To girls who dare not drive: After driving, you will feel that your life is different

I often hear some girls say that their husbands or boyfriends can drive and they don’t want to drive. What’s so good about driving? Today I want to tell them from my own personal experience: driving is simply amazing! After driving, you will feel that your life has become different!

I never thought that one day I would fall in love with driving.

Once I was a person who wanted to get motion sick when I saw a car. When I got into the car, I felt nervous when I touched the steering wheel.


Of course, I first overcome the problem of motion sickness. In fact, it is nothing, just take more cars, and you won’t get dizzy. I also give myself confidence from the heart: I won’t get motion sickness! This is enough. Motion sickness is a kind of psychological hint. You firmly believe that you will not get motion sickness and do not take any measures to prevent motion sickness (such as taking motion sickness medicine , etc.), and slowly you will not get motion sickness.

After I succeeded in turning myself into a person who won't get motion sickness for a long time in the car, I still didn't expect that one day I would drive proficiently.

Because I saw those cars slowly moving in the crowd, there was a kind of "fortunately I didn't drive".

I also give myself many reasons not to drive: for example, it’s good for my husband to drive, as long as one person at home can drive is enough; for example, you can take a taxi wherever you go, and the taxi fare is many times cheaper than keeping a car; Driving is too tiring, and the co-driver is more comfortable; with the burden of a car, sometimes there will be disputes with people, insurance is troublesome, it is better to feel at ease without a car; walking to work can also exercise and so on.

The above reasons are all because I have never driven a car. This is how things in this world are. After you do it, you discover how beautiful it is. If you don’t do it, you say it’s bad. That’s because you didn’t. Try it for its convenience and comfort.

made me decide to buy a car, because my feet have a lot of discomfort from walking to work.

My home is about two kilometers away from my work. I walked for 20 minutes. Originally, I thought that I would take a few trips this day to exercise, but in fact, my feet are almost gone.

Because I like to wear professional attire,Then I have to wear leather shoes with heels. I didn’t dare to wear the 7 cm high heels at all. Then my feet hurt after only a few steps. I wear low heel leather shoes. Although walking is more comfortable, it takes time. If you grow up, you will not be able to eat your feet, and you will not be able to exercise your body at all. Because you must wear running shoes or sports shoes when you exercise. Who wears leather shoes? And I can't tolerate my clothes with sneakers or small white shoes. Because I don’t look good at all in casual clothes. I have a sense of sight of a middle-aged aunt. Wearing professional attire is immediately exquisite and temperamental.


Secondly, there is a steep slope at the back door of my community, which is not convenient to walk. That steep slope, wearing high heels, is really uncomfortable at all, and then I have to walk several times this day, which made me feel daunted as soon as I arrived at the back door of the community.

Thirdly, I sometimes want to go to the suburbs and have to consider the car problem. Sometimes I have to go with my friends, and sometimes my husband accompanies me. If no one goes with me, I can’t go.

In the past four years, I will quarrel because my husband refuses to drive me.

So I decided to force myself to drive. Before I had the guts to drive, I quickly bought a car!

I got my driver's license nine years ago. At that time, a friend invited me to take the test together. The test went well. After I got the driver's license, I kept pressing on the bottom of the box and didn't dare to drive.

Now I want to come, and I am very grateful to myself who took the driver’s license test nine years ago.

Now if I have to take the driver's license test, I guess I have to hesitate again, after all, this is a bit difficult.

During the ten-odd days of waiting for the bus, I went to the driving school to find a coach to take me to practice the car. It was about one or two hundred yuan an hour. In fact, in the past few years, I have also sought a coach to practice, but I did not succeed. Because I am a thin-skinned person and like a coach with a better attitude to teach. That coach, I always feel that it is not casual with him. After taking two classes, I will do it without improvement.

This time the coach was introduced by a friend of mine, and he had a good attitude, like a spring breeze. My nervousness quickly disappeared. After three training sessions, I was actually looking forward to driving.

This is the first step in progress,From rejection, fear to expectation, it turns out that there is a coach's distance away!


After I got the new car, I asked this coach to accompany me to practice the new car again. Although I was still a little bit cautious, I still got on the road boldly. After months of practice, I drove more It's getting smoother and smoother, and there is really only one cool word to describe that feeling.

1. The radius of life has expanded several times. In the past, I basically moved around in the vicinity. Now I can go to the surrounding counties and cities and open a navigation system. I don’t know how free and easy it is. Nothing can become an obstacle to my travel. Sometimes when I'm in a bad mood, I drive a car to the suburbs by myself, listening to music while enjoying the beautiful scenery around me. The kind of comfort I have never experienced before.

2. Brings a lot of convenience to family and relatives. The whole family is traveling. My car is very useful. I don’t have to think about renting a car or whether it’s convenient to take a driver. I enthusiastically respond to big family activities. My parents, brothers and sisters enjoy the convenience. People have fun together. Sometimes when my daughter wants to go, I kick the accelerator and the two of them will go on a trip.

3. People become more confident. Holding the steering wheel and wearing a seat belt, he has the arrogance of doing whatever he wants. Don't worry about getting caught in the rain, and the big sun doesn't worry about being exposed to the sun. Sitting in the car is full of safety and happiness. The feeling from my heart: Oh my God, it turns out that life is so interesting, and life can be so free and easy.

So, girls, when you drive, you will never think about relying on others, the road is under your own feet, and the steering wheel is in your own hands. Independence is the life you should have!

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