Text/Xiaofan's emotional finale, Ye Xin and his mother sat together, and the mother and daughter showed up. One of the shots is confusing. After the mother and daughter talked to each other, Jian Jia slowly placed one hand on the table. There was nothing on the table, only her ha

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In the finale, Ye Xin and his mother sat together, and the mother and daughter showed up. One of the shots is confusing.

After the mother and daughter talked to each other, Jian Jia slowly put one hand on the table. There was nothing on the table, only her hand was frozen there.

Many people say that Jian Jia’s hands look very good. Some people also asked why the TV series should be specially displayed on this scene?

Ye Xin will never know why Jian Jia put her hands on the table? She didn't know that the few of her mother's cry to her were big lies.

Back then, Jian Jia insisted on divorcing Ye Cunyuan. Ye Xin cried and asked her mother to stay, but Jian Jia disagreed. She left her hometown and left her hometown.

In the years she left, Ye Xin has been living with her father.

After many years, Jian Jia returned to China due to Tyrianda's lawsuit and met Ye Xin twice in total. These two meetings have revealed Jian Jia’s true face nakedly.

1 Use the emotional card to open the daughter's heart

Ye Xin has been following her father since she was a child. She thought that her mother abandoned herself, so she always had hatred. As her mentality matures, she can understand her mother from the perspective of an onlooker, but deep down, she still rejects Jian Jia.

Ye Cunyuan wanted his daughter to be intimate with his ex-wife, so he asked them to have dinner together, but Ye Xin did not cooperate, and Jian Jia obviously did not have much enthusiasm, and the reunion dinner ended in a bad mood.

Ye Cunyuan knew that his ex-wife and daughter were both stubborn. He made an appointment with his daughter in the name of his ex-wife and used the same method to meet with his ex-wife. He wanted both the mother and daughter to untie the knot. Of course, the most important thing he did this was for his daughter.

The mother and daughter did not disappoint him this time. Because Jian Jia changed her strategy, when Ye Xin was about to leave, she begged in the name of her mother:

The last time I happened was that I was not good, can you sit down and have a meal with your mother? There are a lot to say to you.

Even if Ye Xin has no feelings for her, there are probably few daughters in the world who can resist her mother's plea. So Ye Xin sat down.

Someone has said that no matter how many misunderstandings there are between people, as long as you have a meal together, some misunderstandings will disappear. This is appropriate for Jian Jia and Ye Xin.

The mother and daughter haven’t seen each other for many years. Although they are a little unfamiliar with each other, when Jian Jia specially called her favorite food for her when she was a child. And when he accurately stated that his daughter's preference was "ketchup on the left and chili oil on the right", Ye Xin was still a little moved.

For a child who has longed for maternal love since childhood, her mother's little show of kindness to her made her very touched, and her thoughts also returned to her childhood. She remembered that she did not have chili oil when she was a child. In order to let her eat it, my mother asked her colleagues to bring it back from Shanghai every time.

Jian Jia was very pleased. She didn't expect her daughter to remember these things.

Ye Xin asked her, don’t you remember these too?

Jian Jia cuts food with a knife while saying:

The childhood of children is the most unforgettable memory for all mothers.

This is Jian Jia’s words, and it is also a big truth. The childhood of children is indeed the most unforgettable memory of all mothers.

Jian Jia's words are very powerful. Ye Xin directly breaks the defense. She apologized to Jian Jia, who has always been stubborn. Last time, because of her recklessness, I didn’t have a good time with my mother.

For Ye Xin, although she hates her mother, behind this hatred is actually love and need. For many years, she thought that her mother could accompany her to hold parent-teacher meetings and stand beside her when she was bullied by other children. Be able to encourage her when she encounters suffering.

Her apparent indifference to Jian Jia is actually her desire and need for maternal love in her bones.

The relationship between the mother and daughter has been eased due to a meal. This is what they all need, but it is far from meeting Jianjia's requirements. She wants more than that.

The next moment, Ye Xin saw the bracelet wearing Jian Jia’s hand. The pearls on the bracelet were picked up by eight-year-old Ye Xin on the beach. When she was young, she used the pearl to wear a bracelet for her mother.

