Recently, I read it online A piece of news said that 90% of women buying a house are not willing to add the man's name! This topic has aroused a wide range of heated discussions. As we all know, the house is very important in traditional Chinese concepts! The house is almost a necessity for the young couple to get married.
Therefore, the man’s wedding room plus the woman’s name, for most people, this represents a sense of security and can also reflect her being in her new home. The degree of importance is that there have been so-called “poverty alleviation” marriages some time ago. The man bought a house and asked the woman to decorate, but did not want to add a name. Under such circumstances, everyone felt that the man was too good at calculating and felt worthless for the girl. So why do women buy houses before marriage without adding the man's name? Everyone feels normal! And if the man buys a house without adding the woman's name, will he be infamy? Is it because it is unfair, or is it because you do not do to others what you don't want?
In my opinion, no!
First of all, from a physiological point of view, women are in a disadvantaged position after marriage. They have experienced pregnancy and lactation in October, which also caused her to be unable to work normally for a period of time without income, not to mention the second When the fetus is let go, even working mothers have to make compromises. They have to stop for a long time and it is difficult to concentrate on work! This will inevitably affect her source of income. At this time, fixed assets are a basic guarantee for her, so that when she has no income, she will not be completely vulnerable to marriage.
Secondly, from the perspective of social division of labor, men always bear the main responsibility of taking care of the home. In society, it is easier for women to gain competitiveness. The traditional Chinese concept is that the man needs a betrothal when marrying his wife! For a man, he has the responsibility of his family. After entering the marriage,
Of course, this is not to say that the two are so clear that you are yours, I am mine, and you won’t get married without a house! no! Feelings that are too rational are not enough to call it love. Before marriage, when a woman consciously prepares for her future, it just shows that he does not have enough confidence in this marriage, and the real sense of security has nothing to do with the house. , But to find the right man. When two people are willing to work hard together and get in touch with each other, they should consider each other more, and there will be no problem of adding or not adding a name to the house!
Yes, if you buy a house before marriage, should you answer the name of the other party? Still controversial! I personally think that in marriage, no matter who you are, how to be more confident, how to be confident, and how to become a confident talent is the most important thing. For example, you must maintain a certain ability to make money, for example, you must have the ability to be independent, for example, you must be able to keep pace with the times, for example, you must first love yourself, etc.! What do you think?
When buying a house before marriage, should I add the name of the other party? (Single choice)
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