Parents’ love for their children is selfless. Sometimes they would rather be wronged than let their children live a better life. Good family affection will make people feel like spring breeze and bring warmth and security. However, people’s hearts are also very complicated. In real life, there are many parents who are unfair to treat their children, such as being biased towards children, or prefer boys over girls. In the end, they are favored and fearless, and they do not even have the ability to be independent. Children who are not favored will become fragile and sensitive in their hearts, and even form bad values, which will affect their physical and mental development in the future.
Wang Hui has lived in a family that favors boys over girls since she was a child. Since her younger brother was born, her parents have given him all her pampering and companionship, and she ignores Wang Hui. In their opinion, girls will get married sooner or later, and they will only use the money they make in the future. Moreover, their pension issues must depend on their sons, so they do not care and care for Wang Hui too much.
Although parents focus on their younger brothers, they often instill in Wang Hui with the idea of focusing on their younger brothers. Even if they marry someone in the future or have the ability, they should try their best to help their younger brothers. Moreover, their family background is not very good, and their parents often quarrel over money. Therefore, Wang Hui has never complained about her younger brothers, and at the same time, she has also taken money very seriously.
Wang Hui also began to fall in love when she grew up, but her view of marriage and love is that money is the priority. She will use material to measure the depth of her relationship, and will first test the other party, such as whether she will spend money for her, and she will be ungraceful when spending money. Only after passing this level will she confirm a relationship. But there is another important part of her marriage, that is, a high bride price. She will ask for a 300,000 bride price, so each relationship will eventually be left unresolved.
Later, Wang Hui started blind dates. She felt that young is the greatest capital for women. Otherwise, as time goes by, age will become her own disadvantage. At that time, she will not be able to ask for too high bride money. Later, she went on blind dates more than a dozen times, but she couldn't last long. After all, the two didn't know much about the two before the blind date, and Wang Hui would only confirm her relationship after various tests. This step made many people feel disgusted, and it was impossible to spend money for an uncertain future.
It was not until she was 30 that she found another boyfriend, who was 5 years older than her. Wang Hui felt that the other party was older and must have wanted to get married early. So when she was talking about marriage, she directly mentioned the bride price of 300,000 yuan. This time the other party was not scared away immediately, but asked: Will you bring this money back after marriage? And what other things will your family dowry?
Wang Hui said after hearing this: There is no dowry, and she won’t bring back the dowry. This is the money for my brother to get married. If you don’t give it, then break up. After hearing this, the other party just replied coldly: OK, then break up, I can't afford to marry you. In addition, we have been dating for three months, and I have made a list of all the expenses. Since we broke up, we will make it AA.
Wang Hui was stunned and was so angry that she had a big fight with the other party. The relationship still ended in an unhappy way. She couldn't figure it out herself, and always felt that she had low requirements. Why was no one willing to marry her?
It is actually normal for women to pursue a perfect marriage, but more often, they also need to recognize themselves first. If they hold wrong values, regard marriage as a transaction, and use money to measure the depth of their relationship, then this relationship is destined to be unable to reach the end.
Especially in the blind date market, when you choose others with high requirements, others are also choosing you, and it is naturally difficult to meet the right person. If you live in fantasy all day and are unwilling to compromise and blindly pursue a high-quality life, even if the right person appears in front of you, you will be easily missed, and in the end you will only waste your youth and become an older leftover woman. #Marriage##Emotion##Emotional Firm#
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