health Hospital in Xiaogan City. As her children grew up, the seed buried in her heart that had been buried for thirty years gradually sprouted.
When she was 48 years old, she made a major decision that she could not let herself live in regrets and regrets. She wanted to take the college entrance examination! After making up her mind, she began to learn high school knowledge. Even though she had never been to high school, she was still full of confidence in herself.
Cai Jiali has a poor memory and does not have a professional tutor. However, with the unyielding spirit in her heart, she not only went to work as usual, but also insisted on learning textbook knowledge. In this way, she persisted and passed the difficult period of preparation for the exam.
In 2017, she took the college entrance examination and achieved a score of 320. Fortunately, the score of is just a few tens of points higher than the admission score of the clinical medicine major of Hubei Vocational College. Aunt Cai was admitted to university!
2. After successfully entering university, she has never been slacked off. At the beginning, some of the students in the class were very strange and didn’t understand why Aunt Cai already had a job but still had to go to college. We worked hard for so many years, just to find a good job and have a better life? Since Aunt Cai has lived such a good life, why should she study with someone 30 years younger than her?
Faced with doubts and criticism, Cai Jiali never stopped herself . She never missed classes and went to school in the morning and evening self-study. No matter what other students were doing, she never wastes her learning opportunities and studies professional knowledge seriously.
Students all said that Aunt Cai can often be seen appearing in the library with her backpack on her backpack. In this way, the students all accepted Aunt Cai and regarded her as their role model. admired her spirit of constantly struggling for her dreams .
In addition to studying professional courses in school, Cai Jiali has never stopped her work. She uses various fragments of time to continuously adjust the relationship between study and work. Other people's vacation is her working time, and others' study time is her study time. After two years of persistence and struggle, she became the best among hundreds of students in the 17th grade, and even became the first in the major and received the national scholarship that every college student dreams of.
3. The figure of hard work should be remembered at any time.
The impetuous and eager environment of contemporary society is subtly changing people's thinking and living habits. More people are eager to get rich overnight and become famous overnight through the Internet and platform sales, but few people are willing to work silently and steadily. Some people like the flashy surprise and hate the down-to-earth calmness. Cai Jiali's university notice verifies all her efforts.
Our society needs people like her to help us believe in beauty. She gave herself to the busyness and gained her dreams and the respect of countless people . She can study hard with the "5+2" and "white and black" model. The cycle of day after day has never fallen. She can endure loneliness. She only rests at home for one night a week, and sometimes even meets her husband who works in the criminal police brigade once a month. They all know that hard work like is to achieve a better self .
After the sophomore year, Cai Jiali was preparing for an internship like all college students. In addition to these, she also had to do housework at home. Seeing her old mother getting sick, she said with heartache, "She is sick, she sees me too busy, and she keeps holding back." She shed tears while shedding tears. They understand and respect each other's lives.
Cai Jiali always encounters a lot of difficulties in her study. She had huge problems when she first prepared for the college entrance examination. She had never been to high school and had a good breakthrough in liberal arts, but mathematics is a big problem. She knew her weaknesses and put her advantages to the extreme. Although she only scored 20 points in the college entrance examination, her overall scores achieved ideal results. After going to college, she encountered more difficulties.
In the eyes of medical students, biochemistry is no less difficult than the advanced mathematics that other majors need to learn. In order to learn this professional course well, Cai Jiali always humbly asks students with high attainments in this area. Sometimes, she can't solve the problem of , so she is very "impatient" and takes the attitude of studying and learning. When the exam is finished, her final scores reached the excellent standard.
4. Don’t let dreams become just dreams. While everything is too late
In addition to continuous improvement and improvement of itself, Cai Jiali will also often help students to study. If students have professional knowledge that they don’t understand, they will ask Aunt Cai for advice. With many years of practical experience, Cai Jiali will tell the students everything she can say. She said: "Medical students have a heavy academic burden, our study period is short, and they need a lot of self-study after class. Since I have work experience, I will learn faster, so I should naturally help them."
Cai Jiali’s success has affected many young people who are hesitant at the intersection of whether to continue chasing dreams. Some students will immediately carry their schoolbags and Aunt Cai when they see Aunt Cai.
and many of Cai Jiali's young colleagues, after listening to Cai Jiali's encouragement, were admitted to different excellent universities. She influenced thousands of people in her own way.
As for Cai Jiali herself, she still has bigger dreams. "Actually, I want to go to college to undergraduate, but I'm too busy with work and don't study now. I feel that the teachers are a little disappointed. However, when I retire, I still want to fulfill a dream I was a child: learn to draw." For Cai Jiali, constantly improving herself is the way to go in life. Don't let dreams be just a dream, and is there when everything is too late!
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