Similarly, some people pursue a sense of power, that is, if they happen to have some power and can make others suffer through this power, they will use their power, and they cannot make others happy, and must make others feel uncomfortable. It doesn’t have to be physical pain. For example, if it blocks you, it will make you unable to do something, and it will cause you some trouble and cause you psychological pain.
, this is to satisfy his sense of superiority, or his sense of power and desire for power. Just look, the more you suffer, the more you prove that I have power, and then having power is a very comfortable thing. The happiness brought by this transcends the pain caused by compassion.
There are also some people who are part of their hearts, which may be relatively weak, incompetent, or some characteristics that he cannot accept. Then the other part of his heart was not accepting himself, and the weaker part in his heart.
So in his real life, if he meets a person who is weak, it looks a bit like the weak part in his heart. Then he will find a way to bully the other party and cause pain to the other party. What is the psychology of such a person? He actually projected his own self-disappearance, and projected the part of himself that he did not accept in his heart onto others. Then, he expressed his disacceptance to a certain part of his heart by hurting this person, and expressed a kind of self-rejection. So there are many, many reasons that make a person happy in hurting others.
One reason is that it is relatively psychologically not so unhealthy. For example, if someone does hurt himself, then he will hurt him out of a revenge mentality. When you see this person who has hurt you before, the Avenger will feel relieved, a psychological side that finally gets revenge, a sense of comfort and happiness at that time.
In fact, from the perspective of mental health, it is still healthy and reasonable. Others who get happiness by hurting others are more or less unhealthy. So if there is someone who enjoys hurting others, if there is a way for the people around him, it is best to analyze what may be the reason for him? It is best to find a way to help him eliminate this bad knot in his heart. Then this person will also return to a normal and healthy mental state.
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