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He is a combat hero in self-defense counterattack against Vietnam . He once resisted explosives and blew up enemy defense fortifications in the rain of bullets. The army awarded first-class merit , and he became a national idol overnight and gained love. But just five years later, his wife sued him. Behind this case, there are also bloody and tears of twelve families involved.
The combat hero is named Du Haishan. What did he do and actually sued his wife in court. What happened to the twelve families behind it? The story has to be told from the beginning.
In April 1984, the communication room of a military region in Kunming suddenly received a summons from the court. Instructed to ask an officer named Du Haishan to attend the defendant in court. As soon as the news came out, the military region was in an uproar and no one could believe that this was true.
Because Du Haishan is a well-known combat hero, he won the first-class merit in the 1979 counterattack against Vietnam. Du Haishan works hard and is kind to others on weekdays, and has never had any quarrels with others.
And most of his life is either in military academy or in military camps. Even if there is friction with others, people in the military region should know it as soon as possible. How could he be summoned by the court?
As the news came further, everyone realized that it was Du Haishan's wife Li Weiping who sued him and demanded a divorce. Hearing this news, the military region caused another uproar.
Because of that era, it was more conservative than today. Even if there were domestic violence, the woman would endure it and spend her whole life with little to file for divorce.
Now the woman has taken the initiative to file for divorce, there must be a huge hidden story here. Could it be that Du Haishan has a problem with his lifestyle?
For soldiers, work style problems are a serious problem, and it means a person's character. And because of Du Haishan's identity as a combat hero, the military vigorously promoted his heroic deeds.
If his style problems are exposed at this time, it will inevitably have an irreversible negative impact on the image of the army.
In view of the seriousness of the situation, the military leaders personally found Du Haishan to find out the situation. Du Haishan firmly said that he did not abuse his wife, nor did he do anything to be sorry for his wife.
But he kept silent about why his wife appealed to her. The leader believed in Du Haishan's character and could not find the result, so he no longer insisted on asking questions. He just repeatedly reminded him not to let his wife Li Weiping down.
Although the leader no longer asked questions, the court's subpoena has been delivered and the military must cooperate, so Du Haishan has to go to court and be tried.
Time soon came the court day. Facing the judge, his wife Li Weiping burst into tears in pain and accused all kinds of hatred for Du Haishan. These things are summed up in three words, regardless of family.
In fact, as a military family, Li Weiping could understand Du Haishan's long-term failure to return home. Because of their identity as soldiers, they can only stay in the military camp most of the time. But what she couldn't understand was that since she got married, Du Haishan's money sent home was getting less and less.
At the beginning, Li Weiping also expressed his understanding, thinking that it might have just settled in the army and spent a lot of money to buy various items. It would be great if you wait for this period of time, and my husband is not a person who likes to waste money, and his life will get better and better.
But all this changed with the birth of the child. After having children, all kinds of expenses became larger, but the money Du Haishan sent back not only did not increase, but sometimes it was even less. And this is not because Du Haishan is short of money.
Because during this period, as a combat hero, he made speeches nationwide, and his income from labor remuneration alone was quite considerable. Not to mention that after graduating from the military academy, Du Haishan successfully promoted to and became the deputy company commander, enjoying the treatment of an officer.
So in theory, it is completely fine to have his income and want the family to live a good life.But every time he sent home the money was always so small, which made Li Weiping confused.
And the burden of life has also crushed Li Weiping from a young and beautiful girl to a yellow-faced woman who is worried about the food and food.
From time to time, there are uneasy and kind villagers teasing her, saying that she is not as good as a farmer who eats well after marrying an officer. Who knows what Du Haishan spends his money outside to do?
Li Weiping has asked Du Haishan about money more than once, but Du Haishan has always refused to give a positive answer. This made Li Weiping very sad because he was supporting his family and it was difficult to do anything without money.
Adults can endure hardships, but they cannot let their children suffer. In addition, the neighbors' mouths are talking about each other every day. Li Weiping finally couldn't stand it anymore, so he sued Du Haishan in the court and demanded a divorce!
Du Haishan in court looked at his crying wife and the judge with a pale face, and finally told the past that had been covered in his heart for many years. Unexpectedly, after the story was told, the audience burst into applause and everyone burst into tears.
Du Haishan told the dusty past in court. It was February 1979, and the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam officially started. Du Haishan was the deputy squad leader of a squad of the 129th Division at that time.
At that time, they were sent to the front line of Lang Son to fight against the enemy. Under the fierce attack of our army, the Vietnamese army retreated step by step, so they reduced their troops to the building of Lang Son government agencies to resist stubbornly.
Because this building was built in the specifications of military bunkers before the war, it is extremely sturdy. Moreover, the Vietnamese army also arranged various light and heavy weapons in the building. If our army attacked rashly, there would be heavy casualties and injuries.
In view of this situation, the superior ordered Du Haishan's squad to be the sharp knife squad to blow up the building and open the way for the large troops behind. Although this mission is a life-threatening death, obeying orders is the duty of a soldier.
So the squad leader called everyone together and formulated a combat plan for the blasting building.
After nightfall, the battle is about to begin. Faced with this life-and-death battle, the squad leader asked everyone if they were afraid, and the soldiers roared in unison, not afraid.
Looking at the high fighting spirit of these teenagers in their twenties, he was also full of confidence in the successful completion of the task. However, he continued to instruct: No matter who among us is killed, the surviving brothers will help him support his family. The soldiers agreed with tears in their eyes.
At the early morning of the morning, the general attack began. The squad leader hugged his waist and rushed out with the explosive bag first, and the others followed. But unfortunately, everyone was soon discovered by the Vietnamese army, and the machine gun nailed the soldiers to the ground. In less than twenty minutes of fighting, more than half of the people in the class were injured and killed. However, under the warriors' charge without fear, they finally arrived at the corner of the building.
