Real love is acceptance, not tolerance, support, not domination; you should thank you, apologize; you should be considerate and considerate.
Love a person is not possessing one person. Everyone is an independent individual, with his own thoughts, his own unique way of doing things, and even a way of thinking about problems. When we choose to love someone, we must choose to love everything he has.
Many couples in love cannot live a dull life of food, food, oil and salt after getting married. The reason is nothing more than that in life, they cannot tolerate all the shortcomings of each other. But have you ever thought about it? They grew up in two environments. Even if they are similar, they cannot be exactly the same. There are always some personal habits that are different. To give a simple example, some people brush their teeth first and then wash their faces, while others wash their faces first and then brush their teeth. It’s just that their habits are different. Some people can accept it, but some people will feel awkward.
In life, you must be equal, and in family, you must share responsibility. It is not that whoever loves more should do more. Take my husband and I for example. When he cooks, I will clean the kitchen. I will not do it for him just because he is willing to do it. I will take care of his feelings. Sometimes when the bathroom is dirty, I will ask him to clean it. Even if he doesn’t clean it well and I will clean it up again after it is finished, I will still ask him to clean it up occasionally and let him and I organize our home together. Loving someone is not that he doesn’t let him do anything, but that he takes care of his family, but that he should organize and take care of his own home together.
You must understand that true love is not about not knowing the fireworks of the world, but about working together in one direction, working together. People are born imperfect. In love, we are not looking for a perfect person, but in a smoky life, we learn to look at imperfect people with a perfect perspective, love the advantages of love, and love their shortcomings. Life is a problem that is superimposed on one problem. Don’t expect everything to be perfect, just try to be perfect.
This world fireworks, I hope that you and I will not ask for a stunning life for the rest of our lives, but I hope that every day will be healthy and safe, and a plain life will be immersed in peace and warmth!
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