There is a saying that goes well: "Your circle determines the kind of friends you will make and the kind of people you will be with."
Because everyone's growth environment is different, the way they treat others and their views on things will be different.
People with similar hard and soft conditions are more likely to get together; while two people whose conditions are very different from each other will find it difficult to intersect.
Just like what is said in Law of Attraction , everyone has their own energy field. In life, what we attract are people who are similar to ourselves. Because
has the same frequency, we can find common ground.
This rule also applies to marriage relationships. The love between the prince and Cinderella only applies to fairy tales, and marriages in real life have traces to follow.
The kind of person you are will determine the kind of person you will be with. This is all destined. Three details will tell you the answer.
01: Family conditions
Since ancient times, marriage has been about being of the same family.
This is not just the difference between having money and having no money. The key is that there is a big difference between growing up in a poor family and a rich family.
While children from ordinary families are still worrying about settling in first-tier cities in the future, the future of children from wealthy families has already been clearly arranged.
One person works hard to earn 8,000 a month, while the other person spends tens of thousands on just a meal.
Society is divided into classes, and wealthy families only want to play with wealthy families, because for them, marriage between two families is mutually beneficial and can make each other better, rather than unilaterally alleviating poverty.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with this. People are all on their way up, and everyone wants to find a family and partner who can take them to the next level.
Just like in big cities, local marriageable men and women all hope to find someone in the same local area to get married, because in their minds, marrying ordinary people who don't own houses in other places is a big loss.
Don't naively think that rich people don't care about money. The truth is:
The richer people are, the more they know how to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and the more realistic they are.
There may also be those true loves who don't care about the other person's family background at all, but it is only a small probability event.
As the saying goes, the circles are different and there is no need to force integration. Instead of expecting others, it is better to improve yourself.
02: Social circle
Everyone has his or her own social circle. There are billions of people in the world. No matter how good we are, we cannot be known by everyone.
"Ari: Forever Station" said: "We will meet 8,263,563 people in our lives, 39,778 people will be able to say hello, we will be familiar with 3,619 people, and will be close to 275 people, but in the end, they will all disappear in the sea of people."
In other words: There are only a few hundred people around a person who can truly have a deep connection.
As for these hundreds of people, apart from relatives, the quality of the rest depends entirely on you.
You are excellent, and the people around you can't find it;
you are kind, and your colleagues are generally very caring;
you are a leader in the industry, and the good friends who surround you will never be and .
Social circle is inseparable from your own conditions. Your achievements and three views shape your life circle, and this life circle will also bring you noble people and love.
03: Future Planning
Everyone wants a different life. Some people like comfort, while others always maintain a sense of crisis.
I met a couple before. They had a really good relationship and they understood each other very well. Basically, they knew what each other was thinking with just a look or an action.
But they broke up after being together for 5 years. The reason why
broke up was because the two people had completely different visions for the future.
The boy is a photographer. He likes to travel and does not want children.
girl is very artistic, but because of her family relationship, she hopes to have a stable family.
It's okay for two people like this to fall in love, but never get married, because marriage ties the couple's future together. If they have completely different expectations and plans for the future, there's no way they can go on.
It is your own freedom to choose what kind of lifestyle you want. The key is that your partner can share the same frequency.
END
is not a family and does not enter the same family. Who you marry may seem accidental, but in fact it is inevitable.
Sometimes, people who love each other are not suitable for marriage. Only suitableness is the true meaning of a long-lasting marriage.
hopes that everyone can find the right person in the vast sea of people and find their destiny.
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