Introduction:
There is a saying that goes like this: "You can never clearly see a person without experiencing something. Only when you are in trouble can you clearly see a person's true nature."
Aunt Su, 50, said that only after she was infected with the new coronavirus , she finally saw the true face of her second husband. If it weren't for this incident, she would probably have been living in a false illusion and been ruthlessly used by her second husband. It's scary to think about it.
Aunt Su:
I am fifty years old. Three years ago, my second marriage, Lao Yang, and I formed a remarriage family. Before Lao Yang and I remarried, our lives were very difficult. When he divorced his ex-wife, all the house and property were left to his ex-wife, which was equivalent to leaving the house .
According to what Lao Yang told me, the reason why he wanted to divorce his ex-wife was because she betrayed him. He couldn't stand her disloyalty, so he went through the divorce procedures with his ex-wife without hesitation.
He wanted his son to live with his ex-wife, and in order to provide his son with a good living environment, he left all the house and property to his ex-wife, otherwise he would never be able to leave the house.
Lao Yang has been divorced from his ex-wife for fifteen years, but he has never remarried. Although I didn't ask why Lao Yang didn't remarry, I could roughly guess that since Lao Yang was so poor, there was no way any woman would be willing to marry him.
The reason why I am willing to marry Lao Yang is because he and I have the same experience. My ex-husband is a very scumbag man. Ever since we got married, his love affairs have not stopped. Women often come to the house and ask him to take responsibility for himself.
I hated my ex-husband for being so carefree, but I didn’t want my daughter to be a child of a single-parent family, so I endured living with him for more than 20 years. Until a few years ago, my ex-husband got married to a female college student. The two of us fell in love with each other, so they forcefully forced me to divorce.
My ex-husband is rich. He said that as long as I agree to divorce, he will give me two houses and give me one million yuan in cash. I thought that my daughter was getting older and there was no need to live with my ex-husband in frustration, so I readily went through the divorce procedures with him.
Ever since I became a single woman, I have been pursued by men. Although I was pursued by many outstanding men, I fell in love with the most inconspicuous Lao Yang.
Although Lao Yang has no money, he is very considerate to me. He knows that I love snacks, so he often buys me delicious snacks and hands them to me when we meet.
Whenever I am in a bad mood, Lao Yang will try his best to make me happy. Lao Yang's cooking skills are very good. Ever since I tasted his cooking skills, I have a different affection for him.
I am not interested in men with successful careers at all, because my ex-husband is a man with successful careers, but he hurt me the most. In my mind, the more successful a man is in his career, the more women will surround him. I have mediocre qualifications and really have no ability to control successful men.
I want to find a warm man who can warm my wounded heart. Lao Yang fits my requirements very well because he is always so careful and considerate when he gets along with me.
I don’t lack money, what I lack is just concern from men. Precisely because I had never experienced care and love from my ex-husband, it was extremely important for Lao Yang to think well of me.
When Lao Yang and I got married, he just bought a gold ring as a token of our love. The ring was very small, weighing just over two grams, and cost Lao Yang more than 700 yuan.
Although Lao Yang didn’t give me much, I was not lenient at all when I spent money on Lao Yang. I understand that Lao Yang has no money, so I paid all the expenses for the wedding.
In order to support the wedding, I bought Lao Yang a brand-name suit, leather shoes and a watch. This outfit cost me a full 30,000 yuan.
Although the money I spent on Lao Yang was far more than the money he spent on me, I didn't care. I think that since we have received the marriage certificate and become a family, we should spend money for Lao Yang regardless of each other. I have nothing to be reluctant to do.
After getting married, Lao Yang quit the rental house and moved into my home. I am retired, but Lao Yang is still working. In order to keep Lao Yang well fed, I prepare sumptuous dinners for him every day to ensure his nutrition. On Lao Yang’s days off, he would show off his cooking skills and make my mouth full of oil.
I feel very satisfied with this kind of life. Although Lao Yang only gave me a thousand yuan a month for living expenses, I was very happy.
I can understand Lao Yang's reluctance to spend money. His salary is not high, so he is extremely insecure. It is reasonable for him to want to save more private money for himself.
