As long as there is a man, there must be a woman. It can be said that the number of cheating men and women is equivalent, otherwise one party’s cheating will never happen. This is inevitable. Despite this, the reasons for cheating between men and women are completely different, a

As long as there is a man, there must be a woman. It can be said that the number of cheating men and women is equivalent, otherwise one party’s cheating will never happen. This is inevitable. Despite this, the reasons for cheating between men and women are completely different, and the motives are different. The purpose of cheating for men is generally simple, as if it is to seek freshness and find fun through extramarital affair. Women are not like this. The reasons for their cheating are different but they are all very specific. The most common women cheating is for three types of "search". What do you think?

First, looking for illusory "true love"

Men and women have different concepts and mentalities about love. Relatively speaking, men focus on women's appearance, but women are not like this. They pursue love more romantically, prefer poetic and picturesque love life, and care more about their feelings when men and women are together. For this feeling, they will ignore other aspects and focus on emotions. In this case, they all fantasize and long for a beautiful love, have their own conditions for choosing a spouse, and have the standards for ideal candidates in their hearts.

However, ideals and reality are often inconsistent, and there are not many times when things are as wished. Many women do not meet the "prince charming" in their dreams when they get married. They only marry a man who they don't like or like for all reasons. They are not satisfied with the existing marriage. Getting married is to meet the needs of men and women. In this case, most women choose to accept the facts and face the reality. After marriage, the couple adapts to each other and works together and changes.

can be said to be without love before marriage and cultivate feelings after marriage. The marriage life is pretty good, and it has not affected the happiness of the family. Some of them are left to fate, and live with the flow, and make do with each other. However, some women are not like this. After entering marriage, they are not willing to accept this life that they do not want, are unwilling to be content with the status quo, always have an restless heart, and have some different thoughts and wishes in their hearts. The attitude and opinions in the family are to take one step at a time.

If they meet the candidates in their minds, they will fall in love with each other for the illusory "true love", or meet a man who is in line with the requirements in their minds. For some purpose and motivation, the other party begins to show kindness to the woman and launches an offensive. The woman is infected and moved by the so-called "true love", thus losing self-discipline and control, and making wrong choices, but due to various factors and restrictions, they cannot get together, so they use cheating to make up for the lack of feelings.

2. "Foreign aid" for finding material things

The world is composed of all kinds of people. It can be said that there are all kinds of people. Except for most women who have romantic complexes for love, they focus on choosing a partner, hoping to find a partner who is in love, but some women are not like this. Their requirements for getting married are more realistic. They hope that men have better external conditions or a strong economic foundation. It can be said that choices have strong utilitarian elements. They regard marriage as a transaction or exchange to a large extent, but sometimes wishes are beautiful.

The final result may not be as good as they wish. When they were married, they did not meet the conditions or were close to them. However, due to various reasons and the man who did not meet the requirements entered the marriage, the result was that his life was not satisfactory in the family. So they felt extremely disappointed and unfair, felt the grievances of their lives and felt pain. They always thought of having the opportunity to change the current situation, but they were always suffering from the lack of opportunities and conditions. At this time, at a certain period of time, they met a man who thought he was in line with expectations, and this man was willing to invest and contribute to the woman.

can fully meet the wishes and needs of a woman, and the woman will be moved by her, and the two of them will cheat because they have their own plans. Another situation is that when a woman first got married, the men she chose met the standards, but things always changed. After marriage, her family situation changed and she could not compare with the beginning, making her feel unable to adapt. Or because "there are heavens and there are people outside of the world", she encountered someone who is better and stronger than her men, who is greedy and greedy, and she makes profits through the improper way of cheating and benefiting from it.

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3. Looking for "missing" of care

As a husband and wife, we should respect each other and treat each other equally at home. Both parties should care for each other and accompany each other. However, in some families, the relationship between husband and wife is completely unequal. Men dominate the absolute position at home. In normal times, they do not know how to respect their wives at all and ignore the existence of each other. What's more, they also commit different forms of violence against their wives. Women have no status and dignity at home, are wronged and are very dissatisfied with the status quo. In this case, if they meet a man, they can cherish themselves and treat themselves well in all aspects.

forms a strong contrast with the husband's approach, and finds a beautiful experience that the family does not have, and will cheat in order to enjoy this comfortable process. There are also some families where men are extremely selfish and extremely self-centered. They only hope that their wives care about themselves and give their own efforts. They have never cared about their wives and are used to them. Over time, they will make their wives feel sad and disappointed. At this time, if you meet a man who knows his coldness and enthusiasm, cares about him and is completely different from his husband.

This makes women often warm and moved, and thus they have feelings for this man and cheat. Another situation is that men rarely spend time with their wives at home for various reasons. Many times women stay alone in the empty room, which makes women feel lonely, empty and helpless. If by chance, getting to know a certain man can make up for this shortcoming, some women do things that should not have because they can't stand loneliness. All of these are due to lack of care that women cheat in search of the "missed" part.