A bracelet is not only Jian Jia’s best memory, but also Ye Xin’s deep childhood nostalgia for maternal love. The ice in Ye Xin's heart was melting quietly. Of course she knew what it meant for her mother to wear this bracelet. She also knew that with her mother's current identity and wealth, she could afford any precious bracelet. But my mother carried this most valuable necklace because the pearl on it was picked up by herself.

Jian Jia cleverly links the long-standing mother-daughter relationship with her.

Seeing Ye Xin's expression relaxed, she struck while the iron was hot, saying that she had not fulfilled her responsibilities as a mother for many years, and asked her daughter sincerely:

Can you forgive me?

In such a state of mind and atmosphere, even if you are a stern heart, you will probably be moved, let alone Ye Xin, who was originally lacking love?

Ye Xin is not a child. Although she is moved, how can the barriers and indifference accumulated over the years be melted overnight? Ye Xin used drinking water to escape from his mother's questions.

Although she cannot be forgiven easily, her original hostility towards Jian Jia disappeared. She gave her mother a snowflake brooch when she left. She used this brooch to tell her mood when her mother left.

It snowed heavily on the day you left. The whole world is very quiet, and I still remember you telling me that when it snows, the sounds will be sucked away by the snow. The sound of my crying that day seemed to be sucked away by the snow. I know you won't wear such a cheap brooch, but I still want to give it to you.

When Ye Xin told Jian Jia about her grievances, it meant that she had opened her heart to her mother.

If Jian Jia can seize this opportunity, it will be a matter of time before the mother and daughter reconcile. If they reconcile, it will not only fulfill Ye Cunyuan's wish, but also allow Jian Jia to get the love of her daughter, but also make up for the harm Ye Xin suffered in her early years. It will be a three-killing victory. Obviously Jian Jia was not going to do this because the mother and daughter soon had a second meeting.

2 Ye Xin's words made Jian Jia collapse

Susu's mother Jin Afen has enough videos to let Terryanda get sued. As Terryanda's legal director, Jian Jia naturally has to do her job for her boss. She promised Kim Afen three million in exchange for that evidence.

Susu wanted to hand over the evidence to Fang Yuan, but was accidentally intercepted by Jian Jia. Jian Jia used the lawyer's thinking to know her benefits and interests. Su Su ran out in a tangle. I happened to meet Fang Yuan and Ye Xin.

Ye Xin believed that it was her mother who coerced Susu, so she embarrassed Jian Jia on the spot.

Jian Jia said with emotion:

Jin Afen has a daughter who is willing to protect her. Where is me?

Jian Jia thinks she loves Ye Xin, but Ye Xin always ignores her, so she envies Su Su's feelings for her mother. She said such words to Ye Xin was emotional and even more sad.

If it were other children, most of them would comfort their mothers when they saw that they were so sad.

Ye Xin said hard:

You don’t need to tell me this. It was you who designed Jin Afen to sign the contract, you clamped them to hide evidence, you were committing a crime.

Jian Jia wants to convince Ye Xin. Don't sacrifice others for the sake of fairness and justice in your heart. As long as you follow the script she planned, no one will be hurt. Her words caused Ye Xin to explode. She pointed out that what Jian Jia obtained using this kind of indiscriminate means will not last long.

Jian Jia said that this is her job. Winning is everything to her.

Ye Xin solemnly warned his mother that law is not a game, and if you do something wrong, you will have to pay the price.

Ye Xin endured his grievances for many years, like a flood that broke through the dam. She told her sadness after her mother left and how much she needed maternal love. Her mother's departure made her feel that she was an abandoned child.

Everyone says native family is the root of a person's happiness. Some people use their whole life to heal their childhood, while others use their whole life to heal their whole life. Ye Xin is obviously the first type.

She once hated her mother because she abandoned herself, but as she grew older, she also tried her best to understand her from her mother's perspective.But she never expected that her mother would become such a person now. In order to win, she was willing to become a villain or a clown, and she was ashamed of having such a mother.

