Preface: The 53-year-old elder sister said she was really tired of marrying a 40-year-old man and admitted that she was wrong. What happened? Let’s take a look together!

Introduction:

53-year-old sister said that she was married to a 40-year-old man and was really tired. She admitted that she was wrong. What happened? Let’s take a look together!

53-year-old sister Zhang said:

My original family is still good. My parents are both workers. I could also work, but I don’t like working. I think workers’ work is too boring. I like creative work, so I did some small business later. At that time, my parents were really angry. They thought I was very ignorant because in their eyes, workers’ work is very good, basically a job, and I don’t have to worry about anything, but I don’t care about that. I think I’m the decision of my life by myself. I don’t want my parents to get involved in my life. My parents know that my personality is very stubborn, so they don’t want them to care about me anymore.

When I first started my business, I didn’t go very smoothly. I lived a hard life in those years. Fortunately, my parents often helped me, and I only survived it later. After a few years, my business improved a little, and I gradually made money. After I got the money, I often took my parents out to play.

I was older at that time, and then my parents kept advising me to get married. My parents said it would be better for women to get married early and then raise children earlier. My parents think that life will be complete if women have children.

Afterwards, I got married to my husband. My husband and I met because of business. My parents were not very satisfied with my husband because my parents wanted me to marry a worker. I don’t know what happened to my parents. They just like workers, but I don’t care about that. I insisted on marrying my husband. My parents knew that they could not stubborn me, so they could only agree.

After I got married to my husband, we were all busy with work, and then we got together and divorced more and then became increasingly weaker and finally we ended up with divorce. After the divorce, I took my children to live with them. My husband usually had living expenses. At that time, I didn’t want to remarry anymore. I thought to myself that I also have children, and the children will support me in the future. Why do I have to get married? Marriage is a troublesome thing, and I don’t want to cause trouble for myself anymore.

Years have passed in a blink of an eye, and I am older. When I am older, I become afraid of loneliness. At that time, my children have already gotten married and started a family. After they got married, they have become very busy and basically have no time to come back to accompany me. At that time, I lived alone. At night, I saw other people's houses lively, and then compared my own house, I found that I was very lonely, so I wanted to find another companion. It happened that at that time, Xiao Yang pursued me frantically. I was 13 years older than Xiao Yang. At that time, Xiao Yang was only 40 years old, and I was 53 years old, but Xiao Yang was very persistent. Xiao Yang said that age is not a distance, as long as two people truly love each other, he also gave me many examples of old couples and young wives. He said that a female junior college student won a gold brick. He also said that if she could be with me, he would have applied for a lot of gold bricks. He felt very happy. His mouth was really good at talking. Later, I was convinced by him, and then I was with him.

and later I married him. At the beginning, I had a longing for that marriage because Xiao Yang would say a lot of sweet words and was also a very romantic person. I thought it would be very happy to be with him, but after really getting married to him, I found that he was not what I thought. He was indeed very romantic, but romance costs money. He himself had no money, so he could only ask me for money. He took 20,000 or 30,000 yuan from me every month. I had some savings myself, but I couldn't stand him spending like that. If I continued like this, my savings would be squandered by him, so I planned not to give him money.

But if I don’t give Xiao Yang money, Xiao Yang will lose his temper, he will even throw things, and the TV at home is broken by him. I really feel too tired. I admit that I was wrong. I was blinded by his sweet words at the time, and I didn’t examine his character clearly, and then I married him. This is really a wrong marriage.