In love, many people are tortured by "love but not get it". The problem goes over and over again, but it is just "the people I like don't like me."
For this person, we let go of our dignity, personality, stubbornness, and even all principles, and show our kindness humbly and carefully, but we fail to get the desired result.
Some people are depressed, some are unwilling to accept it, and some are still entangled and reluctant to let go. Even if they are in a mess, they want to hold the sand that disperses with just raised their hands.
Let go, I feel unwilling to accept it; continue to wait, but there is no result, the road is wronged and the road is difficult, and it is still the one who tortured in the end.
When the person you like doesn’t like you, the best way is just four words.
1. Infatuated to the end
Since you can't let go and you can't say goodbye, no matter the ending, even if you know that you can only accompany him for a while, you are willing to do so, so be infatuated to the end.
Continue to wait, continue to give, turn yourself into the type he likes, find a way to make him like you, and pursue him with a stern face.
Maybe there will be love over time, but there are few. Long-term one-way efforts may make him choose to be with you, but it won’t last long.
People who don’t like you will not like you no matter what you do; if he likes you, he will accept you when you first confess.
You like someone, you try, you work hard, if you can't get it, after expressing your love unruly, you are finally rejected by , perfunctory, cold words, harsh words, , and are beaten back step by step, bit by bit, , until your heart is ashamed.
So, when you persist and want to win someone who doesn’t like you, you must be prepared to be self-profit and lose, be prepared to be abandoned after being together, and be prepared to have someone to replace you at any time.
At that time, you cannot complain, cry, or say you are wronged. All efforts begin with willingness. Because, is a bet that you won't win.
2. Give up decisively
The person you like doesn’t like you, then accept the reality and give up decisively.
When we like someone, we always like to compete with ourselves. In order to catch up with each other, we do whatever we want, and wait for an impossible person, and walk a path that no one cares about.
The world of adults, what they like and what they don’t like, is actually better than anyone else.
Not taking the initiative means not caring, not contact means not important, not responding means not liking, and silence is the answer.
Smart people know that for those who don’t have their own hearts, all persistence and unwillingness are empty, which will not only hurt themselves, but also lose their dignity.
Instead of this, if you stop letting go and compromise, you will not be able to get the other party's favor. It is better to stop the loss in time and turn around neatly.
requires you to spend your time pleasing to please and not get a response, so there is really no need to hold on.
Because when you like it, you have tried your best, and you have done your best within your ability and cannot have an ideal ending, forget it.
3. Let yourself go
What really tortures you is not anyone's ruthlessness, but your fantasy expectations.
For those who are not destined to love, do not force them to stay, and do not torture themselves, but learn to love themselves.
If you don’t have the fate, you can’t keep it when the fate is over, and the fate cannot be driven away. It’s better to accept everything calmly.
Life is too short, stop loss in time, learn to stay away, Let go of time, and withdraw in time, which is the best way to release oneself.
Good and bad things are all experiences, mutual likes, one-sided likes, and all likes them.Since this love is just one-way, let yourself temporarily sink, but remember to be awake in time.
If you don’t work hard, you can’t escape the ending of being together. It’s better to leave tactfully.
Some like it, and you can go to the end after confessing your love; some like it, even if you try your best, it will be a waste.
Whether you like it or not, you must be honest and open-minded. If you like it, you like it. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. You can get out of it at any time.
There are some scenery that are only suitable for meeting and then hidden in your heart; some people are only suitable for meeting, you can accompany me for a while, get off the bus when you arrive at the station, and each will go for the future.
We just need to cherish the fate when it comes, and say goodbye if you don’t have the chance. Don’t leave too many regrets in the future, so that you can live up to your encounter.
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