People keep making choices all their lives. The wrong choice will directly affect the future direction. Some choices can be repeated, while some choices have no chance to look back.
In this fast-paced society, there are always people who lack consideration when making choices, but they do not know that the price of choosing the wrong one will make him suffer for a lifetime.
Recently, a netizen posted an anonymously on a social software, telling his bumpy marriage journey. His words are full of regret and reluctance.
In fact, there are many people who have the same experience as him, but they are unwilling to say it out of their face, so the netizen also chose to be anonymous.
A man met his ex-wife selling watermelons at the intersection
The accompanying pictures in the article are nothing special, but combined with his experience, it makes people sigh. A seemingly hard life may not be a kind of happiness.
An old tricycle was filled with unsold watermelons. On the empty road, there was no one in sight except the couple setting up stalls.
Watermelon is no better than rice and cannot be stored for a long time. If it cannot be sold in time, their losses will not be a small amount.
The two were in a bad mood, but instead of complaining about each other, they gave each other a big hug. This scene is touching.
The man happened to see this scene when he was driving by. He recognized his ex-wife at a glance. After all, he had lived together for three or four years.
Seeing her happy but her heart is cut like a knife
To outsiders, the ex-wife's life is very bad, but this man knows very well that her ex-wife enjoys her current life.
He knew that his ex-wife was not a person who valued material conditions. When he was together, his ex-wife always liked to be careful in terms of whether she was buying clothes or daily necessities, and her monthly salary would be given to her mother-in-law.
Her marriage was not to live a life with her, but to have a warm family, because she grew up in a single-parent family.
Just one year before marriage, her ex-wife's mother also died of illness. She had no support anymore. She thought she could live a worry-free life with an honest and loyal man, but she didn't expect that she was looking for a mama's boy.
If he could have taken the responsibility of his husband back then, he would not have lost this good woman. Unfortunately, there is no if in the world.
only blames himself for being incompetent
He wants to get rid of the vicious circle of mama's boy more than once, but his inertia over the years cannot be shaken off in a short time. He dared not say anything after his mother shouted a few times.
has to say the same thing about her son, let alone a daughter-in-law who has no support. Moreover, this daughter-in-law is very obedient, and what makes her unscrupulous is that her daughter-in-law has no family anymore.
The man knew that his mother was wrong, but he did not dare to stand up and speak. He would only persuade his wife to be more generous behind his back. The generousness again and again did not bring any change from her mother-in-law. She could not see any hope for the future and could only leave in a lonely way.
If he has some skills, he will not say nothing when his wife leaves; if he has some skills, he will not be in his 30s and is not free yet. He even needs his mother to agree to go to the supermarket to buy things...
Of course, the mother thought that she was more in charge of the children's better, but she did not know that she cut off the path of growth for the children.
This kind of self-righteous mother is not uncommon in society. I hope they can think calmly about it. They will always leave one day, what should the child do then?
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