1. Friends who have not contacted each other for a long time, just talk about things if you have something to do. Don’t always ask others if you are here or not . If you don’t say anything, how can others answer? What if you borrow money, it will definitely not be there. In principle,
2 and cannot do it, that is, it is OK. Logically speaking, it's OK, but it's not OK.
3. Never expose to your relatives that you are rich or capable. Treat unfamiliar relatives, pretend to be stupid and cry poor, otherwise you will have a lot of thankless troubles, which will be envied by others, and there will be no reward for . Many people say that they hope you will live a good life, but they don’t want you to live a better life than him. Don’t overestimate human nature.
4, People who speak of benevolence, righteousness and morality are one who has no social experience and are too honest; the other is to disguise and want to make a profit from it.
5, , children who will cry have candy to eat. The more violent the fuss, the more they make, they will get more benefits , and they can only fight for their own interests.
6. How low a person’s moral bottom line depends on how much money is. This person is my brother and sister, I have to pay more!
7, Those who are willing to pay for the meal will pay the order without saying a word , and those who are unwilling to pay the order will only say it, but they will not move.
"I pay this, don't rob me of it." "What a joke, I'll do this time"
8. There are many unspoken rules in the adult world, but if you double-click the screen now, you can unlock a unspoken rule on Zhihu.
9, There is no absolute fairness in this world, only absolute strength . If a person complains about the unfairness of the world, it only means that he is not the winning party.
10 and may not be done well, but you must say beautifully.
Many consumers do not care about the real benefits, but need to enjoy the sense of affordability, just rely on sales.
11, the more you lack what , the more you like to show off what is. People who show off their wealth may not be rich.
only what is left so what is emphasized. People who show off their education may only have education.
12, The essence of social interaction is mutual utilization and exchange of value . If a person has no value, others will not bother to pay attention to him. Only when each has value can you benefit each other and know how to use others. If you don’t pay attention to improving your value, no matter how many connections you have, it will be useless.
13, You must clearly see the interests of the people around you and yourself, whether it is a interest binding or a conflict of interest , so that you can know who can believe it.
14, Don’t try to change anyone, people can only save themselves . Being a good teacher will only be hated. Restrain yourself to correct other people's desires, and adults can only screen and not educate them. People can’t teach people, but it’s enough to teach people at once.
15. Moving the interests of the upper class is like taking their lives. Changing the concept of the bottom is like digging their ancestral graves. And the underlying concept is the source of the interests of the upper class. Those who try to tell all this are the common enemy of both sides.
16. When you feel tired when you browse Zhihu, just click the screen twice, and you will find different gains.
17 "Everything is inferior, but studying is high", the premise is that you have to be admitted to (a prestigious school), otherwise it may be "a scholar who is useless"
18, If you want to please everyone, you are destined to be mediocre destiny . When your knowledge and insights exceed most people, you will definitely not be a very popular person. You can't do things that are publicly recognized and look forward to unique results.
19. Send a message and if you face your superiors, you should express your thoughts clearly to reduce the difficulty of your boss’ reading. Never send voice messages, as this will make people feel that you don’t respect him.
20. Praise people to the point, otherwise it will make people feel perfunctory. Whatever others care about is praise for.
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