When I was having breakfast today, my phone rang. I picked it up and saw that it turned out that a new friend on WeChat requested to add it.
I ignored it at the time and continued to feed my daughter breakfast.
Not long after, the phone started to ring again. I picked it up and saw that there was a new friend on WeChat requesting to add it.
I opened it and saw that the first message reads: Are you okay? The second message reads: I am Awen, long time no see, do you still remember me?
He said he was Awen, but in fact I wasn't sure if he was the Awen I was thinking about.
However, I still passed the friend request to him and replied to him with a message saying: Long time no see, everything is fine!
After about ten minutes, Awen's message sent me again and asked: Are you in Foshan now? Or have you returned to your hometown in Guangxi? Is it the child's mother?
After seeing this message, I knew that he was the Awen I was thinking of, that is, my ex-boyfriend Awen.
If it were colleague Awen, she wouldn't ask me where I was or if I was my child's mother, because when I quit my job and went back to my hometown to be a full-time mother, she took me to the station.
Seeing the message sent by my ex-boyfriend, I instantly opened the door to memories, and the scenes about the past with him were reproduced like a movie.
(I)
I and I are alumni of the same school or classmates of the same major.
Because our classroom is on the same floor, we have more opportunities to meet each other every day when we go up and down and go in and out of the classroom.
Another thing is that we all like to play badminton and volleyball.
At that time, the physical education teachers in our two classes were the same person, so the physical education class was often arranged for students from two classes to attend classes together. In this way, we have more opportunities to play basketball together. Naturally, our relationship is much better than other students.
At that time in school, many students thought that we were dating and even joked that we wanted us to buy candy.
As a person, I have a low emotional intelligence and did not think about falling in love at the time. Instead, I explained to my classmates very seriously, don’t talk nonsense, so as not to hinder his love luck.
Awen knew what I said, and he didn't say much, just smiled foolishly at everyone. After
, we continued to eat, play ball, and go out to play. In the eyes of others, we are like lovers, but in my heart, we are just classmates who have a better time. After graduating from
, we all went to Guangdong to work, but I went to Shenzhen with my classmates. And he, I heard that he went to Zhongshan with his relatives.
That's it, we lost contact!
During this period, I often change jobs, sometimes in Shenzhen, sometimes in Dongguan , and sometimes in Guangzhou. Due to frequent address changes, many of my classmates and I lost contact.
(II)
At the end of 2008, I changed my job from Dongguan to Foshan. Around August and September 2009, Awen found my phone number from other classmates and contacted me.
At this time, we are already twenty-five or twenty-six years old. Many of our classmates have already got married and had children.
One day, Awen came to Foshan to see me from Zhongshan. We have not met for many years and have no sense of strangeness at all. We are still like before, and there is a lot of words.
As we chatted, we started talking about talking about friends. Awen asked me: Have you ever talked about boyfriends for so many years?
I said, not yet. Strangely, I am not ugly either, so why are there no boys chasing me?
Awen said, your emotional intelligence is too low, and someone chases you, you don’t know.
I said, probably not, my emotional intelligence is so basic?
Awen nodded and replied bluntly, "Yes, I chased you when I was in school, but you never knew it."
I said, isn’t that the students joking? You haven't told me, how could I know.
Then, Awen said to me very seriously, you don’t have a boyfriend, I don’t have a girlfriend, I will start chasing you as a girlfriend from now on, I told you this time, you must take it to your heart.
is that simple, I became Awen's girlfriend.
(III)
Awen himself opened a small shoe factory in Zhongshan to process custom shoes for customers. The scale is not very large, but he can also make some money, which is better than working for others.
I work as a clerk in a factory in Foshan. My salary is not high, but I am better at work and freedom. So, when Awen asked me to quit my job and go to Zhongshan to make shoes with him, I refused, because I didn't want to get my salary from him.
After more than a year of long-distance relationship, the house Awen bought in his hometown has been renovated. He said, during the Spring Festival, let’s choose a good day to get married.
I said, OK!
I have no objection to getting married. I don’t like girls who are now dating and getting married. They need to have a bride money, add a name on the property certificate, or something. I have never thought about these things. He is the main focus of everything, and I just need to cooperate with him.
