A female fan left a message saying that my husband cheated on me, but he blamed me for the mistake. I have been reflecting on what the hell is wrong with me, and he still has to go outside to find others!
From my wife’s doubts, what did I do wrong?
So if this kind of female friend encounters such problems, she may think. Did I spend too much effort at home, ignoring the same path with society, and losing common topics? Or, I blame myself, is it because I spent too much effort to ignore my husband at work? He went to find a third person for this reason.
I can tell you these concerns in my responsibility. All your efforts and efforts, whether in family or career, are for the betterment of this family. Suppose your husband goes to find someone else because of this problem. Thinking in reverse, he should not be seeking comfort from outside. It should be found from your communication.
At the same time, he must also know that you cannot accept this fact, otherwise he would not deceive and conceal, but file for divorce directly. Finally, you discovered it, and he revealed the whole thing. At this point, what we should reflect is whether my husband has asked you to express his desire to accompany or communicate more? Have you ever deliberately ignored this?
The willingness to communicate comes from the relationship status of the couple
When the couple is not disappointed, give up this relationship. Then you should try to take the first step and express your willingness to communicate with each other during this period!
When Party B expresses his thoughts, does the other party understand and what is his needs? Both parties need to clearly explain and understand and find out where the problem lies. Often, a relationship is rifted, and it will not be a one-sided fault. The problem has been around or has been hidden for a long time and cannot be solved, and eventually broke out at one time.
Observe your current situation
If you look back calmly, you will find that the recent relationship status is not that good, there are more quarrels than before, and it is more intense, etc. That proves that the relationship is getting worse. So please invite the other party to sit down as soon as possible and review whether there are any problems in your communication and what are the problems! Go and seek solutions.
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