Recently saw a question online saying that in the past two years, people around me have found that they are short of money. Is it true or is it that some people deliberately keep a low profile? I think everyone should have this feeling, right?
Hello everyone, I am your good friend McGonagall. Today we will talk about the topic that everyone is talking about is very poor in the past two years.
In real life, there are usually two situations. One is that you suddenly find that the people around you are short of money, and the other is that you suddenly find that the people around you are rich, especially those who are richer than yourself and can make money. In fact, these are not caused by the external environment, but are factors judged by one's own feelings. Why do you say so?
suddenly found that the people around us were very poor. In fact, many times our judgments are not necessarily correct. Therefore, what you say from others is very short of money, but it may not be that you are really short of money. Maybe they are just low-key, or they are afraid that you will borrow money, that's all.
On the other hand, if you do not get information from others, but through some of your own observations, you will find that everyone's life is not easy. For example, a friend used to be unhappy when he spent money, but now he is very cautious when spending money. You can feel from his food, clothing, housing and transportation that his life is far worse than before. This situation is relatively accurate. If many people around you are like this, it is generally a big industry impact. For example, after the three-year epidemic, people who do business in traditional business will definitely be greatly affected. Life is not as good as before, and it is more normal, especially in the service industry, such as catering, tourism, and entertainment.
But there is also a friend who makes POS machines. Every time he chats, he shouts that he is too poor and can't afford a mortgage. I don't know how to think he is really poor. In fact, he has to pay 4 houses every month, about 10,000 yuan, and drives a POS machine for special electricity. In fact, according to my understanding, she does nothing every month. The income from POS machines is more than 50,000 yuan. After changing the loan, he has done all kinds of financial management. He does not have cash, so he says he has no money. This is also a kind of person who calls for lack of money every day.
Putting aside the big industry influence and the situation where others deliberately fool you, the rest is the problem of the circle. When you live a normal life, you will find that your colleagues and friends are not very good. For example, when you just graduated, you will find that your friends around you have a salary of two or three thousand yuan a month. Of course, you are short of money at this salary level. On the other hand, if your ability to make money has been increasing, you will find that there are more and more rich people around you, especially those who are richer than you. Why does this happen? Because you have been growing yourself and your circle has been rising.
When you have a monthly salary of 2,000, most of the people who work with you are friends with a monthly salary of 2,000. When you have a monthly income of 20,000, the ones you deal with are naturally people with a monthly salary of about 20,000. When you have a monthly income of 200,000, the people you deal with are naturally people with a annual income of 2 million to 5 million.
Just like the circle of my friends who make POS machines, some of them are in their 20s, some of them are 4050 years old, and they are constantly laying out POS machines through years of hard work. They are still in their 20s, but have achieved an annual income of 1 million yuan. Now their daily life is to play games and occasionally do customer maintenance. On the contrary, those in their 30s-50s have already achieved a level of earning million yuan per year through POS machines, but they have come into contact with people with an annual income of more than 5 million yuan, so they are still struggling to enter another circle. In each circle, there are people who have the ability to make money far beyond this circle. For example, when you have a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, you will definitely stare at those people with a monthly salary of 100,000 yuan. Your eyes are always upward, so you will find that the more you grow and work hard, the more rich people you will find.
So, everyone must remember that you must not think that everyone around you is poor and lacks money, and you don’t have to work so hard. Many times, you are often too bad.When we find that the people around us are very poor, we must calm down and think about whether there is a problem in our circle, whether it is time to break through the circle, and whether it is time to interact with more people with strong ability to make money.
The principle is the same as taking the university entrance exam. The difference between famous schools and ordinary colleges is not only reflected in the quality of teaching, but is often the quality of circles and the atmosphere of circles. When everyone around you works hard and makes money, you will naturally work harder, and your information acquisition channels will naturally be more.
So no matter what full-level you are in now, no matter what circle you are short of money or rich, from now on, don’t envy those people better than you
Others are just doing things you dare not do every minute
Eat the hardship you don’t want to endure
Say what you are embarrassed to say
Meet people you don’t have the courage to know
stick to what you gave up
Create a passive income, that is, silently surpass the fastest shortcut for people around you
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