"Everything is good" This urban ethics drama is co-starred by Yao Chen and Guo Jingfei and Ni Dahong. The trivial things of the native family are shown as picturesque in the form of film and television works. Using the contradictions and disputes of the Su family to show the current problems of "gnawing the old", "mambo", and "patriarchy" that occurred in the real society. Su Mingzhe is the image of the eldest brother in "Everything is pretty good". He has both ability and political integrity since he was a child. Later he went directly to overseas prestigious schools to study abroad. After graduation, he has been living overseas. This is the pride of the Su family. The second child Su Mingcheng has no outstanding performance in all aspects, and his temperament is a bit impatient. However, he is very favored and his parents would rather give him all the money.
So for the Su family, the boss Su Mingzhe can be said to be the greatest pride, and he is also the most promising person in the Su family. Su Ming's achievement is a typical image of gnawing the old and Mabao, always relying on the money of the old couple to find work, fall in love, get married, and so on. From the perspective of education and work, family life, and things done for the Su family, the boss is particularly filial. However, since the death of his mother Zhao Meilan and Su Mingzhe returned to his hometown, everything seems to have changed. "Complete filial piety" is a word that Su Mingzhe often talks about. He often uses the tone of "full filial piety" to educate Su Mingcheng and Su Mingyu . When I first saw "all are pretty good", I thought that Su Mingzhe was a good brother who was willing to make "filial piety". I never thought that he was the most ruthless person in the Su family. It was indeed very ironic!
Su Mingzhe makes his own decisions without discussing with his wife. He is good at cutting first and playing later: I remember a scene in the TV series very clearly, Su Mingzhe wanted to take his father and Su Daqiang . Did not discuss with his wife Wu Fei,Quietly sent the materials for the face-to-face sign to Old Man Su. After learning the truth, Wu Fei must be very angry, after all, it was a matter of two people. As a result, Su Mingzhe acted arbitrarily, obviously disrespecting his wife. Moreover, Su Mingzhe is a typical "stand-to-talk without backache", pushing everything to Wu Fei, but he himself can't bear anything. Wu Fei said that it is not suitable for Su Daqiang to come to the United States. After all, they are also under a lot of pressure. They have to pay back the house loan without deposits. Later, Su Mingzhe has no job, so Wu Fei’s worries are normal. Nevertheless.
However, Su Mingzhe insists on going his own way. This is a bit improper. It can be seen that it is different from Mingcheng. Mingcheng has excellent emotional intelligence and is good at coaxing his wife, but what about Mingzhe? It's totally two, completely disobeying his wife, basically making Wu Fei suffer himself. Wu Fei and Zhu Li, the two daughters-in-law, we can find obvious differences. Zhu Li is the kind of little woman who is known to be careful and loving, but Wu Fei basically carries everything on her own. We can see that Wu Fei not only picked up his daughter by himself, but also returned home with a lot of things while holding his daughter. It can be said that he was very tired. In this case, he had to be with the child. After marrying Mingzhe, Wu Fei was very tired by herself, but Mingzhe didn't care too much about her tired feeling. It can be accurately said that this is a very failed man, not only failed as the eldest son and elder brother, but also failed as the husband and father. When he was in the Su family, as long as Su Daqiang had something wrong, he would only accuse Mingcheng and Mingyu, as if he had no responsibility at all. You must know that he was not with Dad at that time.
His filial piety is more out of the pursuit of the eldest son's sense of identity, existence and vanity, which reduces the living standards of his wife and children. In reality, we can often see such people who want to face and suffer, especially our Chinese people. It's like "Skills can be killed but not insulted", "Slap a swollen face to fill a fat man" and other common sayings; as long as friends eat together, I must entertain them; in order to buy luxury goods, I will not hesitate to spend a few months as a price; Is the economy allowed,In order to prevent people from seeing the jokes, even if the couple’s relationship is broken, they have to fool around in front of others...
In fact, there is a person who has face. , It’s not how well-dressed and ostentatious it is, but it’s calm and low-key, strong but not pretentious, won’t hold one foot on one another, and won’t suffer for the sake of face. We don't expect to be the top of others' hearts. We just ask for a clear conscience. What we need to care about most is lining, which is more important than face. When there is no level of maintenance, face will not exist, after all, the face has not been achieved. Only when the lining is thick, the face can grow and irrigate the soil, otherwise everything is worry-free. The same is true for home decoration. There must be a choice of wallpaper fixing cloth with both appearance and quality, and a wall base film with environmental protection, high quality and high efficiency must be selected for the wallpaper glue and wall treatment for pasting it.