Xu Zhimo, a great talent in the Republic of China, has extremely high literary achievements, and is a representative poet of the Crescent School. He worships Liang Qichao as his teacher, Shen Junru is his cousin, Jin Yong is his cousin, Qiong Yao is his niece, and he is also related to Li Linsi and Qian Xuesen. For Xu Zhimo, later generations mostly talked about his love history.
Xu Zhimo's love history
Xu Zhimo's life is passionate, his love history is long, and most of his counterparts are famous ladies. The wife of is Zhang Youyi who arranged the marriage, and her dream lover is Lin Huiyin, a talented girl in the Republic of China. The crazy pursuer and married Lu Xiaoman and were once married, as well as a pink confidant like Ling Shuhua. I also frequent celebrities such as Bing Xin, Yu Shan, Han Xiangmei, and Pearl Buck.
If it were not for Xu Zhimo's early death in the plane crash, I am afraid that he will still have romance after his middle age. And now Xu Zhimo's most well-known love affairs are only Zhang Youyi, Lin Huiyin, and Lu Xiaoman.
Zhang Youyi is Xu Zhimo's original wife, who is married to the Ming media. However, in the Republic of China, Xu Zhimo was the only son of the Xu family and he was very much loved. He longed for romantic love and was completely impatient with arranged marriages. To his wife Zhang Youyi, always call her the countryside ruthlessly. "Tubaozi".
Lin Huiyin is Xu Zhimo's dream lover. They met in the right years and knew each other. Even if they didn't achieve a positive result, they were still Xu Zhimo's cinnabar mole, white moonlight.
Lu Xiaoman is Xu Zhimo’s lover who has gone through a thousand sails. She was originally the wife of Xu Zhimo’s friend Wang Geng . used to be Gu Weijun’s diplomatic interpreter. She is good at poetry, painting, opera, and can write good articles. After the two met, they fell in love. Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo soon after their divorce.
Xu Zhimo is passionate all his life, but these three women are the strong colors in his life.
Xu Zhimo and his family
Xu Zhimo was only thirty-four years old when he died. He had only one son. He was the eldest son Xu Jikai born to him by his wife Zhang Youyi, whose name was A Huan. At the age of thirty-four, many people in modern times are still not married, but Xu Zhimo's love history has been long. His wife, Zhang Youyi, has always been disliked by him, and is full of scumbag feelings towards her.
However, Zhang Youyi is not a country girl. Her family is also a scholarly family in Jiangsu. Her father and brother have a lot of status in both political and economic circles. Not only has she received a good education within the family, she is still in a new style. The women’s normal school has received advanced education. And the Xu family and the Zhang family were married, Xu Zhimo knew from beginning to end. Even before and after marriage, he and Zhang Youyi’s older brothers had a good relationship.
This is really a weird thing now, but people at the time seemed to accept it well. Zhang Youyi married into Xu's family when he was fifteen years old, gave her husband and taught her son, served in-laws, and took care of housework. did everything a traditional wife could do. However, Xu Zhimo has no emotion towards her. Except for occasionally fulfilling his husband and wife duties when returning home, he basically spends his time in school.
went to Baptist College in Shanghai, Peiyang University in Tianjin, and Peking University. A memoir of the Republic of China said that Xu Zhimo had dinner with his friends. The dining hall always said that he was going to get divorced or divorced. After the meal, Zhang Youyi was asked to pay for it, which made his friends very embarrassed. Zhang Youyi gave birth to a son when he was eighteen, and Xu Zhimo immediately went abroad to study.
He went to America and then to England. After Lin Changmin recommended to study at Cambridge University, but also met Lin Changmin's daughter Lin Huiyin. Lin Huiyin is beautiful and intelligent, studious and dexterous, and is the goddess of many people. At that time, Lin Huiyin was determined to study architecture and at the same time developed a strong interest in new poetry. Xu Zhimo happened to be the best at new poetry. Xu Zhimo pursued Lin Huiyin frantically, but Lin Huiyin was unwilling to provoke a married man.
