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Author: Menglu
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Speaking of Taiwanese actress Zhao Xiaoqiao, many people may not know it, but when it comes to Mingdao and Chen Qiaoen "The Prince Turns into a Frog" will definitely remind you of her role in it.
The entertainment industry is a place where youth thrives. Many female celebrities give up a lot of power that belongs to their age in order to achieve financial freedom as soon as possible.
Maybe this is the price they have to pay! The same is true for Zhao Xiaoqiao .
spent all his time and energy on his career when he was young. It was not until 2017 that he entered into marriage with his second boyfriend who was 12 years older than him.
My husband has a lovely son with his ex-wife, and he is very affectionate to her. This is a blessing for the 37-year-old woman. She does not have to become an advanced maternal mother for the so-called inheritance of the family line, let alone have a child. Give up the career that you have worked hard for for many years.
But many women, like Zhao Xiaoqiao, still have an obsession with their children, even if their own situation does not allow them to still take risks.
There is a line in "Aunt Duohe" that children are the relatives they create.
Zhao Xiaoqiao just wanted to have such a loved one of her own creation, so she gave up many job opportunities, had one artificial insemination and two in vitro fertilization, and received hundreds of injections, and finally became pregnant with this child.
On February 19, 2021, her husband happily announced the good news of her pregnancy on social platforms on her behalf, and there was happiness between the lines.
Ke announced to all those who loved her through the fan meeting on the 7th day after the official announcement that the child had stopped growing and for the sake of the mother's body, the decision to abort must be made.
Nowadays, pregnancy and childbirth have become more and more difficult problems for young men and women. Faced with the difficulty of welcoming the arrival of a child, I am delighted that more than three years of hard work has finally paid off.
But God is so unfair. When you are still immersed in joy, he will give you a heavy blow without warning, causing you to fall apart at some point for many years.
To be honest, I admire women like Zhao Xiaoqiao who insist on having a child of their own regardless of everything else.
In their hearts, the arrival of a child allows them to sacrifice everything. Their self-discipline and sacrifice are beyond what a woman should bear.
But can such obsession really make you happy? After Zhao Xiaoqiao gives birth to a child, will she definitely get everything she wants?
is obviously not!
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Yang Lan once said that marriage requires another kind of bond besides love. The most tenacious thing is not the children, nor the interests and money, but the sincere loyalty.
According to media reports, the relationship between Zhao Xiaoqiao and her husband is very loving, and her stepson also respects her very much.
One of the most important factors for Zhao Xiaoqiao's desire to have a child is to make the relationship between husband and wife more stable. After all, as the old saying goes, children are the bond that cannot be let go between husband and wife.
But her body has long been unsuitable for pregnancy. She has suffered enough during the three or four years of marriage, and her husband's love for her has not diminished at all because she has no children.
As Zhao Xiaoqiao who has his own career, there is really no need to lock his future in marriage, let alone the obsession with children.
Since you are no longer destined to have a child, you might as well let yourself go, manage your relationship well, and devote yourself to the career you love.
Zhao Xiaoqiao’s husband is not from a so-called wealthy family, but many actresses become fertility machines in disguise when they marry into wealthy families. Just like the Taiwanese actress 小s, who married Xu Yajun and gave birth to three daughters non-stop.
At that time, some people teased that little S was either pregnant or on the way to becoming pregnant.
Rich families' love for men is a problem left over from history. But society is always progressing, especially for an influential female host like Xiao S in Taiwan. She has complete control over her future life.
After giving birth to three daughters, she had an epiphany, publicly announced her pregnancy, and focused on her career. Although she did not have many works, she was still an influential female variety show host.
Although there were many voices questioning her marriage, she never paid attention to it. She trained her daughter to become a dance competition champion, and her eldest daughter became the spokesperson of an international brand of trendy clothing at a young age and appeared in fashion magazines.
is just like little S. Maybe she will never have a son in her life, so after giving birth to three daughters, she chooses to let herself go and accept that she cannot be "perfect".
But God is fair. When he closed a door for you, he opened a window for you and gave her three very outstanding and motivated daughters. The future is promising!
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Whether it is you and me in the entertainment industry or in life, everyone has a highly unified aesthetic for women - white, thin and young!
There are many actresses who have insisted on losing weight for many years in order to maintain everyone's strict aesthetic requirements.
I remember Carina Lau once said in public that she had hardly had enough to eat since her debut!
The life that many people take for granted is a luxury for them.
But there are still many thin and thin female stars in the entertainment industry. When they really can't control their mouths and can't move their legs, they simply let themselves go and find another way to become the most talented fat girl.
This is Jia Ling !
She graduated from the Central Academy of Drama . She persisted for many years, but still could not move out of the basement in Beijing. She was even asked to back out and return to her hometown in the countryside many times.
finally started his own cross talk career with the help of several seniors.
took a road that had not been taken for many years. On this road, she was immediately recognized and allowed to attend the Spring Festival Gala, which completely opened up her popularity.
The film "Hello, Li Huanying " directed by her in memory of her mother has exceeded the box office of 4.5 billion, becoming the highest-grossing female director in the world.
The ultimate dream of many actors is to act, and if you are good at directing, Jia Ling cannot become a better actor, so she can only save the country through curves. She started by talking about cross talk, and finally became a director that everyone envied.
To be honest, maybe he continued his dream of being an actor and did not get involved in the cross talk industry. Maybe there would be no Jia Ling today.
There are always so many unsatisfactory things waiting for us in life. When we constantly contend with them, we will find that our power is so meager.
Since you can’t cross over, it’s better to let yourself go, live according to the way you want most, and become a better version of yourself.
When you let go of your obsession, you will see the scenery that you once ignored, and you will find that there are many possibilities in life, and there is no need to confine yourself to one of them.
is like Taiwanese actress Zhao Xiaoqiao. Since she has been working hard for three years and still cannot become a mother, let her go.
Love your husband’s son twice as much and manage your marriage better. Maybe you will receive a better gift than being a mother!
Just like what is said in "Silent Confession", our whole life is to get rid of the expectations of others and find the true self.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifetime of romance, and this starts with letting yourself go!
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