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The editor recently came across a video of a Japanese daughter-in-law with a fruity fragrance. In 2010, a grand traditional Chinese wedding was held in Huangdao, Shandong. The bride was Japanese and the groom was from Huangdao, Shandong. On the wedding day, gongs and drums were beating, firecrackers were blasting, and it was very lively. The bride slowly stepped off the sedan chair amid the cheers of the crowd. This Japanese daughter-in-law is called Guoxiang. She married in China and gave birth to 4 children 12 years ago. Now her family of 6 is renting in Beijing. What was the scene like when Guoxiang got married in China? What is it like to live as a stay-at-home mother after giving birth to 4 children? The stone that writes the story today takes you into the happy life of Guoxiang in China.
In 2010, Guoxiang married her Shandong husband, Laoqu. Laoqu is a psychology teacher. Laoqu has been working in Beijing. Guoxiang came to China for the first time. She was not used to the 4th Ring Road in Beijing when she first arrived. She felt that the streets were not very clean. When she went to the supermarket to buy things, no matter the waiters, cashiers, or bank staff, they would not take the initiative to smile. No one would say: いやつしやいませ. (Welcome) looked very serious, and she slowly realized that if she wanted to marry Laoqu, she would have to slowly adapt to this kind of life. It was found that differences still exist.
After getting along for a while, the two decided to join hands for the rest of their lives. Laoqu decided to bring his parents to Beijing to discuss marriage matters. At that time, Laoqu had no house or car. In fact, at first he was afraid that Guoxiang’s parents would not agree, and he would marry far away. Unexpectedly, Guoxiang's parents had no requirements for a house. They thought it didn't matter whether they had a house or not, and they didn't need a bride price. As long as they were good to their daughter, it was enough! Guoxiang's father also jokingly said to Lao Qu: "Qu さん, you have to think clearly, my married daughter will not accept returns." Lao Qu smiled and agreed to his father-in-law. After all the wedding matters were discussed, they returned to their hometown in Shandong to hold a wedding. Guoxiang's father and younger brother came to attend the wedding.
They saved the wedding photos very well. They are still very clear after 12 years. Beautiful memories should be cherished. Guoxiang wore two sets of bridal clothes on her wedding day, a white wedding dress and a Chinese bridal Xiuhe suit . She said that the wedding was like opening a blind box for her, and one surprise after another was waiting for her. There were many people watching the wedding. It was estimated that a lot of people from the village were entertained for this wedding. Men, women, old and young all came. The fruit smell was so happy. This wedding was really decent.
When the wedding was going on and he was meeting his parents, Lao Qu was a little bit at a loss because he didn't speak Japanese and didn't know what to say. He said two sentences to his father-in-law: "どうぞよろしくお愿いします". Laoqu was too nervous. Guoxiang said that he asked Laoqu's cousin to translate on the wedding day, so the wedding went smoothly. Guoxiang also said that bowls of red dates, chestnuts, and eggs were seen at the wedding, which meant that a child would be born early.
After the wedding, Guoxiang returned to Beijing with Laoqu, and soon gave birth to their eldest son. At that time, they rented a one-bedroom apartment in Beijing, and soon welcomed their second son. They moved from the one-bedroom apartment to the two-bedroom apartment, which was much more spacious. Later, they welcomed three and four treasures, and they moved to a three-bedroom apartment. Renting a house in Beijing is not cheap, so you can save money if you can, because only Laoqu earns money, and Guoxiang takes care of the baby at home. Those who can survive in a first-tier city and still have a family are already very impressive!
gave birth to four children in one breath. The editor really admires her courage, and she still takes care of the children alone. In this regard, I have to say that Japanese women are indeed very hardworking in raising children. Japanese housewives like Guoxiang can be seen everywhere in Japan, raising 3 to 4 children in a family. Women have to give birth to and take care of their children by themselves, and the husband earns the money to support the family alone. The parents-in-law do not help to take care of the children. Therefore, in Japan, the social status of married women is very low. Women in the workplace suffer unfair treatment. Promotions and salary increases are far away, because many Japanese women can no longer go to work after getting married and work as full-time housewives to take care of their children.Being a housewife is already very hard, but many men in Japan are chauvinistic, and Japanese women tolerate it at home. But after Guoxiang married Laoqu, she discovered that Chinese men do not have machismo.
Guoxiang said that as soon as Laoqu comes home from work, he will go into the kitchen to help her cook. Sibao is relatively young and needs someone to take care of him. He will also take the initiative to play with the children, help the children with their homework, put the children to sleep, and try to help Guoxiang share the hard work of raising the baby. She understands that it is not easy for him to work hard to make money outside, and he understands her hard work of raising the baby at home. The two of them understand each other, and this family will become better and better. In this regard, Laoqu has done a very good job. He has no machismo at all and knows how to be considerate of his wife.
Sometimes Laoqu would help Guoxiang clean the house and clean the floor with vacuum cleaner . Laoqu is such a good man, he has no machismo at all. There is no clear distinction between who is in charge of the inside and who is the outsider. Instead, he works together to run the family together.
Someone asked Guoxiang: "Are you tired? You have four children and you have to take care of them by yourself." Guoxiang said, it must be tiring. How can you say you are not tired after raising four children? The children will also quarrel with each other, fight over toys, and have to reason with the children. There are endless things to do every day, but now it is okay, the children have grown up quickly. Laoqu helps her take care of the baby every day when she comes back from work. She also takes her two sons out to play on weekends. She can sometimes relax and make cakes in her free time after taking care of the baby. Her baking skills are very good. We are so busy raising a child that we don’t even bother to eat. We have no personal freedom at all. I don’t know how she manages her own time and takes care of four children. She must be an amazing mother!
The children go to school during the day, and Guoxiang’s life is much easier. You can make rice balls, biscuits, and cakes to kill the boring time. You can eat them when the children come back from school. The job of picking up the children from school is also done by Laoqu. The first thing the children say when they step into the house is: ただいま. (I'm back) Guoxiang also teaches the children as much Japanese as possible, because now the children are learning Chinese and speaking Chinese. It is also good to learn more languages, and they are not afraid of traveling all over the world. Before eating, the whole family shouts: いただきます. Then the adult said: はい'どうぞ. It’s time to eat! It's quite ceremonial.
Guoxiang is very satisfied with her current life. She has been married for 12 years. Although she is still renting a house in Beijing, she said she does not want to buy a house because the housing prices in Beijing are too high. Buying a house will be very stressful and will break the balance of their lives. They may not be able to return to their parents' home once a year. So their life is actually very happy now. In fact, renting a three-bedroom apartment like theirs in Beijing is not cheap. It costs at least several thousand yuan. There are also various living expenses and education expenses, which are really huge. Living contentedly and happily is the most ordinary happiness. On Guoxiang's 12th wedding anniversary, she and her daughter made this meaningful cake together, and also made a table of delicious dishes and invited relatives and friends to celebrate.
Guoxiang said that what she is most proud of in her life is that she gave birth to four Chinese babies. She has been married to China for 12 years and her husband has no male chauvinism. She discovered that the social status of married women in China is really high! After giving birth, the child can still work when he grows up. She is very happy to be married to China and has fallen in love with China. Guoxiang also registered an account on the short video platform and used her camera to record their family's daily life in Beijing.
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