Love is like an adventure. Why do
think so?
Because in the emotional world, not all couples can go hand in hand.
Talk about love itself is accompanied by the process of "trial and error".
After a period of interaction, if we are in love with each other and can still maintain a state of mutual appreciation, then the fate between the two parties will continue to be attractive.
If both parties develop a disgust with each other.
Under this subconscious influence, couples will only magnify the shortcomings of each other , and the differences between the two will become more and more, which will eventually make both parties accumulate too much disappointment, so they choose to leave each other.
It seems to be a normal state of separation.
For girls with sincere emotions, how can they protect the fate they want?
Love is the interaction between two people.
In this back and forth game, only by knowing yourself and your enemy can you grasp your lover's heart.
From the perspective of women, people often get married and have children. What kind of life a woman wants to live is mostly closely related to love and marriage. Some people even say this:
A woman catches a man and catches the whole world.
Girls hope that men will surround themselves.
When pursuing women, men may be able to do this. If two people have the opportunity to spend time together, but girls lack the skills to manage love, then the man's enthusiasm will weaken.
It is easy to accept a man, but if you want to tie his heart, it is a challenge.
You should know that men themselves like to hunt for curiosity.
They pursue freshness and excitement, even in their emotional life. Once in love, without that magical feeling, some men will lose their enthusiasm.
Therefore, smart women not only need to master the emotional psychology of men, but also "prescribe the right medicine" in getting along with each other, so that men can think of themselves and always be in an active state.
. What makes men care about is often women with "trump card".
has empathy and is comfortable with it.
Who are you willing to get along with?
In interpersonal communication, we will avoid those tricky people.
And those who have empathy can not only win the recognition of people around you, but also use their personal charm to create a happy atmosphere and become objects that everyone is willing to accept.
In fact, isn’t this the case in love?
If a woman always shows a sarcastic side, accuses her husband and blames her every move. Obviously, even if this woman is very beautiful, she cannot keep the man's heart.
Men are rational and will also appear to be very tolerant when facing the woman they love.
But when two people get along, they also need a harmonious atmosphere.
When a woman has empathy, she will have enduring charm in the emotional world.
When dating such a girl, men will not only feel relaxed, but also gain the understanding of women. Just imagine, when facing such a lover, how can a man be willing to let her down!
If a woman is always emotional.
No matter how good a man has, he will continue to get rid of his patience and lose his patience day by day.
So girls might as well keep their temper a little calmer and make more smiles on their faces. At critical moments, you can also stand on the man's side and consider it for him. Simple behaviors can often impress men's sincerity.
is responsible and is in the same boat with him through thick and thin.
Love connects two people together.
Especially when both parties join hands to get married, what kind of life will they live next cannot be separated from their cooperation.
In emotional life, the absence of one party will affect each other's feelings.
Just imagine when a man gives his all and works hard for the happiness of two people. But women do nothing, spend every day in mediocrity, and are not willing to do housework.
It is obvious that such a woman lacks responsibility.
Over time, a diligent man will lose his direction of hard work.
If you want to be a man and are willing to always protect, women must have a sense of responsibility. After getting married, everyone should understand a fact that from then on, the fate of the two people will be tied together.
In addition to falling in love, two people also need to divide their responsibilities in order to work together to move towards the direction of happiness.
A woman who is unwilling to take responsibility will only become a burden to a man.
So, after meeting love, are you willing to keep happiness with the other party, or become a stumbling block for the other party? In fact, it is obvious that smart women will shoulder certain responsibilities and will become objects that men are willing to care about and protect.
Be enterprising and keep improving.
People may think:
Only men will have career aspirations, and women will be as long as they are ordinary.
In fact, women who live well have a positive and enterprising attitude. Career aspiration does not necessarily mean that one must achieve great things. Being able to do ordinary things well and having a craftsmanship is also a manifestation of having a career aspiration.
The current life requires everyone to have an enterprising attitude.
No matter what your current situation is, whether it is wealthy or poor. Everyone needs to find their goals, persevere, and win more rewards through certain efforts.
Sitting for nothing will only make people fall into trouble.
When you meet the woman you love, the man will become active.
They shoulder more responsibilities and hope to give the people around them a stable and happy life. If a woman always dispels her enthusiasm, she will only gradually become disappointed and even be full of complaints about her.
If a woman can become a man's motivation, she will give him certain support and encouragement at critical moments. Even using your own vision to give men enough guidance, such a woman will only make men feel grateful.
Of course, women who remain enterprising have no lazy temperament.
Under the witness of time, they will only continue to improve and change themselves, and therefore make their love full of freshness, thus completely tightening the man's heart.
Love needs to be equal.
Many girls think that if a man loves himself, he will never leave him.
Let me ask, where does men love you?
In fact, from the love psychology , only women with trump cards will make men dream of. Even if the two get married, women have the trump card for the rest of their lives and can still have the dominance in their emotional life.
If you want love to last for a long time, you might as well put your attention on yourself. From then on, be a woman with empathy, responsibility, and a enterprising spirit.
When you meet such a woman, a smart man will definitely be grateful.
Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional deep-rooted person with attitude. Write warmth in the world and read heartwarming stories, and thank you for being with you all the way. I only wish that the years are quiet and good, and that the clouds and winds are light, and that you and I can express your heartfelt love when you meet in a paragraph of words.
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