What is happiness?
Happiness means that although we are poor, everyone is in good health.
I will find a quiet place and stay quietly. I will not apologize, say goodbye, or complain.
I will only have thanks.
I want to thank you for being with us again.
Five years ago, Li Yong described his "last day of life" on the stage of " Super Speaker ".
Five years later, he left this world silently just as he said.
Zweig said: "When a person is young, he always thinks that disease and death will only patronize others."
But in fact, fate has spared no one.
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Life is impermanent and changes day by day.
Li Yong, a legendary host on CCTV.
Inspired by programs such as " lucky 52", " very 6+1", "CCTV Spring Festival Gala" and other programs, Li Yong became "China's most valuable host" in just 7 years, with a net worth of 420 million and owns a sports car worth 1.7 million.
He has a happy family and is worth a lot of money. No matter how you look at it, Li Yong is a successful person.
But even such a successful person, even though he spent all his money and energy, could not take back his life from the hands of death.
Li Yong, who is smiling, naughty like a child, and often making his signature gestures, seems to have never left the stage of "Extraordinary 6+1" in our memory.
But in fact, he left CCTV as early as 2013, started a new business with his wife harwen, and produced multiple variety shows.
Around 2013, Li Yong left CCTV. Regarding the turmoil caused by his departure, CCTV also had a dedicated person respond to it. Li Yong once mentioned that he was actually too tired.
Subsequently, there were reports that Li Yong’s family immigrated to the United States. Suddenly all the malice poured into the family. But who knew that Li Yong's running away was actually to treat cancer .
17 months and 510 days later, this family pinned their hopes on the most medically developed country in the world, but the outcome was unfortunate.
In this long 510-day battle with cancer, no one knows what kind of suffering and pain this family has experienced.
But Li Yong’s time is still permanently stuck at 5:20 am on October 25, 2018.
Subsequently, on October 29, 2018, Hawen posted on Weibo to confirm that Li Yong passed away due to illness:
"In the United States, after 17 months of anti-cancer treatment, at 5:20 a.m. on October 25, 2018, he passed away forever. I love..."
Life in this world is like a fleeting moment, just suddenly.
Without health, I want to press the accelerator every day in this world, but I am just hanging on.
The body is the capital of revolution. Without health, everything is in vain.
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In some interviews, we can vaguely see that Li Yong's physical condition has always been very worrying.
suffers from insomnia to the point where he needs to take the maximum dose of sleeping pills to fall asleep; he even vomited during the recording of the program.
But Li Yong never stopped his work because of his health. This seemed to be a very dedicated job, but at the same time, he was also overdrafting his body and committing suicide!
God treats each of us equally, and disease will not let you go just because you are rich or poor.
In 2018 alone, too many people we know have left us...
On January 1, dancer and actor Wang Miao passed away due to ineffective treatment for gastric cancer. It was only 20 days from admission to death;
March 18 On September 28, the famous singer Zang Tianshuo died of lung cancer at the age of 54; on October 25, the famous host Li Yong died of cancer. , died at the age of 50;
Before there were Yao Beina, Luo Jing, Chen Xiaoxu, Xu Ting, Fu Biao... They left us one by one.
It is not difficult to see that the news of their death is actually a reminder to everyone who does not respect their own bodies: All work is ultimately about the body, and we should take care of our bodies.
Before that, Qiu Chen, the winner of the second season of " strange stories ", revealed that she was diagnosed with thyroid cancer and lymph node metastasis in March this year.
She said that she finally felt seriously that " death" is the most accurate education for life. can illuminate us and force us to change those self-righteous bad habits.
After she became ill, she began to go to bed early and get up early.
Their company goes to work at 11 o'clock every day, and she usually gets up before six o'clock.
One hour for exercise, one hour for reading, and one hour for meditation.
And her work and rest is just the smallest change in her body. Her views on career, the world, others and herself have all changed a lot.
Only when we face death can we see clearly what is truly important in life!
As long as a person lives, life and death are trivial matters. Everything can be squandered, but not the body!
Schopenhauer once said: "The biggest mistake human beings can make is to exchange health for other things outside the body."
Never wait until the balance of life is insufficient before you start thinking about the meaning of life.
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What should we pursue in the second half of life?
Fame, wealth and success?
A few years ago, the cancer diary of Yu Juan, a young teacher at Fudan University, aroused strong reactions.
She recorded those dark and cruel days in her blog, and reflected on whether she had used too much force when chasing her dreams:
"Looking back on the past 10 years, I almost never slept before 12 o'clock. Studying, taking GT exams, etc. seem to be difficult now." A worthless certificate, the postgraduate entrance examination is a grand reason.
At the same time, chatting, BBS trolling, disco, karaoke, bowling, eating, and being alone fill up every night without a grand reason. When you are good, you stay up all night. . "
It wasn't until one day that she found herself lying on the hospital bed, looking at her son who was less than two years old, and her husband and mother who looked desperate, and she was helpless, that she suddenly realized that all the "desperate efforts" in the past were in vain. It has become a mirror image.
In the end, Yu Juan passed away suddenly, even though she still had expectations for the future in her heart, even though her eyes were full of nostalgia for this world.
How many people stay up the longest night while applying the most expensive facial mask; how many people collect health guides while working overtime until late at night; how many people get drunk every day and night at the liquor store while going to Put wolfberry in the cup.
talks about keeping in good health, but his body is committing suicide.
In this life, there is not only work and overtime, but also the people you love and the people who love you.
Dinners, overtime subsidies, and even the illusory reputation are really worthless in front of them.
Life is too short. If you don’t take care of your body, time will really punish you mercilessly.
At that time, no amount of fame can save your life that is about to be taken away by death, and no amount of money can exchange for the time you spend with your family day and night.
When that time comes, it is nonsense for you to take good care of your body.Life will not give you a chance to come back!
The rest of your life is short, so take good care of your body for the sake of the people you care about!
Money is a good thing, but the prerequisite is that you must "afford it".
The greatest sorrow in life is not failure, but insufficient strength.
I saw this sentence before:
"One day, when you are brilliant, you must have a good body to enjoy life. One day, when you are down, you still need to have a good body to make a comeback."
The money is gone You can earn more, and if your job is gone, you can find it again, but if your life is gone, everything is gone.
Health has never been an optional question, but a required question!
Although health often goes out without saying hello, as long as you pay attention to it and take care of it, one day it will come back on its own.
For the rest of your life, I hope you understand that health is the longest love confession!
