A big city has a dream and a small city has a home. How can I not regret it?

The daughter of neighbour Wang Jie graduated this year and chose to stay and work in Beijing. Sister Wang was unhappy when she talked about it.

In life, many families will encounter such problems. Children and parents disagree because of the chosen job and city. Parents are looking for stability, and children are chasing dreams. Everyone is right, but they have different ideas.

My friend’s sister, after graduating from her parents, chose to go home and worked in a fourth-tier city for two years. She told her parents many times that she wanted to work in a big city, but her family didn't agree.

Later she had a big quarrel with her parents, resigned and went to Shanghai. With the help of classmates, I entered a company to work.

Slowly adapt to the life of the big city. It has been four years now. Seeing each other this year, I feel a lot more mature. She said: "I have no regrets about the original choice, even if I am tired every day. I don't want the kind of life that can be seen at a glance. Life needs to be constantly tossed, and I will never give up on myself at any time, because the dream is ahead. Wait for me."

My colleague’s 25-year-old son, graduated from college and returned home to work as a middle school teacher. The family bought him a car and a two-bedroom house. "I am a low-spirited person and I like a simpler life. I don't need a big stage, I just want to be a good teacher. The fast-paced life in a big city is not suitable for me." said a colleague's son.

Everyone's thoughts and choices are different, and we cannot assume that who is right and who is wrong. Both big cities and small cities have their own advantages, and there are bound to be relative disadvantages.

You choose a big city that has a fast development speed, many job opportunities, and a high salary level.Then you have to bear the pressure of all aspects (employment pressure, housing price pressure, price pressure), and from time to time the emotion of "being alone in a foreign country as a stranger, thinking about family every holiday season".

If you choose a stable and comfortable life in a small city, you have to accept the ordinary life.

Actually, no matter whether you choose a big city or a small city, the one that really suits you is the best. As long as you work hard enough, life can give you more than you think.