When she heard the words "I am ashamed of you" by her biological daughter gritting her teeth, Jian Jia, who had always been calm, finally collapsed, and her tears couldn't stop flowing.

Every mother desires to be the pride of her children, not their shame. Ye Xin's words were like a heavy slap, slapped Jian Jia hard in the face. Her heart was broken into pieces.

She choked and said: It’s not like this. There are some things you haven’t experienced before, and you don’t understand.

Jian Jia thought that she had no longer cared about anyone’s opinions over the years, and she didn’t care about Ye Xin’s opinions. However, when she heard her daughter say the words “You are ashamed”, she was still hit hard inside.

She tried her best to make her daughter, but what did she get now?

3 In the name of love, she covered up the wrong things she did

Facing her daughter's accusations, especially when Ye Xin said the sentence "I am ashamed of you", Jian Jia could no longer maintain her demeanor. She told the truth with tears:

How can you say this to me? I want to win so much because I lost you in the year of divorce. I mean, if you don't want to follow me, I will never stay because of you.

But in order to take you away, I filed a divorce lawsuit with the court . I can do anything, as long as you. At that time, you were unwilling to express your opinion, and the court finally awarded you to Ye Cunyuan. Since then, my daughter has thought I don’t love her anymore, and abandoned her.

Ye Xin was shocked by Jian Jia's answer. The truth my mother told was completely different from what she remembered. This is the answer she never thought of. She had questions about her mother's words. Since my mother loves her so much, why do she make a call that is cold all year round?

Jian Jia explained:

In that cold foreign land, I live in a dark and humid basement and work 16 hours a day. When I got back there, I still had insomnia and couldn't sleep. Because as soon as I close my eyes, my mind is full of you. I don’t have the conditions to make so many calls to you, because one call is my daily living expenses.

Ye Xin, there is no mother in the world who doesn’t love her children, so is me. But so what? I lost the lawsuit and lost the right to love you, so since then, I told myself that I want to be a winner, and that only in this way can I protect what I care about the most. To me, Win is the only language that is accessible in the world.

Let’s take a closer look at the passage that Jian Jia said, and there are four meanings in total.

First, she did not abandon her daughter, she once filed a lawsuit for her daughter. Because Ye Xin did not express her opinion, she lost the lawsuit.

Second, she loves her daughter, but she has difficulties.

She works 16 hours a day in a foreign country. Even though she is so tired, she will still suffer from insomnia because she misses her daughter when she returns to her residence at night. She didn't call because she had no conditions, because at that time, a call was her daily living expenses.

Third, if she loses the lawsuit, she means losing the right to Ai Ye Xin.

So she wants to be a winner, because only by winning can she protect what she cares about.

Jian Jia's words are so loud and profound, and a mother who endures everything for her daughter should be respected.

But if we look at her words carefully, we will find that there are many loopholes in it.

If Jian Jia’s first two paragraphs talk about her difficulties over the years, we can empathize with her. A woman is far away from a foreign country. Because she is living a difficult life, she misses her daughter to the core, but she has to endure her lovesickness and not make a phone call, because one phone call is her daily living expenses.

But her next paragraph exposed her true face nakedly. She didn't love her daughter as much as she said. She loved herself from beginning to end.

Whatever loses a lawsuit means losing Ai Yexin's right. This is Jian Jia's fallacy.It was also an excuse she made for her mistakes. Could it be that if the parents divorced and the children followed one of them, the other party would not have to fulfill their obligations?

The fact is that parents’ obligations to their children never end because of divorce. Although the child does not follow one of them, she can fully compensate the child financially, take time to accompany the child, and appear in front of the child as soon as possible when needed. This is the obligation of parents to their children. It is also the most basic bottom line for a person to be a human being.

If Jian Jiageng went abroad with poor financial conditions and was unable to call her daughter, what if she got better later? Has she ever taken time to chat with her child every day and cared about her? Have you ever made up for your daughter?

s she doesn't. Even on the Lantern Festival night before, Ye Cunyuan wanted to make a family of three videos, she would just take off the line in just a few words. And this is the truth that Ye Xin can't let go of for many years.

I think no reason can be the reason why a father or mother ignores the child.

