1. If you want to make rapid progress, then you have to study the decades of predecessors, who rose quickly in the officialdom, who rose to the top, how they rose to the top, and what they did...
After seeing so many capable people and strangers, in the final analysis, you need someone.
2. Network connections are not necessarily innate. There are many people whose parents did not have such resources, so they rely on themselves to get in touch with those so-called "unreachable" people, and even quickly get close to them...
You have to see all directions and listen to all directions. It is enough to seize one opportunity in life.
3. Why do we need to understand the ways of the world, and why do we need to learn the art of Machiavellian tactics?
The track of hard work is crowded with people, and inspirational people always flock to them. But the road to power and strategy is sparsely populated, some people are dismissive, and some people cannot reach the threshold.
understands the world and knows how to play tricks. The right to allocate resources is gradually transferred to us...
4. One day you will realize that you will do something big, don't set a flag all over the world. Relatives and friends are not jealous of rich people, they are jealous that you are richer than them.
5. Being safe and stable cannot break through the hierarchy.
What level of person you are, you will be surrounded by a certain level of circle. High-level counterattacks only appear in novels.
6. The smaller the place and the poorer the place, the more important it is to have good interpersonal relationships.
Small counties and towns are simply a dense network of relationships. Everything needs to be done by "someone".
If there is no one, please wait for 3 days; if there is someone, the problem will be solved in minutes. So, only when people go to higher places and go to big cities can they have hope...
7, Giving gifts has always been kept secret, and no one will make a big deal about it.
Rich people won’t speak out, but people without money won’t understand.
When I was young, there was no one to enlighten me. Even if someone did not enlighten me well, it would be counterproductive. I just didn’t want to accept it and was escaping from reality. After middle age, when I look back on this life, I realize that human nature is for respect, not for to restrain and challenge. But it was too late, there was no use saying anything at this time.
The cycle goes on and on, passed down from generation to generation, that's all...
8. Money can solve 90% of the world's problems, that's right.
But giving gifts does not mean just throwing money at them. You have to pay attention to a method and a transition.
When asking for help, you rush directly to someone's home with a wad of money in your pocket, and you say everything you say, without even laying the groundwork for an emotional relationship in advance. How is it different from rape? This is not a matter of emotional intelligence, it is a matter of IQ.
9. Everyone loves money, and everyone essentially dislikes refusing to accept gifts.
But not all red envelopes are accepted. They only accept safe tickets. If you don’t even pave the way for emotional building and don’t show sincerity, then wouldn’t accepting your tickets be just a hot potato and a time bomb?
10. The essence of gift-giving is to teach everyone how to give up money, teach everyone how to take risks correctly, and teach everyone the courage to lose.
It is true to say that there is gain after giving up, but the order must be to give up first to gain later, give up small and gain small, give up big and gain big.
Whether you can realize it or not depends on your luck...
11, When people help us with things, we must not "treat you to dinner next time" or "make an appointment to have a meal if we have the opportunity". We must invite you now and immediately.
Gratitude also has a shelf life. After the shelf life, the effect of gratitude is gone.
12. I will give people a pack of cigarettes and a cup of milk tea, and everyone in the world will smile.
doesn't know how to give gifts or please, so I live a miserable life. Life, life, is a hammer.
13. Why do I fall asleep when my boss tells me a little secret when I’m drinking?
is not a bad drinker. I don't want to pack up and leave. The less we know about the leader’s privacy, the better. We are just an ant and . If the leader wants to squeeze us to death, it is just like playing. If you know too much, you will soon be silenced.
14. Why do you have to work so hard to make money?
People are in the arena and can’t help themselves. Jianghu is society, and society is Jianghu. What is society? society is material. No material, no society.
15. Why are all living beings busy all their lives, but in the end they are mediocre and struggling at the bottom?
because I am not enlightened. Are you thick-skinned? Will you give gifts? Do you dare to curry favor with others?
doesn’t know how to do it, so why are you expecting a love affair that involves a home invasion? If a person is good at giving gifts throughout his life, he will buy a car or a house long ago; if he is thick-skinned and dares to spend money, he will marry a long-legged beauty long ago.
If we live under the constraints of morality every day, in this life, there will be no trace of comings and goings, and they will be gone in a hurry.
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personal essays, like to analyze society, interpret human nature, and study the sophistication and social experience in life. I also like to share some of my own knowledge and insights. I hope it has touched you, and like-minded people are welcome to share and communicate.
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