At this time, Zhang Youyi also arrived in the UK. It's funny, Xu Zhimo is not willing to accept a wife, but the family wants to send Zhang Youyi to meet him, but he doesn't object. After Zhang Youyi arrived in the UK, he disliked in every way and wanted to get a divorce without delaying him pulling Zhang Youyi to bed. Zhang Youyi was pregnant, and he immediately gave her an abortion. Zhang Youyi didn't want to, so he left the people in the country.
Zhang Youyi has a big belly and was thrown by her husband at language barrierIn a foreign country, I can't speak with fear in my heart. She kept in touch with her second brother and gave birth to her youngest son Peter in Germany. Xu Zhimo knew Zhang Youyi's situation, but he hardened his heart to ignore it. After the birth of the youngest son, he immediately went to Berlin and Zhang Youyi to go through the divorce procedures, and left without looking back. The child died early because of congenital weakness.
Zhang Youyi's eldest son, A Huan, became Xu Zhimo's only child for the rest of his life. After the divorce, Xu Zhimo pursued Lin Huiyin more enthusiastically, but after rational thinking, Lin Huiyin rejected the relationship. She and her father returned to China early to continue their studies. After that, Liang Sicheng and Liang Sicheng went to the United States to study architecture. After the marriage, the couple moved forward together and made outstanding contributions to China's construction industry.
Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman fell in love again. Maybe the love in this world is really for no reason. Zhang Youyi is good in everything, but Xu Zhimo just doesn't like it. Lu Xiaoman has all kinds of shortcomings, marrying her will have to face all kinds of wind and rain, but Xu Zhimo behaves like a sweetheart.
In order to marry Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo tried his best to ask Wang Geng to agree to the divorce, Lu Xiaoman's parents to accept, and Xu's parents to agree. Even in response to family appeals, Zhang Youyi's consent was obtained. Liang Qichao promised to witness their marriage, but at the wedding he criticized Xu Zhimo's love affairs and expressed strong dissatisfaction. After
got married, the Xu family cut off Xu Zhimo's source of income, but Lu Xiaoman still maintained his previous extravagant consumption methods. For his wife's happiness, Xu Zhimo simply accommodated her. In order to support his family, he lectured at three schools at the same time, and had to write poems to earn manuscript fees after class. Maybe love is so unreasonable. How ruthless Xu Zhimo is towards Zhang Youyi is just how affectionate he is towards Lu Xiaoman.
As for whether Xu Zhimo will have a different perception and lifestyle after being hit by life, we also don't know, because he passed away early and the conclusion is made. What he left to the world was the image of such a passionate boy.
Xu Zhimo's only son
When Xu Zhimo died, Lu Xiaoman was only 29 years old and had no children. In other words, Xu Zhimo's only son was the Xu Jikai who had been rejected by him in every possible way and had not been brought up. Although Xu Jikai is not liked by his father, he is a single biography of the Xu family, and has been favored by the Xu family since childhood. According to , he took a stylus when he caught the week in a hundred days. His grandfather was very happy, thinking that this son could enter politics, so he named him Ji Kai.
But in Xu Jikai's later life, he first worked as a civil engineer and then a businessman, with nothing to do with politics. Xu Zhimo studied abroad when he was born, and after Zhang Youyi went abroad, he was taken care of by his grandparents. After the divorce, Zhang Youyi was reborn as president of a commercial bank, general manager of a clothing company, and managed finances for the party. Xu Jikai went to Beijing to study with his mother for a while, and then lived with his grandmother in Shanghai.
Xu Jikai has a fulfilling life without the panic of left-behind children. When Xu Zhimo died, Xu Jikai was only thirteen years old. Before he could resent his father, he began to sympathize and understand naturally. At the time, many people believed that Xu Zhimo's death was a relief because he began to be trapped in the poverty and emotional fetters of life. Others believe that Xu Zhimo's death has sublimated his life and left a legend to the world.
Some people compare Xu Zhimo with Byron Shelley and think that Xu Zhimo is very longing for their short and prominent life, and he has also been such a person. It is not an honor. However, Xu Jikai felt that Xu Zhimo's life was too bitter. What does
suffer? Probably I have never opened my arms in my life. Xu Zhimo has the political ideals of realizing freedom and democracy, the romance of looking for love and love, and the literary pursuit of perfect creation. But none of this has been achieved. How difficult the affairs of the country are, he is unable to involve a literati.
emotional ups and downs, he just got the love he pursued. But love and life did not give him the pure romance in his ideal, but left a place of panic. He hadn't overcome these difficulties before his life came to an abrupt end.
