In the past, if a girl got pregnant before marriage, she would attract a lot of gossip. What he said is that girls don’t have enough self-respect and self-love. Before I got married and entered someone else's home, I tasted the forbidden fruit, had an accident, and had a child. I

In the past, if a girl got pregnant before marriage, she would attract a lot of gossip. What he said is that girls don’t have enough self-respect and self-love. Before I got married and entered someone else's home, I tasted the forbidden fruit, had an accident, and had a child.

In the past, as long as a girl became pregnant before marriage, the woman and her parents would try their best to promote the marriage in order to restore their daughter's reputation. The longer it takes and the bigger the belly gets, the less face the woman and her parents will lose.

I don’t know when it started. Pregnancy before marriage was a shame in the past, but now it has become a very honorable and normal thing. Most rural families, before getting married, secretly and openly hope that girls will get pregnant first and then get married.

Most rural families hope that girls will get pregnant before marriage. This is due to three reasons. First, there are more and more infertile girls nowadays. I don’t know whether it’s because I ate too much messy food, stayed up too late at nightclubs, or talked too much about my boyfriend. In short, there are many infertile girls nowadays. Some rural families finally find a daughter-in-law when they return home, only to find that they are infertile. Treatment requires a lot of money. If the divorce is not treated, it will also be a huge expense for the man to get married later.

If a girl becomes pregnant before marriage, it means that the woman has no physical problems and can give birth to children. In rural areas, a girl who is unable to have children will basically be disliked and will eventually end up in divorce.

The second reason is that the cost of marriage is too high nowadays, and more and more girls are cheating on marriage. I don’t know if there is a team that specifically focuses on rural areas and formed the industry chain . I just know that if I’m not careful, I’ll run into a girl who is cheating on her. Sometimes after spending hundreds of thousands to marry a daughter-in-law, her son does not get any benefits, but later loses hundreds of thousands.

If a girl gets pregnant before marriage, this means two problems. First, girls have the idea to live with their men, otherwise they would not allow themselves to have children. Second, when a girl gets pregnant, it costs hundreds of thousands, which will stabilize the rural man’s family. Even if it ends in divorce later, you can still get a grandson or granddaughter, and the loss will not be so serious.

Third, rural customs have changed nowadays. If you have been living in rural areas, you will find a problem. Rural people are still the same people, but they have completely changed. I have become more and more carefree, and my heart for comparison is getting heavier and heavier. There is no longer the scene of 20 years ago when a family was in trouble and everyone came to help. Basically, everyone sweeps the snow in front of their door and doesn't care about the frost on other people's tiles.

These changes among rural people have resulted in the fact that if your son gets a girl pregnant before marriage, it is a very honorable thing. Needless to say, if a girl gives birth to a son in the future, it will be very difficult to walk in the village.

Society is progressing and times are progressing, but we still miss the simplicity of the past. No one is so petty or cares about anything. But no matter how things change, girls will always suffer. It was true twenty years ago, and it is true now!