In this multiple-choice question of life, it is better to choose the right one. Once you choose the wrong one, you will regret it for the rest of your life and will not be able to do it again. Therefore, before making a choice, you must think carefully and comprehensively before making a decision.
A distant cousin of mine, because he only focused on the present and did not think about the long-term, has been living in loneliness and self-blame, unable to extricate himself.
My cousin is 65 years old this year and is a retired cadre. When he was 22 years old, he was drafted into the army. At that time, because there were not many educated people in the army, his cousin who graduated from junior high school and was good at calligraphy was quickly discovered by the company commander. He was promoted to propaganda officer and engaged in cultural propaganda work for the whole company.
After six years of hard work in the army, he was awarded third-class merit twice and was promoted to a platoon-level cadre. This year he married a virtuous rural woman, which was a double happiness. His pregnant wife went to the army to visit relatives, and even the instructor specially approved two rooms for him. The couple lived happily.
's cousin gave birth to a lovely son in Military Hospital . The little guy looks like a tiger-like head and is very popular. After my cousin returned to her hometown, she worked hard while taking care of her children. When the child was six years old, her cousin moved to a local area with the salary of a company-level cadre and was assigned to be the section chief of the logistics section of the county government. My cousin's sister-in-law and her son also came to live in the county town together. They both changed their household registrations to non-agricultural households and were able to eat commercial grain.
My cousin's son was very successful. He was admitted to the Provincial Normal University. Four years later, he returned to the county No. 1 Middle School and became a mathematics teacher. He was introduced to a girl from a cotton mill and got married. Within a year, he had a lovely daughter. His cousin and his cousin were very happy.
However, something unexpected happened. When my cousin's son came home from studying at night, his motorcycle collided with a farm tractor, causing a skull fracture. was rushed to the hospital. After a major operation, his life was finally saved, but he remained unconscious.
My cousin has been accompanying his son in the hospital, and my cousin is raising money at home. However, my daughter-in-law has not shown up at her parents' house. She said she was afraid of seeing her husband's sick appearance. She also said that she was alone with a daughter under one year old and had no time to take care of her husband.
My cousin and my aunt knew in their hearts that their daughter-in-law was obsessed with him. Hey, their son was always unconscious like this. Who wants to spend his whole life with a vegetative person at such a young age? But my cousin still had some anger in his heart. As the saying goes, a couple's kindness will last a hundred days, and the daughter-in-law is too heartless, so it's okay to come over and take a look.
My cousin stayed with his son in the hospital for three months. When his son woke up, he was too seriously injured. Although the operation was successful, his son became a vegetative state and had to be cared for. His cousin did not believe that his son was gone like this. He applied for transfer to the provincial hospital. After a month of treatment, he did not improve at all and his condition remained the same.
As money for medical treatment became increasingly tight, my cousin had no choice but to transfer his son back to the local hospital. The cousin's in-laws also came to the hospital with their daughter to visit, and the in-laws left 3,000 yuan. The daughter-in-law stayed far away from their son's hospital bed, without even looking at it. From then on, the daughter-in-law never came to the hospital again, and has always lived at her parents' house. She has not been back home since her son's accident.
Six months later, his son was still like that, and money was tight, so his cousin decided to leave the hospital. After he was discharged from the hospital, his cousin let his son live alone in the east side room. There were only three rooms in the main room, so it was inconvenient for visitors.
My cousin's in-laws sued their daughter and son-in-law for divorce a year later, which was not too much. My daughter was in her twenties and living in a vegetative state. But the cousin was very angry. Since his son's accident, his daughter-in-law has only gone to the hospital once, and the rest of the time he didn't even ask. How could they be a couple?
My cousin said that divorce is possible, but we have to pay 3,000 yuan for care, and the granddaughter cannot be taken away.
After a court ruling, the daughter-in-law paid 3,000 yuan for care. Since the child was only over one year old and was too young, the mother was awarded custody.
Ten years have passed, and the granddaughter is in junior high school. The daughter-in-law and granddaughter, let alone coming home, even when the cousin visits the granddaughter, the daughter-in-law avoids seeing her. Later, she simply marries away from home and never hears from her.
My cousin's son died the year before last, and my cousin also passed away due to illness, leaving my cousin alone. When my cousin came to see his relatives, he regretted it and said, why was I so confused at the beginning? If my daughter-in-law divorced me and I didn't need the 3,000 yuan, and since I am a grandfather, I could be allowed to see my granddaughter. It would be better if I bought out with 3,000 yuan, and I would never see my granddaughter again.
Whenever he mentioned this, my cousin would beat his feet and chest, and his tears would flow uncontrollably. My cousin has been living in loneliness and regret, unable to extricate himself. He could not sleep all night and walked silently in circles in the yard.
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