After watching "Goodbye Love 2", I really feel that finding a man with a fragile self-esteem to get married will make life too tired. In the end, I will just be like Chen Meiling, cautious and compromise, or I will be like Su Shiding. I am very tired, even disheartened, unable to persevere, and head towards divorce.
When Chen Meiling didn't talk about the scene where she first met Ai Wei, I always thought that Chen Meiling was such a soft and weak woman, but when Chen Meiling talked about the scene where she first met Ai Wei in the swimming pool, I felt that this happy marriage turned Chen Meiling into another person.
was Ai Wei fell in love with her at first sight and then took the initiative to chat with her, but she was very fierce at that time. When she stopped swimming, Ai Wei said to her, "You are tired, you are stopped." Chen Meiling replied to him, "Who are you, it seems that you don't know you." She left the swimming pool, and Ai Wei said goodbye to her. She said he would be willing to give you a head. Later, after Ai Wei waited for the rabbit in the swimming pool for a few weeks, when they met again, Ai Wei still ran over and chatted with Chen Meiling. He told Chen Meiling that the stool she was sitting on was where he sat just now. Chen Meiling asked him, "You said it was yours, do you have your name? Take it out and show me." He said, no, but the sun oil under the stool was his, and Chen Meiling was stubborn, "Do you think this sun oil is yours? Is your name inside?"
This shows that Chen Meiling is from this. In fact, there is a bold, stingy and unreasonable side in her personality, but for the sake of Ai Wei's face and self-esteem, she probably hid this side. Ai Wei accused her of not listening to advice, regardless of her body, and often played mahjong until two or three o'clock in the morning, and then ruined their marriage and accused her that their home was his hard work, but Chen Meiling could not do housework, ruined his hard work...
. When Chen Meiling faced Ai Wei's accusations, she rarely refuted him in person. Even if there was, she said gently, tentatively, and cautiously, and about why she did this? Whether it is a backpack or a couple’s portrait interview, Chen Meiling said that it is for Ai Wei’s face and protect Ai Wei’s self-esteem. Because Chen Meiling's career has been relatively smooth, while Ai Wei's career has a long trough period, she has many concerns. Otherwise, her marriage with Ai Wei would have ended with a divorce like Su Shiding and Lu Ge.
Chen Meiling is really like Su Shiding said, like a mother who spoils children. We really can't feel her happiness, but we can feel her hard work through the screen. Chen Meiling's spoiling gave Ai Wei a feeling of being arrogant. Otherwise, how could he, who never did housework, be embarrassed to say, Chen Meiling's housework is not done well? Chen Meiling is also working. Otherwise, why would he have the nerve to say that he was angry that it was not that Chen Meiling played mahjong, but that Chen Meiling didn't listen to him... Halfway through the show, the other guests found their own problems more or less, but Ai Wei didn't think he had any problems.
And the reason why Ai Wei is a winner in marriage is just that he meets Chen Meiling, a woman who is willing to compromise for him. Otherwise, who would have to stand him if another woman was.
Like Chen Meiling, Su Shiding also met a man with strong self-esteem. Seeing her wandering around in order to protect Lu Ge's self-esteem, she was also very tired. Is it not good to be simple and straightforward? It's okay, but I may be afraid that Lu Ge can't stand it. Lu Ge really couldn't stand it either. During the interview session of the couple’s self-portrait, Yilijing ’s sharpness, ask him if he is confident? Ask him if he thinks he is educated? Asked him that his career has not taken off, have he ever thought that there is a possibility that it has to do with his ability... Every sentence is direct and every sentence is heartbreaking, forcing Lu Ge to see clearly whether he is a confident or inferior person? Then Lu Ge collapsed.
So, communicating with people with weak self-esteem requires carefulness and will be very tired.But can the tactful communication really solve the problem? I am really afraid that long-term tactfulness will create a noble Ai Wei and a Lu Ge who is very confident for self-confidence. In this way, if you persist, how hard it would be to live? If you don’t persist, you will have to end up with divorce.
Still envious of Zhang Wanting, she found a strong inner Song Ningfeng as her husband, saying that she found Song Ningfeng to find a scoundrel bottle of oil, and Song Ningfeng would not be angry. If this sentence was put on Ai Wei and Lu Ge, the two of them would probably show their faces on the spot. So I still feel that men like Song Ningfeng, who are truly strong inside, can get along easily. Lucky, Zhang Wanting is lucky! Being loved by Song Ningfeng can also be yourself unscrupulously.
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