There are many things in life. try and do it occasionally, which will bring temporary pleasure.
But when you do it several times, it will become boring.
This is the marginal effect.
Marginal effect refers to the relationship between our input and output. It is contrary to common sense that the marginal effect expresses: the more you invest, the less benefits you produce.
Whether from the perspective of psychology or physiology , The first time we invested our time and energy to try something strange.
When you really experience this thing, has the strongest physiological and psychological stimulation.
However, when you try it the second time, will feel much less exciting than the first time.
The third time , The fourth time will gradually fade... With this rule, the more we try , the more physiological and psychological feelings will become more and more dull.
until there is no more stimulation, and is left with boredom. The same is true for
when used in love.
marginal effect informs us: for women, or for a relationship, don’t use too much force at the beginning.
Never take out your trump card as soon as you come up and give your all your feelings.
is like fighting landlords, no one will fight the king as soon as they come up.
Although you like the other person likes it, the more you want to get the other person.
You must know how to restrain yourself and know how to behave.
Otherwise, your overpaying , will only increase the other party's psychological threshold and reduce the value you pay.
is applied to actual cases, and we must learn to "squeeze toothpaste".
When your beloved woman meets your requirements and asks for a reward.
Don't buy the upper limit you can bear as soon as you come up.
For example: If you have a monthly salary of 10,000, you will spend a month's salary to buy her a bag.
This is the same as playing cards as playing kings.
paid high costs at the beginning , then in her heart, she would subconsciously think that she is very important to you.
If your future gifts are not as valuable as this time.
will only give her an illusion: You don’t love her that much, otherwise why would you become more and more "stingy"?
You can say that she is materialistic and that she is realistic, but you cannot deny that you are not without fault in this relationship.
This is the problem that many men encounter.
is desperately good to women in love, is sincere to her and leaves everything she thinks is the most precious to the other party.
thinks this will make this relationship more and more stable.
Little did she know that 's approach just raised her status to one day when she felt that she was not worthy of her.
At this time, No matter whether your efforts continue to increase, the rewards she gives you will never be equal.
instead depends on your mood and preferences, and will occasionally give you some gifts.
And when you make up your mind to stop loss, just happened, and she had already wanted to leave.
You will lose her forever.
This is the basic explanation of the "marginal effect" on feelings and women's psychology.
It informed us that only occasionally pays at high cost, or when you hope to have high returns.
can occasionally stimulate the other party with high costs, so that they can truly mobilize the other party's emotions.
will not hold the other person in the sky for a long time.
As the saying goes: "Don't be a licking dog, lick it to the end, you have nothing!"
Have you ever been heart-wrenching to a opposite sex? What's the outcome?
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