A priceless bracelet is a gift from the mother-in-law to the new daughter-in-law, who is an outsider and cherishes it.
However, in the blink of an eye, the new wife felt repelled in her new home, because the bracelet that the mother-in-law kept boasting was fake!
Liu Yin worked hard in Shanghai for ten years. When she was about to get married, she faced her generous mother-in-law. She thought that the bracelet on her wrist was a gift from her husband’s family, but she did not expect it to be a gift. Pile things up. The enthusiastic mother-in-law faces her prospective daughter-in-law who is working hard in Shanghai. She doesn't smile, she says to send the bracelets handed down from Liu Yinzu, but secretly jokes that Liu Yin is a small door, and she is not "worthy" to Shanghai. Born native son.
So, the smart mother-in-law gave her prospective daughter-in-law a ‘high price’ gift, almost ruining the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law thinks that giving the daughter-in-law a fake bracelet will do nothing, because she wants to leave it to her daughter. However, by chance, Liu Yin discovered that the bracelet was fake, and the family relationship became increasingly tense.
The family blamed each other for the fake bracelet. The mother-in-law believed that Liu Yin had sold the bracelet and used the fake to impersonate it. However, Liu Yin thought that her mother-in-law looked down on people and did not regard herself from the small town as her own family. When the family dispute was about to be irreparable, the bridegroom-to-be jumped out: I broke the bracelet! Worried about being scolded for buying an imitation.
Mother-in-law and Liu Yin were stunned. There was originally a trust issue between the two, but now they face the truth with mixed feelings. The bracelet in the play is a fuse. From the fake to getting the truth, and then to continue the money to treat the disease, it is found that the bracelet was sold at a low price by a girlfriend. The back family and Lele.
However, in reality, can the broken relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really be repaired?
Ami is thirty years old. She has talked with her boyfriend for more than three years. When he is about to get married, he visits her future mother-in-law.The boyfriend was brought up by the mother-in-law, and the relationship between mother and child is very good. Soon, Ami married her boyfriend. After only one month of marriage, she found out that she was incompatible with the whole family. First, the mother-in-law provoked, and then the husband stood unconditionally and spoke for her. And she, a cheerful person from before marriage, gradually became less and less reluctant to talk at home.
Every day after get off work, Ami will make an appointment with his colleagues to go out to drink and sing. Regardless of family affairs, her mother-in-law calls her, but she can’t see her. Later, the mother-in-law quit automatically and did not live with the young couple. The relationship between the young couple gradually improved. However, the good times didn't last long, and the mother-in-law suddenly became seriously ill.
"You are the old idea, are children so important? I said before, after we get married, we don't want children! Even if I do, I will only have a daughter. I don't need to prepare a car or a house in the future!"
"Ami, My mother has pulled me from childhood to adulthood, just wanting to hold the baby..."
"You shut up! When you were in love, you made it clear, but now you have to regret it!"
"But, your parents It also urges us to have children. They were only twenty-six or seven years old. Three years or more is enough to change a person’s mind."
"Huh! You just want me to be a nanny for you, how terrible the living conditions will be in the future," The child was born and had no good life, so let us suffer? We didn’t buy a house or a car. We all came from the countryside. Is it possible to take the child back to the countryside to study in the future?”
Ami went crazy , Resolutely don't want children, the young couple quarreled because of their mother-in-law's illness. The two of them didn't let the other, and both believed that their own ideas were right, regardless of the other's ideas.
The mother-in-law's illness gradually recovered, and Ami used this matter to speak again, accusing her mother-in-law of being ignorant and threatening others by means. The young couple quarreled every day. The mother-in-law wanted to live for a while, and the relationship with Ami's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became even more tense. They never came back to the country. After
, the young couple are about to get divorced, and the sweetness of the newly-married is gone...
If Ami wants to save this marriage,What should I do?
First, we must re-examine the relationship between the two. The two have known each other for so long before they got married, and they had a deep relationship later, so they proposed to get married. However, because of their living habits and thoughts after marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became increasingly tense and was slowly consumed. The mother-in-law and Ami are two generations. Later, the mother-in-law went back to live in the country alone. She also wanted to make room for the two. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law might be repaired.
Second, both sides step back. People who live together, if they are not those who grew up, often have a single sentence, which can lead to a bunch of things. Newly married, Ami has been longing for a beautiful newlywed life, but unfortunately she was broken by her mother-in-law, so the dissatisfaction in her heart accumulated more and more. Finally, when her mother-in-law was ill, she proposed to hold her grandson, and concentrated on erupting. A family, living together, need to be considerate of each other, if everyone wants to be beautiful, family conflicts will be on the verge of breaking out.
Third, with regard to children’s issues, family members need to sit down and discuss carefully, and don’t act impulsively. Many people say that the poor are not worthy of having children, but they are viewed from the perspective of God. It is really hard to raise a child without money, but the family has been struggling for half a lifetime. Isn’t it possible to raise a child? It depends on whether you are willing to sacrifice something for the child. If you really don’t want children, you must discuss with your family to please, and don’t do things sullenly.
In " mother-in-law's bracelet ", Liu Yin faces the same problem as Ami, but Liu Yin's attitude towards her mother-in-law is not negative, but starts from the source. Mother-in-law's thoughts are definitely different from those of the younger generation. For the mother-in-law, Liu Yin desperately praised her mother-in-law's thigh when it was time to praise her, so that it would be easier to integrate into the whole family.
However,Being a daughter-in-law is not just giving in. Mother-in-law's words should be listened to, and when they should be opposed, they should also be opposed. Old people like to use experience to talk about things. They always feel that young people are not stable at all and worry that their son will suffer losses. If Liu Yin is improperly pissed off, she will definitely bring up any words or dissatisfaction, so as to avoid some misunderstandings.
In life, a few small misunderstandings pile up and they turn into big explosions. When I look back for conflicts and conflicts, I find that the matter takes a step back and gives way. Perhaps the development is completely different...
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always been conflicting groups, whether it is Liu Yin or Ami, As long as you face it positively, you can always find a solution to the problem!
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