Xu Jikai said that several of his father's old friends had embraced left and right, and were merciful at all times, each enjoying his life and enjoying the happiness of family. But his father died young, and all of this is impossible to have. He had dinner with Hu Shi. Hu Shi was in his old age, but he still took a young American girlfriend. Xu Jikai sighed, if his father is not dead,Even at the age of eighty or ninety, she will be very feminine.
I didn't expect that the person who understands Xu Zhimo the most in the world is actually the son of him and Zhang Youyi. Xu Jikai also has a corresponding understanding of his father's emotions, but he is not easy to evaluate for the Son of Man. He only said that his mother did not hate Lin Huiyin and sympathized with Lu Xiaoman most.
Indeed, for Xu Zhimo, Lin Huiyin is just a representation of the lover of his dreams, she is beautiful, bright, and literary. His pursuit of Lin Huiyin and abandonment of Zhang Youyi are precisely his ideal choices for his life. Zhang Youyi represents the decadent backwardness he wants to abandon, and Lin Huiyin represents the advanced freedom he wants to pursue.
However, it is ironic that Lin Huiyin and Zhang Youyi are not the characters in his imagination. Zhang Youyi seems to be traditional and conservative, but on the other hand, she is flexible and inside. Facing the embarrassing reality, she walked out of the road of Kangzhuang. The photos of her later years are introverted, just like transparent pearls.
Lin Huiyin seems to be small and delicate, but she is grandiose. For her architectural pursuit, she insisted on doing fieldwork in the most difficult years of war. She and Liang Sicheng traveled to 15 provinces and more than 190 counties and surveyed and mapped nearly 3,000 ancient buildings.
can work until midnight even in low farmhouses, without suffering from the turbulent life. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, Lin Huiyin undertook the design and renovation of Beijing City and a series of buildings, and truly realized his life value.
Conclusion
In a sense, Zhang Youyi and Lin Huiyin are not the same as Xu Zhimo. Although they regretted their separation, they were all fulfilled.
and Lu Xiaoman, although she is sensitive, extravagant, and playful, there are various bad rumors. But she is indeed a literary and artistic youth with the same temperament as Xu Zhimo. Xu Zhimo, an unruly and rebellious Xu Zhimo, is willing to whisper for her, and is willing to work hard for her. If this is not love, what is it?
After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman suffered many unbearable rumors and accusations. She changed her social style in the past, staying behind closed doors for many years, and devoted herself to organizing and publishing Xu Zhimo's posthumous works. Over the past few decades, the bitterness and sourness are beyond words. He did not remarry and had no children. He died in Shanghai at the age of 62.
Zhang Youyi remarried at the age of 49, and died peacefully at the age of 88. Her children and grandchildren were around her knees. She was not satisfied. She had no complaints about Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman. He pushed himself to others, but sympathized with Lu Xiaoman's helplessness in his later years and no children under his knees.
Lin Huiyin died of illness at the age of 51 in Tongren Hospital, but her body was buried in the Babaoshan Revolutionary Cemetery. The tombstone is engraved with "Architect Lin Huiyin's Tomb". The white marble carving below the tombstone is the base sample of the Monument to the People's Heroes, and is hereby dedicated to her creation. By. Years of fieldwork has eroded her health, but the ideal she has pursued throughout her life has been most recognized.
Xu Jikai is also a long-lived person. He is 102 years old and has one son and three daughters. The family settled in the United States, but from time to time, he would return home to worship his ancestors. His character comes from his mother, optimistic and open-minded. Lu Xiaoman had a poor life in his later years, and he was also funded by Zhang Youyi and Xu Jikai. After Lu Xiaoman passed away, he took over the publishing of Xu Zhimo's works. Although the relationship between the father and son is shallow, Xu Jikai remains deeply sympathetic and tolerant of his late father's emotions. Xu Zhimo's love for Ruosi, and his son is like this, and it is worthwhile to walk through the world!
