Men should get married when they are old and women should get married when they are old. This is the natural law of life.
No matter what job you do, when you reach the age of marriage, you need to consider your own marriage. If there is no suitable candidate around you, then blind dates will become the choice of many people.
There is an institution that likes the needs of young people and specializes in the marriage and love market. They label high-quality singles and attract many outstanding young people to find happiness. So, can really bring you fate?
Ms. He, who lives in Zhengzhou, signed up. She is 27 years old and has been single for several years.
Ms. He also had a relationship. The man's family is from the countryside. When the two talked about marriage, they found that the family gap was very big. What's more important is that their attitude towards the marriage could not be mediated.
In Ms. He's opinion, you can avoid a bride gift when you get married, but at least you have to buy a house so that your marriage will feel safe, and you will have basic conditions for having children in the future, otherwise it will be a problem to go to school.
But the man has different ideas, They think it is good to have a new house in the countryside. Isn’t a three-story building more comfortable than a small house in the city?
This is really not comparable. I can only say that my values are different, and I don’t have to strengthen my fusion. After giving up my relationship, Ms. He focused all her attention on her work. She was responsible for e-commerce operations, and her income was low and her salary was average, but her commission was high. Sometimes it could reach 50,000, and the average monthly salary was 30,000.
When she got money, Ms. He bought a house in full and also brought in a scooter worth more than 200,000 yuan. In her opinion, one must have fun in life, and having money means improving the quality of life.
The only drawback is that her love has not yet been settled. With her excellent conditions, some men around her regard her as friends and do not think about it from the perspective of lovers. The reason is very simple. She is too excellent and they feel pressured.
When I was online, Ms. He randomly registered her information online. She originally thought she would not have any reaction, but someone really contacted her and asked to introduce her to her.
The man I met for the first time was about 1.78 yuan, with excellent information, had his own company, and loved traveling, etc. After meeting, I found that the other party was very casual and greasy. After chatting for a while, he asked for a private photo of Ms. He. Ms. He smiled angrily: "What? I'm standing in front of you, don't you see enough? Do you still want the photos to go home to study?"
was criticized by her, and the man couldn't hold on his face, so he left.
The second man I met was divorced and he also brought a little boy. The little boy was very naughty and just played with her car key. Ms. He was really angry. She called the matchmaker and asked what it meant. Do you need to find a second-married man?
The matchmaker was not polite, and said to her: "Where are you in your age? It is normal to find a second-married man. As long as the other party has good conditions, what can I consider?"
Ms. He told the matchmaker that if you want a match for the conditions, you must be at least 1.8 meters tall, an annual salary of one million, and have independent housing.
Before she could finish her words, the matchmaker retorted, "Do you have a psychological problem? You need to go to a psychologist?"
is not very harmful and is extremely insulting. Are matchmakers so presumptuous now?
Coincidentally, there is a girl from 1994 who has encountered similar things on the Internet.
The girl saw a blind date website online. Maybe she had watched If You Are the One more, and she really thought it was the beginning of romance, so she signed up for the blind date. The matchmaker of the
website called her and told her that if she wanted to find a high-quality single person, she would pay a membership fee of 18,000 first, and they would give her priority.
The girl was very simple and took out all her savings without hesitation. She saw that she had never fallen and fought. She also watched too little documentaries about counterfeiting. She thought she would see the prince charming soon. In fact, there were men, but the prince could not be.
received the money, and the staff introduced her to two men, and they met on the same afternoon, which was enough to show the other party's eagerness. You should know that members only had five chances to meet. This arrangement that only deals with quantity and regardless of quality is simply a waste of time.
Sure enough, the two men looked like they had no intention of blind dates, and they just chatted simply, and they didn't mention any entertainment for the girl. After they left liked each other, the staff called her and said, "None of them likes you. You should dress up next time on a blind date and buy a few decent clothes."
"Isn't blind dates just about real? I hope to find someone who likes me, instead of needing me to cater to the other party's ." The girl realized that she had been cheated, and even if she met a few times, she would not meet the person she liked. The reason was very simple. The people who came to meet you were invited by the company to play guest roles.
You are determined to find a partner, and the other party is just grabbing your weakness and want you to spend more money.
In life, there are many single young people of appropriate age who need to find a partner. They often lose the confidence to find love after a few breakups. In fact, love is not difficult, the key is that you must have confidence.
1. Expand your social circle. Instead of playing with your mobile phone at home, it is better to go to the library to read books. Most of the libraries in are people who like to read. Even if you don’t meet someone with destiny all at once, it’s good to settle down in such a cultural environment. If you meet someone you like on the corner of the bookshelf, you may become a relationship.
2. All money is spent, so that you can stay away from it if you pay. is not easy for everyone to make money. Those who introduce you to someone under the banner of membership have an ulterior motive behind it. If we don’t be leeks, we must stay away from it.
3. Care more about your friends around you, and your sincerity will help you. The reputation of people is spread. Friends around you know whether you are good or not. Getting along with friends around you may have a good relationship with friends. Maybe a friend who meets a good person will remember to introduce him to you.
4. Go back to your hometown to have a blind date, and you will feel more atmospheric . There is really no need to reject blind dates in my hometown. It is a higher success rate than when you are away from home. The matchmaker in my hometown pays great attention to word of mouth. When she is making connections, she will understand the conditions of both parties. If you have been working outside, the other party will also introduce people working in the same city to you, so that you can meet each other and join hands to create a future together.
Summary:
people do whatever they are at.
If you are in a wonderful year, don’t give up dating for work. Sometimes, a beautiful love can sublimate your life.
Of course, it is not recommended to seek medical treatment in a hurry. Don’t fall in love for the sake of falling in love. You should manage yourself first to attract people with the same frequency to come to your side. As the saying goes, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-