In 2019, she and I met through a friend’s introduction. But she was still working in Shanghai at that time, but this did not prevent me from chasing her as a girlfriend; so under my fierce offensive, we were together.
Because we were separated by two places, we could only meet through mobile phone videos, but this did not affect our relationship, and it lasted for two years.
In the past two years, I spent the accounting exam with her; she was studying at night, and I watched her through video. Although the first time ended in failure, she successfully passed the second time after my supervision...
Two years passed in a flash. During this period, I also expressed to her many times that she wanted her to return to her hometown to work, and she agreed. It was not until half a year later that she told me that she was coming back; I knew that she wanted me to pick her up. So the next day I asked for leave from the company and drove to Shanghai.
On the way back, we talked and laughed, and were sweet and sweet. Perhaps, this is happiness.
I thought she was back and our long-distance running of love would end with success; the house I bought was also successfully obtained the key, as if everything was developing in a beautiful direction, but I didn’t know that changes would follow.
The year when I bought a house happened to be in the outbreak of the epidemic, so the price of the house was relatively cheap, but the corresponding reason was that the money outside was not easy to get back, so I had to borrow it. But during that period, every household was in difficulty and could not borrow much. In order to avoid the rebound and rise of housing prices, my family hurriedly chose a community that was satisfied and bought a house. The down payment of was 300,000 yuan, and the loan was 20 years.
Because of the epidemic, all walks of life were in a bad mood. At that time, my salary was about 6,000 or 7,000 yuan, and a mortgage of about 4,000 yuan. Although it was a bit difficult, it was only temporary, because I believe that as long as I work harder, my life will always get better. But when her parents learned about my situation, the problem also followed.
That day, she told me what her parents said, probably the meaning was that my salary was too low. Although it is very direct, I also know that maybe it is a little bit short after getting married, but I think that is only temporary. So I asked her, "What do you think?"
. I don't know if I don't want to answer or what, she said, she listened to her parents' .
To be honest, I was really angry when I heard her say this. I said to her, "Do you just have no idea about your opinion?"
But her answer was still the same as before... Listen to my parents.
Because of this, we quarreled a lot. In this way, we spent 2021 with few gatherings and many times, and time came to 2022. We have never met again since the second half of this year.
No message, no notification. Phone, WeChat , Douyin , QQ , Alipay ... As long as you can contact, I was deleted, and I was still in my original place. Later I found out that her parents introduced her to a blind date and she agreed. Only then did I realize that perhaps our love has ended long ago.
To be honest, I am really unwilling to give up. Three years of love is forgotten like three minutes. It was like I was constantly renovating my new house, but I was the only one living inside. But what can I do if I am unwilling to give up? Perhaps for me now, the best thing is...
Love yourself well.
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