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Ideal lovers cannot be equated with reality.
If you like watching TV shows, especially the handsome and rich look of the male lead, who looks very versatile.
You can like it, but you can’t find a partner by the people in the novel or TV series.
The ideal object, we will subconsciously beautify the image of the other party and will also fantasize many plots.
When you fall in love with someone, it is also very important how you view the other person.
01 makes you feel obsessed with and can be removed.
Falling in love with someone is not just the first sight, but the heartbeat is just the beginning, and getting along in the future is the real love.
Maybe what makes you fascinated is not just appearance, but also superficial things like body shape. It doesn’t seem obvious if you hide it.
You know how to appreciate the other person's unique beauty, this is your own wish.
This level of obsession is a kind of love, but it also requires subtraction.
You can control yourself, your love is not just about the same kind of tenderness as the other person.
What you need to do is to remind yourself sometimes that you can ask for it with greed, respect the other person, and give yourself more time.
When you can pull it out, you won’t feel that you love too much, and you can still be yourself.
The best state, you can see the real other person rather than the virtual lover.
02 Respect the other party’s differences.
When you feel that the perfect lover in your imagination appears in front of you, be satisfied at the beginning and do not be too full.
You cannot choose to compare your fantasy lover and his flawless look with the one in reality.
When you choose to compare, you will fail all your expectations and don’t know how to adjust your state.
When two people first contact each other, they will definitely see more advantages of each other. The disadvantage is that after getting along for a long time, you will find that it is important that you can still tolerate each other.
After all, it must be that they are special when they are attracted to each other. What you are willing to appreciate is something you agree with or you don’t have.
Love will begin with beautiful things. Don’t want your dream to be broken. It is best for two people to face it positively.
respects the other party’s gap. You can look at the differences from a different perspective, and you don’t have to rush to deny or criticize.
The tall image does not stop at the beginning, but the long years of the other person is still the little sun in your heart.
Especially for boys, boys like to find a girlfriend who can appreciate them, and they feel admiring, which will make them very happy.
I saw a female blogger who said how to make her husband fall in love with cooking?
Her performance in the video is a praising artist.
When cooking, I praised my husband's knife skills. After I was ready, I took photos and posted them on WeChat Moments to show off, and shared them with my good friends and family.
Her husband said on the surface that his cooking skills were just average, but he couldn't help laughing happily when he heard the words of praise in his heart.
Therefore, boys are recognized and think they are valued and respected, and they will naturally be full of joy.
respects the other party, is willing to appreciate it, and give it support and affirmation.
Like a person, you must respect him everything. What kind of method do you use will satisfy your needs.
Even if the other party knows your little thoughts, the other party is willing to do it for you because he feels happy and will not care too much.
Respect the other person’s differences, good or bad, and your choice to be tolerant will also make the other person more and more passionate and motivated.