Just as the squad leader was about to lead people to blast the building, the hidden Vietnamese army discovered that the bullet penetrated the chests of the squad leader and three teammates.
All of this was clearly seen by Du Haishan, who was the deputy squad leader at the time, but he had no time to be sad. Instead, he took advantage of the Vietnamese army's firepower being attracted by the squad leader and rushed forward with two other comrades, and then threw explosive bags into the Lang Son Building.
After a loud bang, the enemy's fortifications were successfully destroyed. However, because Du Haishan and the other two were too close to the blasting point, they were blown away by the explosion airflow. Du Haishan fainted on the spot.
When he opened his eyes again, he was already lying in the field hospital of the army. The soldiers next to him told him that you have made great contributions and the troops have successfully occupied the Lang Son Building, and the enemy was severely attacked.
But what Du Haishan cares about most is not his credit. He hurriedly asked, Where is my comrade-in-arms? Where is my comrade? The reply I got was that they all sacrificed, and you were the only one living.
Hearing this news, the man with a rock heart burst into tears. An ending like
is too cruel for him. At this time, Du Haishan suddenly remembered what the squad leader told everyone that whoever survived would have to take care of other brothers' families.Since then, Du Haishan has decided to fulfill this promise for life.
He divides his salary and bonus into 12 pieces every month, 11 of which are sent to the families of the sacrificed brothers, and he leaves only the least one to send it home. After the war ended, Du Haishan won the first-class merit for his outstanding performance in the bombing of Lang Son Building and was awarded the title of second-level combat hero by the army. He then gave speeches across the country and became a popular national idol.
In this process, he also successfully met his later wife, Li Weiping. At that time, Li Weiping was a female student at Shandong Agricultural University. After hearing Du Haishan's heroic deeds, she admired her and took the initiative to pursue her.
Finally, he lived happily with Du Haishan as he wished. Since ancient times, beauties have matched heroes, and everyone is very optimistic about their marriage.
Then Du Haishan was selected to study in the military academy, and after graduation, he was directly promoted to the deputy company commander.
can be said to have a bright future. But the higher the praise from the outside world, the more he feels sorry for his dead comrades. In his dreams, he often returned to the battlefield of Lang Son Building and saw the Vietnamese army's searchlight , the machine gun spraying with fire, and the red blood of the corpses of his comrades.
So after receiving a considerable salary for speeches and a high salary for officers, he sent most of them to his dead comrades’ wives and children and parents. Only a small part of
is left to send it home. For five years, it has been like this every year. This is the proof of his persistence in his oath, and it is also the reason why his wife Li Weiping wants to divorce him.
After telling this story, Du Haishan bowed deeply to Li Weiping and said, "You have suffered with me over the years. I am a selfish person. I am sorry for you. I agree to the divorce judgment."
After listening to this story, Li Weiping was also shocked. She always thought that her husband sent so much money to go home and was stealing someone outside. But I didn't expect to be helping my comrades-in-arms' family.
So she immediately said with tears in her eyes: She took back her divorce complaint and wanted to support her comrades-in-arms' family with Du Haishan. The lovers hugged each other again. Seeing this scene, the audience burst into applause, wishing the new couple a "new life".
When Du Haishan's deeds of supporting his comrades-in-arms' families spread, all sectors of society decided not to let the heroes take on this important task alone.
After learning about Du Haishan's deeds, the local department immediately reported the situation to the superior government, hoping to keep the hero's life without regrets and provide him with help to support his family of the sacrificed comrades.
Du Haishan himself is a national hero admired by countless teenagers. His deeds of self-sacrificing themselves and others quickly spread throughout the country like fire. After learning the news, the relevant departments of
immediately organized many fundraising activities, and party and government organs in various provinces and cities across the country and people from all walks of life donated money.
hopes to solve the problem of Du Haishan's support for comrades-in-arms as soon as possible, so that he can fulfill his promised vow, and then live a happy life by himself. The fundraising event took only three months and raised 800,000 yuan, which was a huge sum.
You should know that in the 1980s, Du Haishan, who was also a combat hero and an officer, had a monthly salary of only 70 yuan.
When the money was handed over to Du Haishan, everyone thought he would divide it into 11 shares and hand it over to the 11 families who sacrificed their comrades in turn. But unexpectedly, Du Haishan sent the money to Hope Project in the name of the masses. The reason for donating
is also very heroic. Because he thought it was one thing for everyone to donate, and it was another thing for him to promise his comrades to keep his promise. This code is unified.
And in his opinion, this man has passed away. Instead of being immersed in sorrow forever, it is better to leave this donation to the children to make the future of the motherland brighter.
In fact, in Du Haishan's heart, he never regarded himself as a hero. In his opinion, those comrades who died were the real heroes, and he was just the lucky one with great destiny.
The guilt towards his comrades has been lingering in his heart and cannot be dissipated for a long time. So he decided to spend his whole life fulfilling his contract, even if his wife wanted to divorce him, even if he was an officer, he lived a harder life than an ordinary farmer.
may have a few people who do not understand it, and think that these practices have passed, and people should live in the present. But if anyone who has truly been on the battlefield or has carried a gun will know how precious the comrades who fly in the blood and flesh are flying in the rain of bullets.
How can the lifelong instructions of comrades be violated?
In fact, whether it is a soldier who returns from glory or a soldier who sacrifices heroically, they are all heroes of the country. It is precisely because of the bloody sacrifice of these heroes that we can resist foreign aggression again and again, achieve independence, and even see the prosperity and strength of the motherland today.
So please let me say, thank you, the great soldiers of the people!
