The most direct manifestation of a man’s fear of losing a woman: becoming stupid

"Women in love are fools", I believe many people have heard this sentence, but in fact, it's not just women. When a man falls in love, he can't help but change unconsciously. Silly, this is a very normal thing.

Maybe in everyone's eyes, men are more rational creatures and may not fall into a relationship too deep.

But the reality is not like this. For many men, once they have their beloved woman and the object they want to protect, they will desperately try their best to protect her.

And in this process, men often become stupid unconsciously.

And this is not because their IQ is not online, but because they care too much about girls, so they have these performances.


First of all, his stupidity may be manifested in that he is somewhat "silly and honest", and this is also manifested in many ways.

For example, the most typical thing is that he may be very straight, and he will unilaterally just want to pay, and want to give you all the things he thinks is the best.

And at this time, they have a passion and enthusiasm, and this kind of enthusiasm is often nowhere to be placed.

Therefore, in this case, he may have overlooked your feelings and your real needs, thus becoming blind and lacking pertinence.


There may be many times when he buys very good things, but it still does not meet your wishes and does not meet your needs. This kind of moment will make you think he is stupid .

But this is not because he is stupid, on the contrary, it is precisely because he loves you so much that he has so much enthusiasm. He wants to give you a brain, even in this kind of fanatical passion. How you feel.

And this kind of "stupid" is precisely because they care about you, love you,Fear of losing your performance.


Secondly, in love, or in marriage, men are not always able to remain rational. Many times, they will have moments of losing their minds, or even directly become stupid.

Because I love you so much, when I do a lot of things, I don’t think much of my brain. Whatever I say and what I do will make people feel weird, even stupid.

For example, he will stand out for you. When you are bullied, he may rush to your side as soon as possible to beat up the person who bullied you, but often because they are too impulsive. Pay the price.


However, this stupidity is not that they are really reckless, but because they love you too much, want to be with you too much, and are afraid of losing you, so they are so impulsive and too late to think. Too late to get through the brain.

So, when they are a little bit reckless, it’s not because of how impulsive they are. On the contrary, they care about you too much, so they are desperate to leave everything behind, too late to think, and "save you from the fire and water." "Medium", just in exchange for your stability and happiness.

This is not stupid performance, but cares about you and cherish your characteristics.


Finally, when a man really cares about you and is afraid of losing you, he will also be stupid towards you.

For example, he can hardly tell lies in front of you, because if he is honest, he can be discovered by you as long as he lies. This is not stupid, but because he doesn’t really want to deceive you, he cares about you. , I don't want you to be deceived by lies.

When facing you, he will always behave in a naive way, he has no intentions, no cautiousness and little tricks,He will always open the door to you, sincerely.


So you may think that he is very stupid and stupid. When facing you, he will only smile and treat you stupidly, but these are also manifestations of loving you.

When he is afraid of losing you, he will definitely have no reservations in front of you, no scheming at all, in order to protect you, he will definitely do his best and become stupid, which is often conceivable .

So, in fact, women should also cherish men who are often stupid around you, because they care about you, that's why they do.

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