In marriage and love, what kind of woman is most likely to be happy?
Perhaps, women who are not dependent on men to survive and have independent sources of income are more likely to get married happiness.
"I must be a kapok next to you, and stand with you as the image of a tree." (Shu Ting " to oak _span1 _span1) has my own Only by income and pursuit can we advance and defensively in the married life. The husband loves himself and can live a life together. If the husband does not love himself, he can also live decently without degrading the quality of life.
To become such a woman, it may be hard work, but it is worth it.
one of the four famous female doctors in ancient my country Tan Yunxian is such a woman. She came from a medical family and studied medical books day and night since she was ten years old. After getting married, she suffered from qi and blood disorders and it was difficult to get pregnant. .
Seven common reasons why women were abandoned by their husbands in ancient times are called "seven outs", one of which is that they have no children.
Ancient men divorced their wives on the grounds that they had no children and would not even be morally condemned.
There were few female doctors in ancient times. Due to the prevention of men and women, women were reluctant to ask male doctors for treatment after illness. Fortunately, Tan Yunxian knew medical skills by herself. She diagnosed and treated herself, tested medicines, and adjusted her body. Later, she gave birth to four. Child: Three women and one boy.
Just imagine, if Tan Yunxian does not understand medical skills, prolonged infertility after marriage may bring a lot of trouble to her life.
in the TV series " Female Doctor Ming Fei Biography" Tan Yunxian and the two emperors Zhu Qizhen, she has never given up her emotions, and she has never given up her emotions in Qi Yu Qi Yu. Ideal, persisting in hanging the pot to help the world, curing diseases and saving people, makes people shine.
Tan Yunxian in history is unlikely to have intersection with Zhu Qizhen and Zhu Qiyu. She was born in Ming Dynasty Tianshun 5 years (AD 1461), Ming Yingzong Zhu Qizhen died At that time, Tan Yunxian was just three years old, Ming dynasty Zongzhu Qiyu had already passed away.
Tan's family is a prominent family of Wuxi . In the Ming Dynasty, three Juren and three Ru Jinshi, who had a profound family relationship, talked about the grandfathers of Yunyun. He is a famous local doctor. His father Tan Gang was the chief of the Nanjing Criminal Department.
Tan Yunxian was smart since he was a child. Under the guidance of his grandmother, he started to learn medicine from an early age, studying classics such as "Difficulty Sutra" and "Pulse Jue".
Before her death, her grandmother passed all the prescriptions she collected and compiled to her, and Tan Yunxian began to practice medicine from then on.
At that time, the status of women was low, and they were prone to criticism when going out to practice medicine. Female doctors were often called "medical women."
Tan Yunxian attracted female patients with her superb medical skills, and she quickly became a local famous doctor.
The imperial woman was ashamed to hire a male doctor and often invited her to the palace for treatment. The palace doctor had a certain status and a good income, which was an enviable profession at that time.
Ancient women lived under the constraints of feudal ethics. After suffering from gynecological diseases, it was difficult for male doctors to speak to male doctors. It was difficult for male doctors to clearly understand the condition, and it was difficult to prescribe the right medicine, which inevitably delayed the condition.
Female doctors have a natural advantage in communicating with female patients. They can observe female patients’ emotions and lives in more detail, empathize with female patients’ experiences, and diagnose diseases in Chinese medicine. The four basic methods of "seeing", "smelling", "asking", and "cutting". Male doctors often only use "asking" and "cutting" to understand the condition of female patients, while female doctors do not ask for consultation. limit.
at the age of fifty,Based on his clinical experience, Tan Yunxian began to write " Female Doctor Miscellaneous Words", which recorded 31 medical records, all of which were female patients, mainly for the treatment of gynecological diseases, involving miscarriage, postpartum diseases, etc. The only female medical work in ancient my country.
In 35 years of Jiajing, 96-year-old Tan Yunxian passed away.
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