Hi! Are you interested in divorcing? If you want to go, hurry up, there will be no shop after you pass this village!
According to the Civil Code, starting from January 1 next year, divorce will have a "cooling-off period"-
"Civil Code of the People's Republic of China" will be implemented from January 1, 2021, in order to implement the Civil Code’s relevant divorce cooling-off period system According to regulations, the Ministry of Civil Affairs adjusts the marriage registration procedures and adds a cooling-off period to the divorce procedures. The newly adjusted divorce registration procedures include application, acceptance, cooling-off period, review, registration (certification), etc. The news
triggered everyone's discussion and ridicule, and it was reasonable.
When everyone is not calm, which couple quarreled and never mentioned the word "divorce" verbally?
Of course, just talking, divorce means change, means jumping out of the "comfort zone" of marriage, which is not easy for anyone.
Very often, even if two people don't want to leave the comfort zone of marriage deep in their hearts, they still face fierce confrontation on the surface. The development and direction of things are not determined by reason, but by sensibility and impulse.
If you have three or two girlfriends, four or five friends, then your marriage will be kidnapped by others.
What’s interesting is that if a friend doesn’t have a deep relationship with you, just a few-faced relationship, a friend of wine and meat, they will generally follow the principle of "I would rather demolish a temple than destroy a marriage", persuading you to get together and not to leave; , Can be called a confidant, but has no scruples and encourages you to divorce.
In a word: Unless there are bad behaviors such as domestic violence, or major changes occur, in most cases, whether you divorce or not depends on you in the end, but on your emotions and friends.
Moments are so important, now you see. What is more interesting about
is another fact: the larger the scale of the
wedding, the longer the marriage relationship; and vice versa.
You may have found a similar phenomenon: some friends you don't meet frequently suddenly heard that he was married; after a while, you didn't get familiar with his "married" attributes, and you heard that he was divorced.
This is not my guess. The source is the New York Times, which is the conclusion drawn by the researcher. The original text of
is like this:
those couples who have held grand weddings last longer than couples with smaller weddings and are more satisfied with their marriage. What is the reason for
?
is nothing more than the following aspects:
first, a grand wedding, which means that the two parties have known each other for a long time and the probability of "flash marriage" is low. Only when
has known each other for a long time and the families of both parties are relatively familiar, can they prepare for a grand wedding.
This means that both parties are more familiar with personality, family background, work and other aspects. The running-in period is longer, and the transition period of "chai rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea" after marriage will be smoother.
also means that the newcomer has already known many relatives of the spouse’s family and has a fixed "circle of friends of the spouse." This is very important for the consolidation of marriage.
Second, the large scale of the wedding shows that both parties (at least one of them) have better economic conditions. After all, the wedding costs money.
Generally speaking, the better the economic conditions, the more obstacles to divorce: such as property division, unsuitability after leaving a rich family, etc.
With poor economic conditions, the probability of divorce is higher, because there are only a few items of property, such as tables, cupboards and coffee tables, and it does not matter if you leave your house alone.
Third, the wedding is sloppy, indicating that this couple (at least one of them) may have impulsive personality, behave more emotionally and lack rationality.
especially "Fengzi married", even more so. Doing things without considering the consequences and just looking at the moment leads to a hasty and hasty wedding. With this kind of personality, there is nothing weird about getting married and divorcing hastily.
Gao Jinguo, pen name Gao Gao, education scholar, researcher, columnist of the national Chinese core journals, senior editor, author of "Good Parents Raise Good Children-35 Educational Thinking Lessons for Parents" and "Interesting China for Children" "History", "Life is a practice", "Jobs tells China", "The Tang Dynasty Window Paper", "Those Things in Qi State" and other 23 books.
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