Preface:
57-year-old aunt said that after half a year after she and her husband slept in separate beds, their marriage came to an end. What happened? Let’s take a look together!
57-year-old Aunt Jin said:
My wife and I were in a free relationship at the beginning. My wife was my friend's brother. At that time, I often went to that friend's house to play, and later I met my wife. After we met for a while, he took the initiative to pursue me. At the beginning, I was very shy, and my friend kept matching us. I thought about it for a while. I thought that my wife was also very good, very enthusiastic, and very diligent. Although his family was a little poor, we were both very diligent. As long as we were willing to work hard, our lives would not be hard in the future, so I was with my wife later.
We have been together for three years, and then we got married. At the beginning, our parents urged us to get married because we have been in love for three years. In that era, three years of love were rare, and basically we got married after half a year of love.
After I got married to my wife, we raised two children. We originally wanted to raise more children. We felt that the more children there were, the happier it was. But at that time, my health had a problem and I couldn’t raise children, so we gave up the idea of raising children. We felt that two children were enough. We educated our two children well and made it important to educate them as anything.
Although we educate our children very carefully, our children are very willful. They always like to follow us and their academic performance is not good. Every time I hold a parent-teacher meeting, I feel very embarrassed. The latter two children have grown up and have their own families. After they get married, they start to live a peaceful life. Although their lives are not wealthy, they are still acceptable. Then my wife and I can feel at ease.
At that time, my wife and I were older and my health was not very good. So when I was 57 years old, my wife and I proposed to sleep in separate beds because my wife likes to snoring when sleeping, and I don’t want to sleep next to him. His snoring will make me noise and my sleep will be affected. When I was young, my sleep quality was relatively good, and I felt it was okay. When I got older, my sleep quality became worse. If I was a little noisy, I wouldn’t sleep well myself, so I think it’s better to sleep in separate beds.
After my wife and I went to bed in separate beds, my wife was unhappy. Since then, he often went to play mahjong. I knew that he played mahjong to anger me. I thought my wife was too petty, so I ignored my wife. But what I didn’t expect was that because of playing mahjong, my wife also got along with a woman in the mahjong hall. One day, I was bored at home, and then I went to the mahjong hall to find my wife. I saw my wife flirting with that woman, and my wife was holding the woman’s hand. The scene was really eye-catching, and my tears were all flowing down. I originally wanted to rush in to educate my wife and that woman, but after thinking about it, I would just forget it, so I turned around and went home.
At 12 o'clock in the evening, my wife came home. After he got home, I mentioned to him about the divorce. I also told him about the scene I saw in the mahjong hall. My wife knew my personality. He knew that I had a clean relationship and could not tolerate him cheating, so he agreed to divorce. After my wife agreed, I felt uncomfortable. Then I asked my wife why she treated me like this and why she was with that woman. We have been together for so many years. Isn't the relationship important for so many years? Later, my wife said that because I slept with him in separate beds, he felt that I didn’t love him anymore. At the beginning, he played with that woman to anger me, but unexpectedly, he fell in love with that woman. Now he loves that woman very much, and he has surpassed me, so he also wants to divorce me.
After hearing him say this, I shook my head helplessly. I really didn’t expect that because I slept with my wife in separate beds, my marriage with my wife came to an end.