There was a topic on Zhihu: What should I do if I already have a girlfriend, but I meet a partner I like more? There is an answer that is particularly heartbreaking: "Maybe your girlfriend has met a long time ago, but she gave up for you." And those who are calm will never step beyond the boundary after finding the shell they like most. In close relationships, friends of the opposite sex have always been a very sensitive topic. If you already have someone by your side, you must have a sense of proportion to maintain the minimum boundary with the outside world. After all, all trust is based on consciousness and respect. Anyone can do it well to a person, but being good to only to a person is the bottom line of interpreting love. If a boy really loves you, he will leave you the urge to "further" and give others the right to "take a step back".
Only those who are unstable will always meet the people they like. They will always be circling on the beach full of shells, picking and choosing and unable to bear to choose.
A single person may be able to hold his arms and talk to his friends of the opposite sex;
However, a person in love must know how to keep a certain distance from the so-called friends of the opposite sex and control it within a safe range. sense of proportion is one of the foundations of a relationship.
Fellowship is a matter between two people and cannot tolerate a third person.
So, life is long, don’t settle in love, either you don’t want any part of your love, or you have to be everything.