I didn’t spend a penny of the thousand yuan that Lao Yang gave me every month. I saved it all for him. Lao Yang has long told me that his biggest wish in this life is to own a house of his own. I plan to help him save as much money as possible and give him a big surprise when the time comes.
I thought that if I was sincere to Lao Yang, he would treat me the same way. I thought we were in true love. However, after I was infected with COVID-19, I was surprised to find that the so-called true love was just my one-sided thoughts.
On that day, after Lao Yang went to work, I went to the supermarket to buy his favorite pork ribs, and planned to make him a dish of sweet and sour pork in the evening. Unexpectedly, soon after I got home, I felt cold and weak all over.
I knew something was wrong, so I quickly found a thermometer and found that my body temperature had reached 38 degrees. I had a premonition that I was infected with the new coronavirus, so I took out the antigen test strips I had at home and took a test. When I saw the two red bars, I was sure that I was really positive for and .
The moment I learned that I was positive, I felt extremely panicked. Although my heart was filled with fear, I was still thinking about Lao Yang. Lao Yang is the person closest to me. I can't hide it from him. I must inform him as soon as possible that I have COVID-19.
I thought Lao Yang would ask me with concern whether I was feeling unwell and whether I needed him to take me to see a doctor. In fact, I will not let Lao Yang take me to see a doctor, because I know very well that this disease is extremely contagious. I just want to tell him not to go home for the time being to avoid being infected by me.
However, when I heard Lao Yang blaming me coldly: "Why are you so careless? You stay at home every day and get yourself infected. If I get infected by you, your sin will be huge." After that, I burst into tears.
I never expected that when I was feeling so uncomfortable, Lao Yang not only failed to care about my health, but instead severely criticized me. I choked up and told Lao Yang that the reason I was infected with COVID-19 was because I went to the supermarket to buy ribs for him.
Lao Yang was too lazy to listen to my explanation. He couldn't help but tell me that he was not going home today and would stay in a hotel for a few days until I was completely recovered before going home. After he finished speaking, he quickly hung up the phone without asking me if I had anything to eat tonight.
That night, I stayed up all night. The double torture of my body and mind made me extremely uncomfortable. Although I was very sad, I still had expectations for Lao Yang. As long as he called me the next day and cared about my condition, I would feel relieved.
However, I waited for seven days and Lao Yang didn't even give me a call. When I called him, the first thing he said was still not concerned about my condition, but asking me to reimburse him for the hotel stay.
He said that since I took the initiative to call him, it proved that I knew my mistake. In order to make up for the mistake I made, I must fully reimburse him for the hotel stay, and he would forgive me.
Lao Yang’s words made me feel despair. In seven days, he didn't say a word of concern, he didn't order takeout for me once, and he didn't even bother to tell me to drink more hot water. What use would I need for such a man?
Thinking of this, I coldly informed Lao Yang that we would meet at the Civil Affairs Bureau at nine o'clock tomorrow morning and get the divorce certificate . When he heard that I wanted to divorce him, Lao Yang came to his senses and knew that he couldn't blackmail me.
He quickly explained to me that his body had little resistance and he was worried about being infected by me, so he did not go home. Immediately afterwards, he asked me if my Yang had changed to Yin. If I stopped, he would go home immediately.
I don’t want to talk nonsense to Lao Yang, I just want to say that from today on, you never have to go home again, because I have to divorce you, and if I don’t divorce you, I will never be a human being.
Lao Yang roared loudly: "You want to divorce me? There is no way! If you want a divorce, compensate me 500,000 yuan, otherwise you can't even think about it. Even if I die, I will not leave this home!"
At this point, I finally saw Lao Yang's true face. He doesn't love me at all. He just wants to have a place that doesn't cost anything and a woman who spends a lot of money on him.
I didn’t talk nonsense to Lao Yang and quickly hung up the phone. I think that since he does not agree to divorce by agreement, then in the days to come, going to court to file for divorce is what I must do.
For this kind of selfish and ignorant man, I don’t want to look at him again in my life.
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