Jian Jia wants to be a winner. Only when a person lives well can his relatives live well. But Jian Jia said that only if she is the winner can she protect what she cares most? What does she care about the most? For a mother, what she cares most is her own children.

She once told Ye Xin that there is no mother in the world who doesn’t love her child. Since that's the case, Ye Xin is the most important thing to her.

Since her daughter is so important, she also knows that her daughter works in the court, so she naturally knows what impact she will have on her daughter if she does some illegal rituals.

Jian Jia knew the shady scenes in Terryanda, but still chose to defend them, and also designed to let Jin Afen's mother go to jail.

Compared with Jin Afen, she is a legal elite and an uneducated nanny. They all have mistakes, but in terms of subjective consciousness, Jian Jia's mistakes are even bigger because she knows what she does will bring to the country and the people, and to Ye Xin. But she did it anyway.

Where does her so-called protection of relatives reflect?

In fact, not only did she not protect her daughter, she was dragging her daughter down. Hurting my daughter.

The words she said are the biggest lies and great irony. After she had a showdown with her daughter, she put one hand on the table, revealing her true face.

4 specially put his hands on the table and uncovered the true face of Jian Jia

After Jian Jia spoke his heart to Ye Xin, the mother and daughter both lowered their heads and said nothing. Jian Jia quietly put one hand on the table. The lens is frozen there.

When I first saw this shot, I was wondering, why do I need this?

As the lens extends, the answer is also revealed.

Because looking upwards along the camera, you will see the bracelet on her wrist. The bracelet is wearing a pearl given to her by 8-year-old Ye Xin. That was what she picked up while playing on the beach. Jian Jia has been wearing this bracelet for many years. Even though she can buy a lot of expensive jewelry now, even if it doesn't match her identity, she has never let the bracelet go away.

Because this is the love my daughter has for her, and it is also her nostalgia for the past. Jian Jia's impression of Ye Xin was always retained when she was eight years old.

And the reason why she put her hands on the table may have two meanings.

First, I want to make my daughter soft-hearted. ,

Second, she wanted to use this hand to pull her daughter's hand, but she didn't have the courage to go further in the end, so the hand stayed there.

When Ye Xin was young, she went abroad to work hard and missed the growth of her daughter. When Ye Xin grew up, she rarely tried to make up for her daughter. After she returned to China, she had the opportunity to repair the relationship between mother and daughter, but because of her coldness and selfishness, she missed the opportunity again.

Some people may say that without the suffering of others, don’t persuade others to be good. But I want to say that as a parent, no excuse can be a reason for you to ignore your children.Especially in divorced families, some fathers think that if the child follows his mother, he has no obligation to raise him. This is an excuse he has made for his selfishness.

Jian Jia's life, some people may say that she lives very self-centeredly and gave up her beloved daughter in order to pursue her dreams. In the end, she finally achieved success.

But I want to say that Jian Jia's life is actually tragic. She doesn't believe in love because she has never received it. So she didn't have hope for Ye Xin's love.

She is not a qualified mother. She owes her daughter. One day, such guilt will make her feel unforgettable and regretful.

She is a delicate egoist who lives for herself all her life.

Compared with her selfishness, Ye Cunyuan is a qualified father. He raised his daughter alone, and later tried every means to ease Ye Xin's relationship with his ex-wife. Was he doing this for his ex-wife? He is for Ye Xin.

Ye Xin has no maternal love since childhood and has a straightforward personality. Because there is no maternal love, Ye Xin always has a lack in his heart. Because of family reasons, she took everything lightly.

Ye Cunyuan once told Zhou Yian: Ye Xin actually cried when handling Judge Tang's case. He was very pleased that his daughter could finally laugh when she was as happy as an ordinary girl and cry when she was sad.

For Ye Cunyuan, he did not ask his daughter to be rich and noble in this life, nor did he ask how outstanding his daughter is. He only asked his daughter to be like an ordinary girl, laughing when she is happy and crying when she is sad, that's all.

And this is his deepest fatherly love for his daughter.

In this regard, Jian Jia will never be able to compare with him.