Just as I was fantasizing about a happy and happy life in the future, Awen was suffering from bad luck, he had a car accident and his right leg was hit by the car.
When I learned about his car accident, it was already more than a month after his car accident.
Only then did I realize that for more than a month, he has not come to see me, nor has he asked me to see him. Every time I want to see him, he always says that he has to work overtime recently, and when he finishes his work, he will come to see me.
And I trust him.
, but what I never expected was that he actually had a car accident.
When I went to Zhongshan to see him from Foshan, he was discharged from the hospital and was recuperating in the rental house.
This time he met, he broke up with me and said that his legs could not return to normal and he would be likely to be with a cane in the future. In order not to delay my happiness in life, he decided to break up with me.
Of course, I did not agree to this result, and took the initiative to transfer my only 5,000 yuan deposit to his silver card to let him take a good rest. I believe everything will be fine.
, what I didn't expect was that after I returned to Foshan to work from Zhongshan, he broke off contact with me.
I can't get his phone number through again. I went to Zhongshan to find him. His shoe factory has already transferred it to someone else. His rented house has long been replaced by tenants. I went to his hometown to find him, and his family said that he seemed to have gone to Wenzhou with his friends, but his family didn't know his situation and his phone number. I went to see his QQ space, and he has not updated the QQ space since the car accident.
That's it, I lost contact with Awen again.
(IV)
My first meeting with me was during the Spring Festival in 2010. We took the bus to the city to take the high-speed rail. My husband took the high-speed rail to Hunan, and I took the high-speed rail to Foshan.
is in the car. When I learned that my husband was working as a photographer in a photo studio in Hunan, I was very happy. I remember that I told my husband that when I got married, if you happen to be at home, please help us take wedding videos!
After getting off the bus in the city, we added QQ friends to each other and said again that we should invite each other to have a wedding banquet when we get married.
Because when my husband and I met, it was the time when I was in love with my ex-boyfriend. That's why this agreement is made.
is just, what I can’t imagine is that my feelings will change.
After breaking up with my ex-boyfriend, I have never been in a relationship. During this period, someone introduced me to a partner, but I have never succeeded. Either I look down on the other party or the other party looks down on me.
During this period, my husband and I would occasionally chat on QQ, but we would talk about food and travel, and we would occasionally ask about each other's relationship with each other, but we all said with a tacit understanding that the luck of love has not yet arrived.
During the Spring Festival in 2016, I went back to my hometown to celebrate the Spring Festival, and my husband also returned to my hometown to celebrate the Spring Festival from Hunan.
This year, we are all older single men and women, and we are all facing the situation of family urging us to get married.
My husband sent me a message before going home for the Spring Festival saying that when I go home, I have to face the situation of being urged to get married, so it is better for us to be the other person's boyfriend and girlfriend first to deal with it.
But what I didn't expect was that I kindly helped my husband deal with relatives and friends as his girlfriend, but he treated me as a girlfriend sincerely, so that I could enjoy the treatment my real girlfriend should have. After
, in 2017, we were really in love and got married on February 14, 2018.
The former ex-boyfriend, his former love, has truly become a past tense, and he has never forgotten it, but he will not think of it often.
After my husband and I got married, my life was dull and I had a daughter, who was over three years old.
Nowadays, I devote myself to living with my husband, taking good care of my family, taking good care of my children, working hard to make some money, and buying a small car for transportation, and my life will be even more fulfilling.
(V)
This morning, my ex-boyfriend suddenly added me to WeChat. This is something I have never thought about. I thought that in this life, he and I will never have any contact again.
, what I never expected was that after more than ten years, he would still remember my phone number and contact me on his own initiative.
Awen said on WeChat that he has returned to his hometown recently and will celebrate the New Year in his hometown. He asked me if I had time. He wanted to treat me to a meal and said that he would return the 5,000 yuan I transferred to him back then.
I looked at the message for a long time, and finally replied to him like this: You can pay back the money, just transfer money on WeChat. There is no need to eat. My child is still young and cannot do without my care.
The reason why I don’t want to go to dinner is because I am afraid of causing unnecessary trouble and misunderstandings. Ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, etc. often bring storms to a dull life.
Some people have become past tense, so let them always become past tense.
What we should do is to cherish everything we have now. Only by cherishing the present can you have happiness!
Friends, what do you think?
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