1. Close the distance
Normally, there are roughly three types of daily distances.
The first type is to face people you don’t know. In order to avoid causing discomfort between both parties, people will be accustomed to maintaining a certain social distance and will not be too close to each other;
The second type is to face people who are familiar but not good, and they will not be as repulsive as the first type. They can accept being very close to each other, but do not have physical contact;
The third type is what we call intimate distance, which is generally applicable to lovers. When the relationship is close enough, you can be very close when you get along in daily life, such as holding the other party’s hand, or holding the other party, and making various intimate actions.
So the first step to accelerate the development of your relationship is to find a way to narrow the distance between you. Women are different from men. As a male counselor, they analyze it from a male psychological perspective.
As long as the boy doesn't hate that girl in his heart, they do not reject the other party being too close to them.
So girls, when facing the boys they like, they should be bold enough to flirt with them. As long as they are brave enough, no boys can't flirt with them.
teach you a little trick, dress up well when meeting, and there is no need to mention the makeup. The key is to spray perfume and choose a perfume that you think is the best smell and natural.
It's winter, the weather is so cold, you can wear a beautiful scarf when you go out and spray perfume on the bottom of the scarf.
When you eat together, you inadvertently turn your scarf, and the fragrance will naturally emit, as if there is something and nothing, it is the most seductive.
He may ask you: "What perfume I sprayed today, it smells so good." At this time, you look into his eyes.
smiled and said to him "Did you smell it? If not, I'll get closer." made close moves at the same time. Believe me, this will definitely make a boy who can flirt with his heartbeat, and his heartbeats will be faster.
2.Create physical contact
The fastest way to enhance feelings during the ambiguous period is to create physical contact, which can make your feelings further. is now winter, and it is easier to create physical contact.
For example, every girl will apply hand cream in winter, right? Use all the hand cream.
When you go out for dinner or movies together, you said you should apply a hand cream, and then deliberately apply a little more, "Oh, I accidentally applied too much, please share it with you!" After saying that, he started to use it and applied the excess hand cream on his hands.
At this time, he will definitely be a little confused and his heart beat faster. After you finish applying, you can put your little hand in front of him and ask him with a smile: "Do you smell it, does it smell?"
or you can rub your little hand first when you are walking outside, and ask him if he is cold. Before he can react, hold his hand directly: "Your hands are so cold, I'll warm you up!"
These physical contacts will definitely make boys feel unstoppable. They may seem calm on the surface, but they will definitely not be able to resist it in their hearts. They are just pretending to be calm.
3. If you are close and separated, will play tricks on
After this operation, plus the time of getting along with each other, the man's heart will almost be held by you, and he will start to fall in love with you, and he is ready to confirm his relationship with you.
He may take the initiative to confess to you: "I like you, can you be my girlfriend?" At this time, you must suppress your happiness and excitement. Be sure to be more reserved and not agree to him directly. Because if you accept him too quickly, you will become easy to control in the other person's eyes, and he will not cherish you well.
men are all "conqueror animals". likes to challenge. Only as long as you work hard can you feel accomplished and cherish it more, and the same is true for your feelings. "What you can't get is always in agitation", this sentence is not without reason.
This is the "pushing and pulling method" that the teacher has taught everyone before. pulls back and forth, and gives him a feeling of being close and distant, achieving the effect of playing hard to get.
And in relationships, a very important point is some sense of ritual and small details of getting along with each other. If these boys don’t give you this, you must not just agree to be with him.
all say "Love starts with receiving a formal confession and a bouquet of roses." From this we can see that the sense of ceremony of confession is very important. If he is not prepared for anything and just a simple sentence "I like you" , then such love will come too easily and casually.
You need to see his efforts first, and then consider whether to be with him, so that you can't be blinded by love and become a love brain.
For example, you can answer him like this: "Although I like you too, I can't promise you yet, because I don't want the beginning of my love to be just a sentence. I like you, let's go together."
After saying this, he refused but did not completely refuse, which was to give him hope.
So in the eyes of men, you have a good impression of him, but you also have your own pursuit of love. Not a casual girl.
If he wants to be with you, he has to work harder to meet your requirements. He will spend more time on you, give more for you, and naturally cherish you more.
And you have changed from being passive from the beginning to being active, and you have become the decision maker of this love .
Look, your sweet winter love belongs to you, it’s all right to get it right, hurry up and start!
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