When love happens, age, height, distance, is often not a problem. If you like
, you will also like it. You can no longer care about so much.
At that moment, what mattered was the person in front of me, the feeling of being moved by himself. As for some other things, they were just clouds and were no longer so important.
Speaking of which, according to such rules, as long as you love, you can run towards the other party without hesitation.
All people and everything should give way to this love.
However, in terms of emotions, you must believe in your own feelings, but you cannot just listen to your own feelings, but you must be more rational.
is like distance, which can be ignored, but many people are still not so optimistic. They will recommend girls, it is best to be cautious and never marry far away easily.
The situation of the other party may disappoint.
There are a lot of news that a woman fell in love with a man, and then she didn't care about so much, and she had never seen it at a man's house. She never knew the most true appearance of a man's family, so she married the man and went home with the man.
At the end, although I have thought it through clearly that since I have chosen the other party, no matter what the other party’s family background or what the situation in all aspects is, I will still be well with the other party, but I will still regret it.
Because some things may really happen, which I never expected, for example, the conditions are too bad, so bad that I can't bear it at all, and for example, some customs and habits that I can't accept at all.
It is important to choose someone and you like it, but just relying on this love, you cannot maintain your life.
Like is romantic, but life is realistic. When reality is too unsatisfactory in all aspects, the romance in my heart cannot support the years at all. The little love of my own will soon disappear and I just want to escape.
So, women must not be in love. When they are in love, they don’t care about anything at all.
is too far away. In many cases, it is necessary to understand them carefully first and make yourself really clear.
Otherwise, when everything becomes a foregone conclusion, I regret it very much, and if I want to withdraw, I will have to pay a great price.
It will be difficult to leave a familiar environment.
People stay in familiar places and feel more secure in their hearts.
What's more, I stayed in one place for a long time, and my family, friends, connections, and circles were all there.
can be reunited with family at any time, and often meet friends. When looking for a job, some acquaintances will introduce them to you, so that you can understand many aspects more.
Living in such a place requires no need to say that it will be much more convenient in all aspects.
easily leaves your family and friends, gives up your job, and arrives in a completely unfamiliar place. The man around you may not be able to be responsible for you, help you find a good job, and allow you to quickly integrate into that place.
You may feel uncomfortable with many aspects. Whenever you encounter any grievances or troubles, you have nowhere to tell them. You have nothing except that man.
starts over and starts over again. It is really not as easy as I imagined. It is easy to seem very panic, and it feels like everything is out of control and is not under your control at all.
For a while, you will really feel helpless. The world seems to be the only one left. You will miss your hometown and feel that it is better to be at home and in a familiar city.
That man may not be worth it, it is easy to regret it.
The moment when you are moved by a man, during that period, you will of course feel that the other person is your best choice, which is the most important to you and is worthy of everything you give.
You have this feeling and imagine the other person very well, but the other person may not be that good.
is your filter, which makes you ignore some of the other person's shortcomings. It is also because you are in love, so during that period, the other person treats you the best, always seems so proactive and cherishes you so much.
As you really marry him, or even get married to his family, everything will probably start to change.
No man will treat you like he was in love. After he is really together, he will often not treat you so well. He will always coax you and accommodate you in every way, and will only be quite cold to you.
There will also be many conflicts between you, and you often quarrel over trivial matters.
When you live your life like that, thinking of giving up everything you have and choosing to come to where the other person is, you will really begin to feel that you shouldn’t have made such a decision. If you can live with
, you will often think like this. If you can’t live with one day and you can only divorce each other. You will even want to slap yourself a few times and tell yourself how ridiculous your marriage is.
Why do many people not recommend marrying far away? Because the days after marrying far away will be unsecured.
is closer, and you will have somewhere to tell me, someone will give me a shoulder, and if there is a problem, there will be somewhere to go. If you are too far apart, you need to give up a lot of things and you may not be happy in the future.
Not all men. When you marry far away, they will know how to treat you well and let your family take care of you, so that you can really live a good life without losing.
may only feel that you are isolated and helpless, and that he is the only one around you, making it more convenient for you to bully you.
There are too many women who cannot be responsible for their own marriage and bear the consequences.
often likes to talk about marriage from afar, and feels that they have sacrificed a lot, so they threaten men in various ways, making their relationship very stiff.
Since this is the case, it is best not to take this path easily. It is better to be closer to home.
text/Tan Meng
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