If your husband has cheated on him for four or five years, he has been unwilling to break up with his mistress.
Wait until you make trouble and you are tired and you are no longer willing to talk about mistresses.
Your husband suddenly went home and told you that he broke up with the little one and was completely broken. Do you want information?
This is what the original wife Ms. Su and Lan Fang said two months ago.
Ms. Su and her husband have been married for seventeen years, and her husband has cheated on him for more than four years.
The mistress is the first love of a cheating man. The two are high school classmates and have a long-distance relationship in college.
After graduation, the mistress stayed in a big city to live, and the cheating man returned to his hometown to take the exam for a career.
For more than a year of long-distance relationship, the mistress was there with a man with a local house and car.
The cheating man broke up sadly. After half a year, he met Ms. Su after introduction.
Ms. Su works in a bank. The two are in the same conditions and the families of both parties are satisfied. They get married soon.
After getting married, the two people are in a state of respect and love.
, but there is no conflict, and you don’t quarrel in normal times, and your husband and wife’s life is also very harmonious.
Ms. Su never thought that her husband would cheat, and she never thought that after the cheating, her husband refused to break up with the mistress.
The mistress and her rich husband divorced because the man prefers boys over girls and wants boys.
The mistress has given birth to four daughters and has not been pregnant later and has undergone test tubes.
The body is getting worse and worse. The test tube is successful. I got pregnant and fell out of the way.
The doctor did not recommend her to continue giving birth to her fifth child. The mistress’s husband knew about it and
was very decisive and wanted to divorce the mistress. The mistress was unwilling to do so, so the man sued him.
has been in trouble for several years, but in the end it is still separated. The mistress has basically not received any property.
Because although the mistress has a house and a car, it is all the property of extramarital affairs.
The mistress’s husband doesn’t make much money by himself, and his parents are relatively rich.
The mistress has given birth to so many children, but she has not continued to move and has no common property.
later divorced, and he didn't want any custody of the mistress because he couldn't afford to support him.
did not find a job after divorce, so I went back to my hometown and worked as a cashier in a hotel at a relative's house. The man who cheated and the mistress reunites at a classmate's reunion. The mistress took the initiative to develop an extramarital affair.
Blue Party helped Ms. Su analyze the psychology of cheating men and mistresses.
What is the psychology of a man cheating on?
Compared with love, men cheating on mistresses more to make up for their regrets.
or even cheating on men may have some resentment towards mistresses in their hearts.
Most men are actually smaller than women.
Most women may be abandoned and broken up, and they will not think about taking revenge.
Or wait until you have the chance in the future, and then be with the cheating man and hurt the man with your feelings.
But there are many men who will, because being abandoned is not just emotional hurt.
will also hurt men's male self-esteem. Many men are born to think that they can abandon women, but they must not be abandoned by women.
Ms. Su’s husband has some of this thinking, because when he mentioned the mistress with Ms. Su.
There is not so much maintenance for mistresses in the language, and even directly blames the mistress.
says that it is all the mistress who takes the initiative, and mistress who has nothing to do with it is mainly because they are too proactive and so on.
The reason why a cheating man insists on extramarital affairs for so many years is to make up for his previous regret.
I have had feelings for many years with the mistress, and I will definitely regret it if I separate. Let’s get together again and make up for the regret.
is also planning revenge, and he is in a state of confusion.
While wanting to take revenge on the mistress, he also cares about his previous relationship, so he persisted for so many years.
What is the psychology of mistress? Her mentality is much simpler than that of a cheating man.
This mistress is obvious. She is not a woman who attaches great importance to emotions.
She cares more about money than feelings, otherwise she would not abandon a cheating man for a rich man.
The mistress will look back for the cheating man because of her conditions, and the cheating man is the best she can find.
The mistress is not young anymore. She has no stable job, no house, no car, and no savings.
is a woman who has given birth to four children and destroyed her body in order to continue giving birth to boys.
She wants to get married for the second time, and the space for her choice is very small. Most men hear about the situation of the mistress before.
would definitely be daunted by Xiaosan's current conditions.
Not to mention, the mistress wants a man with better conditions, which is beyond the reach of the mistress now.
Many mistresses think that they cannot find their satisfaction among unmarried men.
will look for married men in order to satisfy their needs for conditions.
It is also difficult for married men to find mistresses. If they have the opportunity, they can find their ex and rely on the previous relationship to develop an extramarital affair.
The mistress is looking for money. The mistress is a bit cautious, but she is not a particularly smart mistress.
It can be seen from her previous marriage that the mistress does not have many means.
In the end, the man suddenly wants to return to the family. Should the first wife accept it?
In fact, it is expected that a cheating man wants to return to his family.
A cheating man has been with his mistress for four or five years. At first, he may still have some expectations for his mistress.
felt that the mistress still had some feelings for him, so she took the initiative to find him and become his third party.
But after a long time, the cheating man will find that the mistress just wants to take advantage of him.
After a cheating man makes up for his regrets, he will begin to weigh the pros and cons and calculate the gains and losses.
The value of mistresses to cheating men is getting weaker and weaker, especially the emotional value.
When the value of the mistress is minimal, the cheating man will feel that he has lost money.
continues to have an extramarital affair with his mistress. He will suffer a lot and will want to return to the family.
Of course, the original wife not only relied on psychological analysis to determine this matter, but also combined with the behavior of the cheating man.
focuses on the communication attitude between a cheating man and his mistress, and the mistress’s purpose is to find out the cheating man’s attitude.
The cheating man has already spoken harshly to the mistress, and the mistress’s attitude towards him is not very good either.
Basically, the two people have begun to have great conflicts. It is true that the cheating man wants to return.
If a man wants to return to his family, his original wife cannot easily forgive him. He must increase the cost of return to avoid cheating again.
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