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At around two o'clock in the afternoon, I finished my busy writing and was just lying on the bed wanting to rest when I heard my husband getting up in the second bedroom.
After a while, he wiped his face in the bathroom, walked quietly into the living room, and then quietly walked into the kitchen.
then gently closed the kitchen door .
Then, the sound of washing water in the kitchen came, and I knew that my husband was washing the lunch dishes again.
For a long time, he basically washed the dishes at home, swept the floors, and did most of the cooking.
You may ask, what do you do? I'm really sorry. I seem to have done nothing all day long. I really have nothing to contribute except racking my brains to write some words.
My health has been in decline this year, and I have been diagnosed with a lot of problems. My eyesight has also deteriorated greatly due to looking at mobile phones. tinnitus is also booming, heart rate is also unstable...
In short, there is no good place in my body, and it seems to have become an excuse for me to avoid labor.
I do almost nothing every day and only concentrate on writing what I like to write. Do you think I am very happy? Do you envy me for having a good husband who loves to do housework?
In fact, I really don’t know how blessed I am, and I don’t feel any happiness at all.
Instead of my husband being at home every day, washing, cooking and taking care of the children, I hope he can go out and make money alone. Like
, I do all the housework willingly.
reminds me of the Norwegian report on marital happiness, which says that fairness in family life is not directly proportional to the quality of life.
studied the proportion of housework undertaken by 20,000 men and women and found that the more men participate in housework, the higher the divorce rate.
I am convinced by the research conclusion.
People’s bad nature seems to respect no national boundaries.
Because men who are bored at home every day, washing dishes, sweeping the floor and doing housework, are bound to have no ambition or the ability to make money.
So no matter how good you are at housework, you will not please women. Unless you can both make money and love doing housework.
As I reach middle age, I love peace and quiet more and more.
likes to be alone at home most. He doesn't like having an old man look at you.
What do you eat every day? Who washes the dishes? And exhausted.
When you are stressed out, you get upset and angry. When you get upset and angry, you get noisy.
So my husband loves to do housework, not because he is born to do it, but because he is forced to do it.
Because I have said more than once, if you go out to make money, then you don't have to worry about all the housework.
If you stay at home every day, what qualifications do you have to be a big boss? Either do it together or do it on your own.
Since he can't go out to make money, he naturally has to do more housework.
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And why is he unwilling to go out and make money?
One is "trapped by love", and it is inconvenient to go out to do business.
Wearing a mask every day to help others, not only does it take a lot of effort to speak, but there is always little gain. If you don't do business, you don't have any skills.
There is no greater tragedy for middle-aged people than to have a high vision but a low hand.
These are still minor. The most important thing is that when people reach middle age, their physical fitness declines seriously.
Not only did I find something wrong with me, but so did he. Maybe
is the reason for the early suspicion? The number of nodules in his lungs increased a lot.
He keeps coughing whenever he is tired, and I have no intention of letting him go out and risk his life to make money.
Then when he didn’t want to move, I didn’t push him or ask. Anyway, the current situation of life is there, just live with it if you can!
When people reach middle age, physical health always comes first. If there is no 1 of body, all the 0s behind it are empty.
Fortunately, the house was purchased in full. Although it is not big, it is enough to live in.
The business he did in the early stage was channel income, and he still had several thousand in his account every month. Although there will be no leftovers, it will not be like eating dust.
In the past three years, both of us have been at home a lot.
The feeling of happiness is getting less and less.
I subconsciously hope that he will get well soon and go out to make money.
Instead of lying down at home every day, doing housework, playing with mobile phones, and arguing about trivial matters.
Human nature is always strong-willed, especially women.
I remember when my husband was very high-spirited, taking care of his business in an orderly manner, his spirit was high and confident, and he was always full of pride.
Although it is a bit exaggerated, I still like the spirit of hard work and the considerable daily cash flow .
Against the background of the red old man's head, he felt that although he looked ordinary, he had something extraordinary about him.
The way she looked at him at that time was as if she had been soaked in sugar water, full of honey-colored admiration.
Sometimes because he is busy with business, he is often unable to be at home, and he will miss him and the friendship will last forever.
In recent years, he has achieved nothing, his spirit is depressed, and his old man has gradually drifted away.
The couple is at home every day, looking at each other with disgust.
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After being trapped in love for several years, I deeply understood that sentence: For middle-aged couples, money is the most beautiful aphrodisiac.
Whether you like it or not has become a legend, but whether you have money or not is a reality.
reminds me of a message from a reader in the previous article.
He said that his wife didn't like cooking and always cursed every time she cooked. He asked me how to deal with it?
Because it was the first time a stranger left a message, I couldn’t be too straightforward, so I just told him to pay more attention to her and love her.
In the end, he thought I was being perfunctory, so he said this, "Who doesn't know how to make sarcastic remarks? How about something useful?"
As soon as I realized that I couldn’t tell the truth anymore, I just told her to give her the money.
In the end, he was a little angry, saying that this is your level?
Later I apologized and explained the truth to him.
I say nothing can please your wife more than money.
He did not reply.
I don’t know if he thinks I’m fooling him, or if he looks down on people like me who are blind to money?
What he doesn't know is that this is really my psychological words.
What he doesn't even know is that I don't want to cook at home, and every time I do it, I will nag and complain.
The biggest root cause is that my husband does not make money.
estimates that his real troubles are probably because he doesn’t make much, so his wife is scolding him!
It is said that the reason why husband and wife have a disharmonious relationship is because they don’t have enough money. This is definitely based on experience.
Yu Minhong once said: Put enough money in front of a woman, and all the flaws of a man will disappear!
I think he really understands women and reality.
For middle-aged women, love can be scarce and sex can be limited, but money can never be gone.
How can we ensure that our children have enough food and clothing without money? How can you honor your parents without money? How can you live a comfortable life without money?
Some people may say, you are also a member of the family, why do you go out to make money?
What I am ashamed of is that even with all my old bones, I am destined to be unable to support my family.
From ancient times to the present, the burden of raising a family has still been mainly shouldered by men.
Maybe I am selfish and conservative. If I were asked to make money to support my husband, I would definitely be furious.
Even if he can barely accept it, he will look down on this man from the bottom of his heart, let alone admire him.
Those marriages in which the woman is strong and the man is weak always end in failure, which is the best evidence.
This is the weakness of human nature, do you believe it?
I am a female, I like to follow
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