There was once a popular saying that "the only constant in the world is change." If used to describe women's choice of a spouse and starting a family, it is appropriate. Because for thousands of years, women have never had fixed standards and conditions for starting a family. Ins

There was once a popular saying that "the only constant in the world is change." If used to describe women's choice of a spouse and starting a family, it is appropriate, because for thousands of years, women have never had fixed standards and conditions for starting a family. Instead, they regard the type of man who is respected and envied by their own age and period of life as their preferred partner. Everything else does not matter. In other words, , the best way for women to start a family is to do so in four words, that is, "advance with the times."

It might as well be traced back to ancient times. At that time, there was no distinction between class, identity and status, let alone monetary wealth. People only pursued the instinctive satisfaction of food. During this period, if a man was strong, physically fit, and had superb hunting skills, which could bring enough food, then women would favor such a man when choosing a spouse. They would like and rely on such a man. With the development of human beings, there are classes and production activities.

Currency was also born, and social differentiation appeared. People no longer relied entirely on personal physical ability to obtain materials. From then on, women's goals also changed, and they began to shift their goals to those who have the ability. They have high social status and strong material conditions. They value men's social value and self-worth. In the old historical period, the mate selection model of "talented men and beautiful women" and "talented men and women's looks" has always been advocated, because the "talent" here explains everything.

Because as long as you have "talent", you can stand out, enter a higher class with conditions, and have a higher identity and status. It is also easier to obtain and have a better economic foundation, and to occupy, dominate and mobilize more social resources for Even ordinary people, when talking about matchmaking, the matchmaker's words emphasize and highlight the other party's existing hardware facilities, foreign investment conditions and survival advantages, and the woman only pays great attention to all these, and high-quality conditions become the basis and prerequisite for a successful marriage.

has also become the key to whether a man can win the recognition of the woman. It is no exaggeration to say that the betrothal gift, the number of houses and the number of cattle can affect the success or failure of a marriage. Some people may say that this is a phenomenon unique to the special historical period in ancient times, because during that historical period, women had no social status and were deprived of the right to participate in social activities. They were unable to obtain survival materials to support themselves. Without financial resources, they could not be independent at all. They had to rely on men to survive, otherwise it would be difficult to survive.

So as a woman, the various conditions of a man’s family before marriage can directly affect and determine the happiness of the future family. This is no doubt and a normal phenomenon. We must admit this and will not rule out this factor. Then let’s look at the situation after bidding farewell to the old era and entering the new era. The modern feudal system and ethics have been abolished, and equality between men and women has been achieved. Men and women are equal. , women can also participate in various social activities like men and obtain survival needs through labor.

can completely survive independently without being dependent on men, can be self-reliant, self-reliant, and shoulder corresponding social and family responsibilities with men. Today, no woman will be unable to live without a man, but the principles of modern women's mate selection have not changed. When getting married, they still pay great attention to the various conditions of men as an important criterion for measuring whether a man becomes a partner. They still adhere to and abide by the concept of "advancing with the times" and what kind of men are respected.

has a soft spot for it, and this is true in every era. When farmers were popular, they would not dislike each other as " mud-legged people" who "face the loess and back to the sky". They thought that going to the vast world of the countryside would make a lot of difference, at least they would not When you are hungry, you will worry about food. Later, when workers become popular, you marry a "big brother" who can receive wages and other workers. With grain book , eating commercial grain becomes a dream goal. There was a time when everyone thought that joining the army was an honor and becoming a soldier was an honor.

At this time, military caps and military uniforms became a bonus when finding a partner, green became a bright color, collar badges cap badges became an attraction, and finding a "soldier brother" was the best candidate. Later, college students became popular and became popular. Whether you have academic qualifications or diplomas is very important. How lucky you are to find a "proud son of heaven". Later, merchants became popular, and finding an individual business owner became a good choice. Times have changed, and doctors and teachers have been respected by others, so people in these professions are favored when choosing a spouse.

I don’t know when civil servants, people in the system, and various “second generations” quietly became popular. Then these people became hot commodities in the marriage and love market. What’s more, it is getting more and more popular now. Comprehensive considerations such as background, occupation, income, status, and even family conditions have become conditions that cannot be ignored. It can be said that comprehensive consideration and overall planning are better than any previous period.

will never give up until the goal is achieved, and will not give in easily. She would rather be a leftover woman. This is obvious to everyone. In short, the times are changing, and she will make adjustments and changes at any time. She will keep up with the fashion and follow the market. The popular men of the era will always be the favorites of women. On the issue of marriage and love, she has truly achieved the four words of "advancing with the times". This is the purpose of choosing a mate that they pursue, and it is also the most practical and effective way. It is consistent and never changes.