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"I took my daughter and I left. It's too difficult to be your daughter-in-law!"
48-year-old mother-in-law was pregnant with her third child, and her daughter-in-law did not agree to give birth to a child. In September, this incident was understood by many people. Three months later, the lives of Ms. Zhang and her ex-mother-in-law had undergone earth-shaking changes!
Ms. Zhang has a lovely daughter. When she was pregnant for more than seven months, she was told by her family that her mother-in-law was 3 months pregnant. This news was like a bolt from the blue for her. Why do
say so? Let’s take a look at the family status of her in-laws’ family.
In-laws are old and have a low income, which is basically only enough for daily expenses. Raising a child is different from before. It is difficult for young people to raise children, not to mention that the in-laws are getting older and older, and their physical and financial conditions are not suitable for having a third child. The parents-in-law also said that if they can't afford to raise them, they will definitely disagree with their eldest daughter-in-law, but the eldest son will agree.
Ms. Zhang’s husband, Mr. Zhu, also has a younger brother. He has already negotiated a girlfriend and will cost a lot of money to get married. At this time, the mother-in-law who is nearly 50 years old will inevitably become a burden to the entire family. Not only can he not help the two daughters-in-law take care of the children, but the two sons and daughters-in-law also have to take care of the mother-in-law.
Therefore, Ms. Zhang disagreed with her mother-in-law having a third child, and said that if her mother-in-law had a third child, she would divorce and leave the family with her daughter and her unborn child.
This is obvious. People who are nearly fifty-year-olds who have a little normal thinking should know how to choose at this time.
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A neighbor said to Ms. Zhang: "Your mother-in-law is pregnant, and you can take care of the child together, it's great." Ms. Zhang was very angry when she heard this joke.
It’s a pity that the parents-in-law ignored them at all, disagreed with aborting the child, and insisted on having a child. The father-in-law said that in order to prove that he was in good health and had a child in old age, the mother-in-law wanted to realize her dream of a daughter.
The youngest daughter-in-law had not passed the door yet and broke up. The eldest daughter-in-law packed her luggage and took her daughter back to her parents' home.
In-laws still stick to their own ideas. Ms. Zhang’s husband is a mother’s boy. He listens to his mother’s everything and does not protect his wife at all. The wife went back to her parents' home to raise her baby, and he also took someone to her mother-in-law's house to make trouble. As a result, her daughter-in-law's pregnancy stopped having a miscarriage that day. The child, who was almost 8 months old, was a boy. Because the pregnant woman had severe bleeding, the fetus could not be preserved.
has come to this point, and Ms. Zhang has also seen the true face of her husband and her in-laws, decided to divorce and no longer regret it.
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Next, the behavior of the in-laws made netizens even more angry and they actually took action.
After the two filed for divorce, cooling-off period arrived. When Ms. Zhang went to Zhu's house to find her ex-husband to complete the procedures, her mother-in-law first advised her, but Ms. Zhang was completely disappointed and had to divorce. Seeing that she couldn't persuade her, she went with her son, and her husband fucked and kicked her.
was beaten and the two officially divorced.
However, this beating cannot be vain. Ms. Zhang filed a lawsuit, and her ex-mother-in-law quickly requested forgiveness and asked for compensation of 5,000 yuan, which later increased to 8,000 yuan, but Ms. Zhang disagreed.
When the mother-in-law came to the house again to reconcile, she said that her daughter-in-law is really good at pretending. She has been married to the Zhu family for so many years and looks quite honest. She didn't expect that her heart was so cruel and so dark.
Ms. Zhang suggested that she only negotiated and mediated with Mr. Zhu, but her mother-in-law disagreed and was present every time. At this time, she still refused to let her son deal with it herself, and then she became more and more chaotic.
Because she knew the true face of her ex-husband’s family, when the reconciliation, Ms. Zhang specially brought chili water just in case, if the other party takes action, she would use chili water to protect herself.
Such mother-in-law is really amazing. When you are your daughter-in-law, people don’t want to be as knowledgeable as you. Live a good life. If you can tolerate it, you will tolerate it. If you can give in, you will give in. You will not cherish it. The two sides had a good time and wanted to pinch their daughter-in-law as a soft persimmon. They were so beautiful.
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Finally, Ms. Zhang agreed to the settlement for the sake of the child and offered 20,000 yuan in compensation. When my brother-in-law gave the bride gift, Ms. Zhang also asked for the 28,000 yuan lent to her mother-in-law.
Things have finally ended. Now, Ms. Zhang rents a house with her daughter and lives a happy life. Whether a person is happy or not has little to do with material things. If you are surrounded by sincere people, you will have a relaxed and harmonious life atmosphere, your mood will become good, and your whole body will become better.
This is why we see many female friends who live better than before after divorce, and Ms. Zhang is no exception.
She can start live broadcasts and usually sell short videos and sell goods. Since she sent her first short videos to sell goods, she has sold nearly 2,000 in less than a week, which is really good.
Women are trapped in an unfortunate marriage and consumed by some people. They can’t do anything. They also have to free up their energy to solve some troubles and exhaust themselves.
Once you leave that environment, return to rationality, concentrate on your career, and have no drags on your feet, you can naturally do your best.
Her husband is a perfect mother's boy. Not only did her 8-month-old son die, but she had nothing. My sister-in-law was pregnant before marriage and chose to return to her younger brother. Because she was afraid that such a thing would happen again, her younger brother asked her mother to give up her third child.
In-laws' life has returned to normal, and the younger brother will also usher in a new life, only he himself is in vain. Filial piety, filial piety should be polite, and obedience should be reasonable. You should not be foolish and filial piety in the end, and you should swallow the bitter fruit yourself.
Seeing such in-laws, I thought of a word: mother and wife are virtuous , an unreasonable mother-in-law, raise a mama-boy who listens to her in everything. The daughter-in-law who marrys either swallows her anger or makes the family roar. We can also see that the incident of
is that most of the things that affect whether a marriage is happy or not is not because of money, but more because of disagreement of values, money can be made. If the three views are different, it is difficult for the marriage to continue. Do you agree?
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