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Zhang Ling said: "When she met him, she became very low, as low as dust. Eli. But her heart is happy, and flowers bloom from the dust. "
When a girl falls in love with someone, she will most likely do anything, but love is a ruthless thing, and every concession and effort you make is worthless in the eyes of the other person.
When men and women are dating, a man who has never taken the initiative to do these two things for you will definitely not love you, but innocent women cannot understand it.
01: I never take the initiative to talk to you when we quarrel, and I can’t see your sadness.
Wang Xue (pseudonym) has been dating her boyfriend for three years. They are college classmates.
When she first fell in love, she was indeed pampered by her boyfriend, but it didn't last long. After a year of dating, her boyfriend's attitude towards her became very perfunctory.
Many times, her boyfriend would forget to make an appointment with her to have dinner together. Wang Xue would often wait in the restaurant until closing time, and he would not answer her boyfriend's phone calls.
Wang Xue just hopes that her boyfriend can pay more attention to herself and stop ignoring her all the time.
In order to be able to be with him, Wang Xue really paid a lot. She didn't know how to cook before, but her boyfriend often had to socialize and drink, and his stomach was not good, so she started to learn little by little.
Later they lived together, and Wang Xue was like her boyfriend's mother, taking good care of him.
But even so, her boyfriend never took the initiative to pay attention to Wang Xue every time they quarreled, and often treated her coldly and violently. The longest time, they didn't say a word for more than a month.
Wang Xue felt very sad and cried again and again in front of her best friends.
In the opinion of her best friend, the person she loves doesn’t care about her at all, so breaking up as soon as possible is the right choice.
But Wang Xue couldn't understand it. She always felt that her boyfriend just didn't know how to express love and was usually very kind to her.
When you quarrel, if a man never takes the initiative to coax you or find a way out, he definitely doesn't love you. Smart women can understand it at a glance, but innocent girls will only get deeper and deeper into it.
02: Not taking the initiative to be responsible for you, ignoring your expectations
This year, Wang Xue is 29 years old. Her friends are getting married one after another, and her parents are always urging her.
But her boyfriend had never taken the initiative to talk to her about her future plans. In order to confirm her boyfriend's thoughts, Wang Xue did not care about face.
She took the initiative to ask her boyfriend: "When will we get married? I have to explain to my parents."
Her boyfriend said impatiently: "My mother said it will be a few years, why are you pushing me? My career has just started to develop. If you can't wait, let's forget it." "
When she heard that her boyfriend wanted to break up with her, Wang Xue felt very scared and quickly said: "I will continue to wait for you, don't be angry. "
If you have been dating for a while, he never takes the initiative to be responsible for you, and even ignores your expectations for marriage. Then, he definitely doesn't love you.
No matter how reluctant you are about this relationship, remember to leave as soon as possible. Any further delay will only delay your youth and happiness.
A truly sober woman will tolerate her boyfriend's shortcomings, but will not be overly tolerant when it comes to matters of principle.
Wang Xue’s character is too gentle and very naive. She never acknowledged her boyfriend's perfunctory treatment of her. As long as he didn't take the initiative to leave, she would keep waiting.
Youth is short, and you should not waste your most precious time on a partner who is not responsible for you.
will ignore your sadness and treat a man who is cold and violent to you, even if he is handsome, I advise you not to love him anymore, otherwise you will be the one who suffers.
Men who only want to fall in love with you and don’t want to get married are often very carefree. If you have too many expectations for each other’s relationship, you will ultimately experience more disappointment.
A man who loves you deeply cannot bear to make you feel sad, nor will he make you wait too long. He will plan his future life and take responsibility for you.
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