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Why do women get married? I think it should not be to satisfy others, but to be able to draw strength from this experience and become a better self. I should be to find a harbor that can shelter me from the wind and rain, and rest occasionally.

After you understand this principle, you should not rush into marriage, but should slowly search in the process of constantly improving yourself. With such rationality and sanity, you should understand that marriage is only a part of our life. It can add icing on the cake, but it cannot provide timely help.

hope that all women can get married for themselves and for happiness. I believe that we can all meet a better selves in marriage.

Marriage is to make two imperfect people more perfect

After experiencing a good marriage, you will understand that marriage is not about finding a perfect person to be together, but about making two imperfect people work together to become more perfect.

For example, if you don’t know how to do housework, the other party is actually not very good at it, but as long as you all want to run this family better, you will definitely be able to grow together and become more and more handy.

This is how my husband and I are because we are both only children, and we have never done much housework in our original family. Although I can be better than him, at least I can distinguish onions and garlic sprouts, overall we are really the kind of people who can't do housework.

But after marriage, we all understand that if two people really want to live a good life, they must clean up the house, cook by themselves, and take care of themselves.

so, we started to cook according to the recipe, started cleaning up the weekly schedule, and slowly changed our bad living habits.

was indeed difficult at the beginning. After all, we all came from different original families and had different living habits, so the abilities of the two people were originally limited.

But as we slowly get through, we have mastered many life skills and have life habits that belong to us. Although there are still various small problems, overall life has moved in the direction we want.

I think this should be the meaning of marriage. Although we are not perfect, we can make each other more perfect because we are together.

so, we have spiritual sustenance and support in life. Through this relationship, we have seen a better world and met a better self.

Getting married is to have someone who can talk at any time

Remember there was an issue of " Art Life ", Zhu Jun asked Wang Zhiwen: "You are 40 years old, why haven't you got married yet?"

Wang Zhiwen smiled and said: "There is no suitable one."

"What kind of thing do you want to find?"

"What kind of thing do you want to find?"

Wang Zhiwen thought about it seriously and said: "I just want to find someone to chat with her anytime, anywhere." God's man."

Zhu Jun smiled: "Isn't this easy?"

But Wang Zhiwen shook his head and said seriously: "It's not easy! Not easy! For example, if you think of something in the middle of the night, if you call her, she will say, what time is it? How sleepy, let's talk about it tomorrow. You will lose interest immediately. Some words, sometimes, have the urge to tell some people, and after that opportunity, you don’t want to say it, so it’s not easy to find someone you want to tell her and can tell her. “

Yes, it’s easy to find someone who can accompany you, but it’s really hard to find someone who can speak with you at any time. This not only requires love, but also requires patience and concurrent frequency.

Wang Zhiwen told us that getting married is to find someone who can speak at any time. I think this makes a lot of sense, and women should also use this as the standard for getting married.

You should know that a man who is willing to spend money for you does not necessarily really love you, but he is willing to talk to you at any time and be able to stop what is in his hands for you. This is loving you.

I have heard too many female friends complain that their partner ignores people when they play games, but I have also heard many female friends say that no matter what their partner is doing, they will put down what they need as long as they need it.

You see, what happiness is? Needless to say, everyone understands, and what kind of happiness we want and what kind of marriage we should have is also what everyone should know.

The purpose of getting married is very simple, it is to make yourself feel not lonely, find someone you are willing to talk to and he is willing to talk to you, cherish him, and you will be very happy.

Marriage is to have a resonant soul to move towards a further future

What is marriage? After reading this passage, I think it is very good.

"Marriage is two lonely humans, based on spiritual understanding and love, so they are willing to rely on each other and contribute to each other's life in the common secular life."

Yes, marriage is a very nihilistic thing. We need marriage, not just to solve physiological problems, but to have a person with soul resonance to move towards the future together.

find such a person, but sometimes it is actually very simple. As long as we can not just use the other party’s external conditions as the standard, we will definitely be able to listen to our inner voice.

You should know that not everyone needs marriage. Many people can live happily alone without finding the right person.

So, don’t be afraid that your standards are too strict and requirements are too high. Look for it slowly and experience it carefully. Your future should be controlled by yourself. You must find the person who can cheer each other up, tolerate each other, have common goals, and move towards the future together.

In this way, you will have better happiness.

Why do women get married? This answer is both complex and simple.

Because women don’t actually want much in marriage, they are just that someone can tolerate themselves, occasionally they can rely on themselves, find a safe haven, and make themselves feel happy.

But, even such a requirement is really difficult to achieve, so there are so many sisters who are constantly hurt in marriage and constantly looking for the right person.

So, I can't give you a certain answer, I can only tell you, women, if you want to be happy, don't regard marriage as the whole of life, try to live for yourself and love yourself well.

When you get better and better, you will meet the right person, walk into a marriage that may not be perfect but full of happiness, manage your future together, and see the beauty of this world through this marriage together.

I believe that when everyone has such a goal, they will be able to work hard for themselves, not get married for the sake of marriage, and become the master of their own life.

I believe that the right person is waiting for you ahead, you have to work hard, he is waiting for you.

I am Xiyan, a columnist, an older girl who is neither old nor old. She likes to write warm words and do emotional programs. She has published "The Rest of Your Life is About Me". If you have a story, remember to come to me.