Men are like children who never grow up. No matter how old they are, they are not very mature. Relatively speaking, women will know more about how to take care of others and be more gentle and considerate.
However, when getting along, they often part because of some trivial things. So, how to make the men around you love you more and need you?
1. I often praise him and agree with him. Encourage him to cook for you, and praise him without hesitation, so that he thinks his cooking skills are really good. For shortcomings, use this opening remark: "You cook so delicious, it would be better if... it would be better." Don't think that doing this is meaningless. In fact, this will increase the other party's self-confidence and make him think that his cooking skills are invincible in the world, as if no one can make delicious dishes except him.
He will be more happy to immerse himself in the kitchen, proudly at a loss.
2. Don’t bring him to your parents’ home forever. Before marriage, don’t take him to live at your own home. It’s okay to get along with his family to enhance your relationship, but don’t take him to live there for a long time. You can tolerate his small shortcomings, which does not mean that your parents can tolerate them. Once you have dissatisfaction or conflicts, it will be very difficult to get stuck in the middle. Some words between husband and wife can still be as close as possible after they are finished. The dissatisfaction in their parents’ mouths will directly affect your future lives.
3. Refusing to talk to the phone or saying that you miss the other person. In "Story of Yanxi Palace", the queen asked Wei Yingluo , why did the emperor love Wei Yingluo so much, and she didn't do much. Wei Yingluo said lightly: "Why do you say it if you like it? Whoever says it first will lose."
Sometimes your indifferentness will arouse his possessiveness, rather than being inseparable from the lingering feeling of being inseparable and uneasy, making the other party unpredictable and uneasy. This relationship will be more worthy of respect and cherishing.
4. Always show weakness in front of men. In the movie ", the best woman to act cute, ", the protagonist played by Zhou Xun is too strong and does everything himself, which makes the male best friend who has been secretly in love with her for many years still dare not confess her love. She lives as a tomboy. When you show weakness, a man's boyfriend power will slowly be reflected, and his sense of need and desire to protect will be enhanced.
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