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Before, I only heard that when a girl saw her future in-laws, she was called to the kitchen to help. She had never heard of it. The girl took her parents to meet her future in-laws, and was also called to the kitchen to help.
Recently, a mother told the story of seeing her future in-laws online. This was also the first time she went to her daughter's boyfriend's house. After contacting her, she immediately stopped the marriage and persuaded her daughter to break up.
This is the thing. The mother's daughter and boyfriend plan to get married. The parents of both parties must meet before marriage.
On this day, the three of them went to the "Future In-laws" home, and the daughter and son-in-law of the Future In-laws also came back.
After entering the door, they politely greeted each other, and then the man's mother started preparing lunch. During the cooking process, the girl was called to the kitchen by her expectant mother-in-law to help.
The girl's boyfriend is playing games in the room, the in-laws' daughter and son-in-law are watching TV in the living room, and the in-laws are drinking tea leisurely.
Seeing this scene, the mother was very upset, but she still endured the meal. After , she returned home. The mother advised her daughter to break up and said she did not agree with the marriage. What do you think?
Girl (picture has nothing to do with text)
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I support this mother's approach very much. A harmonious family is not supported by one person, but requires the whole family to work together.
The male family is not only a family with great "machoness", but also an uneducated family.
Anyone who has a slightly educated person at the man's house will not ask the girl to help with her work in front of the girl's parents, but his children are playing games and watching TV there.
Moreover, the girl’s boyfriend and her parents did not like this girl very much, and they could even be said to look down on her.
Otherwise, no matter what, the boy will put down the game in his hand and accompany his future father-in-law and mother-in-law. No matter who the boy's parents call him, he should ask the girl to go to the kitchen to help. This is basic respect.
In addition, the "one person cooks and the whole family rests" family model of the man's family will indeed make the woman's parents worry whether the daughter will be his nanny after marrying, and whether she will be the one who cooks.
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So, unmarried sisters, must be more careful, don’t fall in love, look at the other’s parents’ ways of getting along with each other and listen to your parents’ suggestions.
A good sister of mine did not listen to her parents before marriage and cried blindly after marriage.
Before marriage, her parents reminded her that she must not marry. She also knew that her husband was poor and loved to play games, her mother-in-law was strong, and her father-in-law was lazy, but she did not agree. As a result, she was now attacked from both sides and angry at both ends.
Her husband only plays games except for work. In her husband's eyes, there is no game that is important. It is harder to get him to change it than climbing to the sky.
She occasionally directed her husband to wash dishes or dry clothes, and her mother-in-law said that men just need to make money. This kind of thing is what women should do, and in the end she forced her to do it herself.
Finally, I would like to give my sisters a sentence: Please put away your willfulness and listen to your parents more. You can suffer less losses!
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