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The so-called blind date is nothing more than a competition between the same sex.
The basis for judging whether a man is excellent and whether his conditions are satisfactory is never how he compares with women, but how he compares with other men.
The "hot cake" in the blind date market must be the winner who beats most of the men on blind dates.
In the same way, the "eliminates" in the blind date market are often losers who have been defeated by other men.
In this war without gunpowder, the competition between men has always been fierce, and the chain of contempt in the blind date market has always existed.
According to multiple matchmaking organizers and matchmakers, in the current blind date market, those born in the 1995s and working within the system dominate the market, while the leftover men born in the 1980s are already on the verge of being eliminated.
95 The working population within the system has become a hot commodity
Everything has its effect and its cause.
95 The reason why people who work within the system are very popular is because they have obvious advantages compared with other men.
age advantage.
html The oldest among the post-95 generation is 27 years old, and the youngest is only 23 years old.They are the main force in the current blind date market, and they are in the best years of discussing marriage.
On the road of marriage and love, age is always the greatest asset for everyone.
Young age coupled with good conditions is undoubtedly the icing on the cake, and good conditions coupled with an age that is no longer young is to use conditions to resist the disadvantages brought by age.
It can be seen from this that no matter what level you are at or what conditions you have, youth is a person's best asset.
has broad choices because he is young.
At this time, they can completely find their other half according to their own wishes instead of settling for the second best. After all, they are facing a whole forest.
work advantages.
Most people have an inexplicable sense of admiration for those who work within the system, and this phenomenon has existed for a long time.
In the past, many people would dislike the low income of those working in the system. After the impact of the epidemic in the past few years, everyone increasingly believes that job stability is the key.
As a result, the popularity of people working within the system has only increased compared to before.
The biggest advantage of people working within the system is that they are not only favored by young people, but also by their elders.
Both generations are very satisfied with them, and they can naturally be more free to choose their spouse.
What's more, the ratio of men to women working within the system is imbalanced. Men themselves are a scarce "species". In addition, women who do not work within the system are also eager to find men who work within the system, so they have become the targets of competition.
80The left-behind men are "marginalized"
There is a saying that has been circulating on the Internet:
"The waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead."
Some netizens also joked that the waves in front were beaten to death on the beach by the waves behind.
Although this may sound ridiculous, it is reality.
When it comes to blind dates, the market will always belong to young people, and older people will inevitably face huge problems.
The age disadvantage is too obvious.
The oldest one born in the 1980s is already 42 years old, and the youngest one will soon be 34 years old.
To put it more sadly, men of this age are actually no longer suitable for blind dates.
Even if they go on a blind date, they will inevitably face the situation of being rejected.
Ordinary men will face many disadvantages when they get older, and these disadvantages affect three generations.
Older men mean older parents. Not only are the parents unable to help the young couple, but they also easily put them under pressure from having an older parent and younger children.
Men marry at an older age, which means that they are already old before their children grow up.
This is a huge problem for both his wife and children.
To give a very simple example, a man was still single in 1987. Even if he gets married and has a child now, by the time the child is born, he will be 36 years old.
When he was 50 years old, his child was only 14 years old and in junior high school, while his parents were already in their seventies and were in the age of being taken care of.
I have elderly parents and a child who has not yet grown up, and he is getting older. This kind of life pressure will make many women afraid.
has no advantages in economic conditions.
Once upon a time, some people always thought that men’s economic conditions would improve as they got older, but the reality gave everyone a loud slap in the face.
90% of the people living in this world are ordinary people. They have not made any achievements in their careers as they grow older. They may not even have a career in their whole life, only a job to support their families.
When many men reach the age of 40, the biggest achievement they can achieve in life is to mortgage a house and a car.
They are so mediocre compared with others, and this is the most true portrayal of most people's lives.
Although they are older, their economic conditions are still mediocre. This is the main reason why they are rejected in the blind date market.
0The remaining men left after 1980 are single, and blind date is no longer the best way out.
It is undeniable that blind date has indeed brought convenience to many people, but it is really no longer suitable for those born in the 1980s.
Blind date is not like falling in love, there are feelings to talk about. For two strangers, conditions are the standard by which each other is judged. However, the disadvantages of leftover men born in the 1980s are too obvious and they can easily be disliked during a blind date.
Since the success rate is low and your self-confidence is easily undermined, then simply don’t take this path.
The only thing left-behind men after 80 can do is two things: the first thing is to fall in love freely and leave the single; the second thing is to work hard to change the current conditions.
When you see the other half you like, you take the initiative to pursue them. In the process of getting along, you may still get a chance, but if you go on a blind date, in most cases it will be over as soon as it starts.
Since the best age for dating has passed, let's get out of singles based on our ability.
Although you are now at the age of facing a mid-life crisis, you can always achieve something as long as you work hard.
People can never give up hope when they are alive. As long as they have hope, there is room for return.
I am Yinger, an original author focusing on the emotional field.
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